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The Simplest Way Anyone Can Change the World Today

Want to change the world today?

Look at someone and really listen when they talk to you.

That’s it.

Looking at someone when you talk to them in a room full of other people is one of the easiest ways to change the world by loving people.

The other day, I was halfway in a conversation with a new friend when I found my eyes wandering.

What’s going on over there? Is there someone else I’d rather talk to? I wonder what they are talking about over there? I can’t wait to go talk to that other person.

Extroverts. Introverts. We all do this.

It’s so subtle, but I think how we respond to individual conversations in a big crowd is sometimes a great indication of whether we are leaning toward selfishness or selflessness.

Most of us walk into huge rooms with one agenda … ME.

Who will notice me?

Who said hi to me?

Who’s pursuing me?

Who’s listening to me?

Who noticed my outfit? My hair? My voice?

Who noticed I wasn’t here last week?

I suppose I understand why it’s hard for us to focus on anyone when we come in pre-loaded with those expectations.

I get it. But I can’t imagine what would happen if we flipped the scripts.

What if we actually looked people in the eye? Like we cared.

What if we listened with our eyes? Nodded. Amen-ed. Engaged. Asked questions.

What if we came into a room and asked …

Who can I notice?

Who can I say hi to?

Who can I pursue?

Who can I listen to?

Whose outfit can I compliment?

Who wasn’t here tonight?

What would happen if we did that?

I’ll tell you what would happen. We would be love. We would change someone’s life.

I. 
guarantee.
it.

I’m not saying that to be dramatic. It’s true. 

If people walked away from talking to you feeling more loved than they did right before they talked to you, you will be a world changer.

Do you want to be a world changer?

Yea, well, here’s a great place to start. Next time you talk to someone in a room full of people, look at them and actually listen and really listen.

It’s not flashy and you won’t get a trophy or gold star, but you very well could be that little nudge that someone has been waiting for. You could change the world.

Who is the best listener you know and why (i.e., what makes a good listener)? Also, is it ever hard for you to pay attention to one person when you’re in a room full of people?   

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Sammy grew up in Nigeria. He is currently the Young Adult Pastor at North Point Church. He's also a national speaker for The Mocha Club. He lives in Ohio with his wife Ashley, daughter Bebe and saint bernards MJ and Milo.