Clubs keep conversations in the shallow end of the pool.
Clubs are not venues to share feelings, disappointments and struggles. Clubs keep conversations in the kiddie pool.
“How ’bout them Cowboys? What about the stock market? Will Trump be the next President?”
True story … I have a close relative (let’s call her “Jill”) who was asked the question “How are you doing?” by a member at her church. Jill had the audacity to tell this lady she was not doing well and needed prayers. The lady then proceeded to tell Jill she never intended Jill to actually tell her how she was doing.
This is a club mentality.
“How are you doing?” is not an open door to tell people about your problems. It is simply their way of acknowledging your presence.
Let’s be real, American church, you secretly hope “How are you doing?” does not lead to someone telling you about their problems. You don’t have time for that.
The church of Jesus Christ should value transformative community. You should bear one another’s burdens. No one should walk the road alone. No one. Galatians 6:2 says you fulfill the law of Christ by bearing one another’s burdens. That’s weighty stuff.
Are you bearing anyone’s burdens, American church?
People in clubs want to make their club the biggest, brightest one around.
Being a club is about competing. I am competing against you. You are competing against me. Clubs don’t care if they steal people from other clubs. In fact, stealing people from other clubs is called “winning.” It shows that one club offers something another club does not.
This looks a lot like the American church. You view stealing people from other churches as “winning” because the bottom line is attendance on Sunday.
The church of Jesus Christ should view church growth through the lens of people coming to know Jesus. How many people have you baptized this year? How many people know Jesus today that did not know Him a year ago?
Why is this a competition, American church???
Clubs only invite people into their lives that look like them.
Clubs value likemindedness. The church of Jesus Christ should value diversity. Can you honestly tell me, American church, you value diversity? You chalk up your lack of diversity to things like cultural differences.
Clubs are divisive and argumentative.
A few days ago my wife and I passed eight churches on the way to the church we were attending. We live 1.5 miles from the church building. Eight church buildings in 1.5 miles. That’s one building every .15625 miles (sorry, I like numbers).
I understand I live in the Bible belt, but is it necessary to have that many notches on the belt?
Please do not misunderstand me … this country is diverse and you need different expressions of the church. But do you really need 8,000,000,000 churches in one city? This, however, is what clubs do. Insiders believe their way of doing things is THE way. This is a dangerous trap.