The problem of the distribution of daily food provided an opportunity for more attention to prayer and scripture!
Here’s the difference: Merely solving a problem only gets you from sub-par to par. True improvement takes you from sub-par to par, and then beyond to actual progress.
3) Don’t get defensive about the areas where your church isn’t great.
When someone points out something “flawed and imperfect,” whether it’s a ministry, your physical buildings or a mistake you made, don’t make excuses. Don’t attempt to dismiss it, pretend it’s not a real issue, and above all don’t get defensive.
When someone points out a flaw at 12Stone, I often say something like, “I agree, will you help us get better?” That removes the tension and you quickly find out the true disposition of the person you are talking to.
Candidly, flaws and ministries that need improvement motivate me. I get to be part of the team that makes it better. Not just “repair it” but make it better!
4) Do listen to complaints but don’t let them rob you of your joy.
As leaders, we have a responsibility to listen to complaints. Some complaints are legitimate and require our attention. I appreciate those complaints, they’re helpful and sometimes about an issue I didn’t see or know about.
When you know someone is a complainer, set their complaint aside and have the honest conversation about their unhelpful behavior.
In either scenario, the enemy can attempt to steal your joy. Resist the devil and he will flee. Hold on to your joy. Not every day is easy or fun, but you can always have joy in ministry.
5) Don’t leave when things get tough.
Pastors and church staff change churches. That’s normal and healthy. But if you leave because ministry gets tough, you are setting yourself up to want to leave each church you serve before it’s your time to go.
I’m not referring to tough as in an unhealthy environment. That’s different. I’m referring to ministry itself. All churches experience times when some ministries are not as effective as they need to be.
Candidly, these are some of the best seasons because you learn and grow the most.
You many also leave before the breakthrough comes and you miss what God had in mind the whole time.
Beware of the greener grass syndrome. Grow your own green grass! Most of all remember that God is with you!
This article originally appeared here.
