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5 Surefire Ways to Train Your Kid to Use Porn

3. Noncommunicative couples.

Porn Training—Married couples communicate less and less, a requirement for porn enjoyment.

One of the common complaints I hear from couples in marriage counseling is the couple’s lack of communication.

They hardly talk to each other. If they do talk, it’s usually about family events, mutual transactions and marital business.

Noncommunication is a prerequisite for the porn trainee because viewing porn is not a verbal endeavor. Pornography is enjoyment for the twisted heart that does not require verbal interaction.

The children of noncommunicative parents are trained in the devaluing of words, which is also a devaluing of the opposite sex. A man who does not talk to his wife is sending a loud message—she is not worthy of my words.

Nothing devalues a woman more than pornography.

The female is objectified only for the purpose of being used in a slavish way to satisfy the putrid mind of a man. Talking is not part of this scenario.

Let no corrupting talk come out of your mouths, but only such as is good for building up, as fits the occasion, that it may give grace to those who hear.Ephesians 4:29 (ESV)

Husbands, your children need to see the value you give your wife by giving her your best words throughout your day. These are words that build up, cherish, nourish and adore your wife. Show the value you place on the woman you married. Let her be exalted in the minds of your children.

Talking well is not only valuing the person, but it’s exalting the use of words. This is one of the most powerful ways the LORD builds us up—through His Words.

All Scripture is breathed out by God and profitable for teaching, for reproof, for correction and for training in righteousness, that the man of God may be competent, equipped for every good work.2 Timothy 3:16-17 (ESV)