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Going Through a Tough Breakup With Your Church

Week 5.

During worship, I saw a guy worshipping next to someone who appeared to be his wife. He had one hand raised to heaven and the other hand in her back pocket.

Wait, what? Have you ever seen this move? Unbelievable. He was into it, as if to say, “I love Jesus, but I’m also working something out for later.” This made me uncomfortable.

Week 6.

During communion, the pastor announced that there was a gluten-free option if anyone needed it. I figured I didn’t want to be a part of any church where communion could figuratively save your life before literally ending it.

I ended up finding a church.

And you know what? It’s not perfect (but they do have Jolly Ranchers at the welcome table).

My thoughts about church membership changed when I heard my old pastor say that, ultimately, your church is like your family: You don’t get to choose which one you belong to. Great point.

Your church may not be perfect either. It may be in a strip mall. Your pastor may have a funny accent. Maybe they don’t play enough Hillsong. Either way, let God lead you, it’s not your choice. Or just come to @mill_citychurch, it’s awesome.

Also, about the girl from the expectant mothers parking spot? Maybe there is something to the prosperity gospel.

We’re dating.

What about you? What have been your experiences finding a church? (Funny or not).