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Are Your Small Group Members Worshipping Idols?

I’ve been reading a super book… Doctrine:What Christians Should Believe, by Mark Driscoll and Gerry Breshears. I’ve just completed the chapter on worship. One of the most enlightening moments in my reading of this section of the book points out how to know if someone has an idol in their life. There are multiple markers but one really caught my attention. The bottom line… If we idolize something then we demonize something else. A few sentences from the book read like this… “One of the great evils of idolatry is that if we idolize, we must also demonize, as Jonathon Edwards rightly taught in The Nature of True Virtue. Tim Keller reminds us that if we idolize our race, we must demonize other races. If we idolize our gender, we must demonize the other gender. If we idolize our nation, we must demonize other nations. If we idolize our political party, we must demonize other political parties.” He goes on to say, “This explains the great polarities an acrimonies that plague every society. If someone other than God’s loving grace is the source of our identity and value, we must invariably defend our idol by treating everyone and everything who may call our idol into question as an enemy to be demonized so that we can feel superior and safe with our idol.”

This is so very telling. As we lead our group we have to ask ourselves about each person in our group (first we must evaluate ourselves), what is it they demonize if anything. If they demonize a football team other than the one that represents the state in which your church is located, they may have gone from enjoying the game to worshiping the team. If they demonize the worship style of another church, they may be worshiping the music that is being used in the church they attend. If they demonize your last pastor, they may be worshiping your present pastor. If they demonize another denomination, they may be worshiping the denomination your church is part of.
 
The kicker… No one can worship the one true God and anything else at the same time. In determining when idol worship is taking place is to make it possible to guide a group member to recognize who or what they are truly worshiping and redirect them to worship Jesus alone.  
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Rick has one passion… To see “a biblical small group within walking distance of every person on the planet making disciples that make disciples.” He is presently pursuing this passion as the Small Group and Discipleship Specialist at LifeWay Church Resources. Rick has authored or co-authored multiple books, studies, and leader training resources including A Different Kind of Tribe: Embracing the New Small Group Dynamic, Destination Community: Small Group Ministry Manual, The Gospel and the Truth: Living the Message of Jesus, Small Group Life Ministry Manual: A New Approach to Small Groups, Redeeming the Tears: a Journey Through Grief and Loss, Small Group Life: Kingdom, Small Group Kickoff Retreat: Experiential Training for Small Group Leaders, and Great Beginnings: Your First Small Group Study, Disciples Path: A Practical Guide to Disciple Making. Rick’s varied ministry experiences as an collegiate minister, small group pastor, teaching pastor, elder, full-time trainer and church consultant, as well as having been a successful church planter gives him a perspective of church life that is all-encompassing and multi-dimensional. Rick is a highly sought after communicator and trainer.