Discipline That Disciples

Bible Talk

When it comes to setting up classroom rules, most teachers create their own. Instead, use imperatives from Scripture the next time you need to train a child. The following are biblical corrections for common things kids say.

  • “He hit me first!” — “Make sure that nobody pays back wrong for wrong, but always try to be kind to each other …” (1 Thessalonians 5:15)
  • “She’s stupid!” “Do not let any unwholesome talk come from your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up …” (Ephesians 4:29)
  • “You’re not my friend anymore!” “Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.” (Ephesians 4:32)
  • “You’re not my boss!” “Everyone must submit himself to the governing authorities, for there is no authority except that which God has established.” (Romans 13:1)
  • “Why do I have to do that?!” “Your attitude should be the same as that of Christ Jesus … taking the very nature of a servant.” (Philippians 2:5-7)

But a Child

I am but a child
whether big or small.

I don’t always obey the rules
or even know them all.

But please be patient with me.
I’m really truly trying.

It’s just sometimes my energy
makes my feet and mouth go flying!

I am growing up so fast
and going through such changes.

It seems as if ‘most every day
my whole world rearranges.

I need your help to be my best,
We’re family you know.

So if I’m getting out of line
please kindly tell me “no.”

— Susan L. Gordon   

Ken McDuff is a children’s pastor in Bakersfield, California.