These are leaders and friends whom you trust, and they trust you. They will tell you the truth and are for you. But, remember, you don’t need many like these to grow through pain and go the distance with joy, peace, and success as God defines it.
2) Allow the Pain to Deepen You, Not Defeat You.
Let me say again that leadership pain is not something we seek or enjoy, but it does come with the territory.
Leadership pain can either defeat you or deepen you.
When we embrace the pain that life brings our way rather than attempt to medicate, avoid or indulge it, one of the first good things we do is reflect on it.
Reflecting on your pain is not the same as getting stuck in it; it’s about slowing down to understand the hurt and loss and how to grow through it. This deepens you at a soul level and makes you stronger.
The stronger you become, the greater ability you gain to press through the next pain point faster and with more resilience.
This often requires someone to talk through it with you. Don’t hesitate to do that. But, remember, don’t lead alone, and always take your pain to Jesus. He understands it.
3) Keep Your Eyes on the Promise.
If you’re a parent, you love your kids and would do almost anything for them. However, you also have likely faced at least a few challenging moments, including some conflict and maybe disappointment along the way.
However, as a mom or dad, when you keep your eyes on the promise and hope of your kid’s future, it keeps you going!
It not only keeps you going but with unconditional love, commitment, and joy!
It’s very similar to a leader of those you love, care about, and are responsible for. The hope of a better future keeps you going. When you see life change, you are fired up to continue leading.
What’s your dream? What’s your vision?
Keep your eyes on the promise!
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