The deeper element of honesty is to understand why people lie. There are many possible reasons, such as gaining control, hiding, getting what they want, avoiding consequences, and the list goes on.
You can’t control others’ decisions about truth-telling or lying, but you can help cultivate a healthy environment that champions honesty and presents consequences for lying.
8. Joy Is an Option That You Can Choose.
Patti brings sunshine into our home, even on “rainy” days. I’m sure you know people like that. They change the atmosphere of the room. They make holidays better, birthdays more fun, and their smile or laughter just makes you feel better.
I learned long ago that joy is a choice. You don’t need to have the same upbeat personality and charisma that Patti does, but all of us can choose joy. My natural wiring is more serious, but I choose to be light-hearted. How about you?
Leadership is tough, but it doesn’t have to be gloomy. Joy is not only a gift (fruit) from the Holy Spirit; it’s a disposition you can choose.
A joyful spirit is like a magnet; it draws people in. Your ability to encourage and inspire others to follow the vision and even respond to Jesus is shaped by your joy.
9. Positive Encouragement Is the Best Motivator, and Belief Is Oxygen to the Soul.
Encouragement is 51% of leadership. When it’s sincere and consistent, it can actually change the trajectory of someone’s life.
Honestly, I don’t believe it’s possible to encourage someone too much. Patti and the kids have always responded positively to my encouragement. I’ll bet you have a similar experience with your family.
And in contrast, I don’t know anyone who responds well to criticism.
When you add to encouragement a deep belief in someone, that is in who they are and who they can become, the outcomes are transformational.
Consider how you respond to someone who truly believes in you and encourages you. It’s one of the greatest gifts you can ever receive, one you no doubt are profoundly grateful for.
