7 practical and everyday ways to encourage:
1) Communicate hope.
Life is wonderful, but it can be difficult. The parts of life that are difficult in nature are heavy and weigh people down. When you encourage someone, you lift them up.
As a leader, you communicate hope by speaking with a positive bias about the present and future. This isn’t hype; it’s genuine hope because you believe the best.
We all know that parts of life are tough, and being real is essential, but you don’t have to get stuck and dwell there. That doesn’t help. Finding solutions and communicating a better way is uplifting!
2) Make the conversation about them.
When you listen to someone, you give them a great gift because you let them know you value them as a person.
It’s always good to be interesting and bring energy to the conversation, but it’s even better to make the conversation about the other person. One of the best ways to do that is to ask questions.
Questions are another way to communicate value because it lets the person know you care about them.
People are fascinating, and I love their stories. If you dig just a little, you can discover really interesting things about them and often learn something at the same time.
When you genuinely enjoy the process, they feel it and are very encouraged.
3) Express belief.
Few things in life encourage me more than when someone I trust and respect believes in me and lets me know. I imagine the same is true for you too.
When you speak words of belief to someone about who they are and what they can do, you increase their sense of personal value and confidence.
It’s often true that you first believe in someone before they believe in themself. Believing in them is a statement of faith from your heart to theirs.
When you express belief in someone, you deposit your personal faith, confidence, and love into their life. All of this is incredibly encouraging.
4) Don’t overlook the “little” things.
When you give a sincere compliment, for example, about how someone looks or what they are wearing, it is not surface flattery if you are genuine, and it comes from your heart.
It seems like a little thing and takes only a few seconds, but it puts a spring in their step, and they feel encouraged.
One of the most impacting little things you can do is write a personal note to someone.
When you take a few minutes to write someone a hand-written note, that personal touch from your heart to theirs is incredibly encouraging.
5) Open doors of inclusion.
To be invited is to be included, and that is always encouraging.
I’ve listened to many stories about someone who had their feelings hurt because they were not invited to a special event or even just a particular meeting.
In a vulnerable moment, they shared, “I didn’t really even want to go, but it would have been nice to be invited.”
Hey, let’s not judge, but instead, give them room to be human. Haven’t we all thought or said that at least once? We all want to be included.
When you can open the doors for someone to be included in something they could not have experienced themselves, it’s a powerful form of encouragement.
6) Create opportunities for growth.
Not everyone responds the same to this one, but anyone who wants to grow loves this form of encouragement.
When I’m invited to a learning experience, or a special growth-oriented event, or even just told about a great new book, something happens in my soul. I know that a person is interested in my well-being and personal growth. That is very meaningful and encouraging.
Every time you can create an opportunity to advance someone’s personal growth, that investment in their life is transformative not only from that experience itself but the fact that you cared enough to open a door.
7) Pray on the spot.
Perhaps the greatest form of spiritual encouragement is to know you have been prayed for, and the only thing better is to be prayed for in person.
It doesn’t matter where you are, from the lobby of your church to a restaurant; a brief prayer is always appropriate and incredibly encouraging.
Prayer is personal and carries a certain level of intimacy, so when you pray for someone, it creates an encouraging moment.
This is true if for no other reason than the Holy Spirit is part of that experience no matter how brief.
I hope this post has been encouraging to you.
This article originally appeared here.