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Addressing the Loneliness of a Pastor

I hear what some pastors are thinking, because it has been said to me so many times. You often think those groups aren’t there for you. You’ve tried before and couldn’t find them.

To this I would say:

• Keep trying. It’s worth it.

• Treat this like any other friendship. It takes commitment and has to be a balance of give and take.

• Be willing to be vulnerable.

• Risk the rejection to extend an offer for friendship.

• Use social media, denominational leadership, recommendations from others to find these pastors—whatever if necessary. (This has been one of the greatest benefits of social media for me, by the way.)

Some of these relationships I have had to develop outside my own city. I’ve found they are valuable enough to justify the time and financial investment required.

Please know I’m praying for you, pastors.