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10 Things Your Wife Won’t Tell You She Needs

10.) Fun

Your wife doesn’t want you to fly her around the world as much as she wants day-to-day marriage to be fun. Marriage is ordinary and routine. But it should never be boring. A fun relationship can’t be bought. If it could, only a small percentage of couples would have fun. Everyone else would twiddle their thumbs until they died. How miserable!

The key to an adventurous marriage is finding the extraordinary in the mundane. Be present every day. Be spontaneous. Find ways to have fun in the familiar. Look for opportunities in the ordinary.

Your wife won’t tell you this, but she wants marriage to be fun and adventurous. And she should.

God created it, after all.


It’s possible to know what your wife needs. Discovering her underneath needs will require much effort, constant communication and a steady stream of grace from both sides. But it can happen.

It’s your turn. I would love to hear from you. Wives, what do you really want from your husband? Husbands, what does your wife really want? Leave a comment below!

I love you all. To God be the glory forever. Amen!

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Frank lives in Jackson, TN with his amazing wife and two boys. He loves black coffee and doing stuff outside like golf and running.