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Top 10 Ideas for a First Small Group Meeting

5. Give Everyone a Countdown

Give everyone a 5 minute warning that “we’re about to move into the living room and get started.”  When you get settled, let everyone know that “we’re just going to use tonight as a way of getting to know each other a little better.”

6. Ask Great Questions

This is a great time to ask a few “get-to-know-me” questions: (a) Would you describe yourself as more of an extrovert or an introvert?  Give an example.  (b) Would you describe yourself as a structured, “just settle it” kind of person?  Or more of a play-it-by-ear type?  (c) Are you a hugger or a non-hugger?

7. Gain Some Insight

How about a little more info:  (a) What motivated you to sign up for this group?  (b) What are you most hopeful you’ll gain as a result of being in the group?  (b) What are you most afraid of (in terms of the group)?

8. Set Expectations

This is a great time to talk over the Life Group Agreement. No commitments required.  Nobody’s signing anything. Just a good way to get values and expectations on the table.  Simply read over the values and reconfirm expectations.

9. Provide a Path

Distribute copies of the study you will begin at your next meeting.  Collect any payment that your group members have ready.  Ask any who were unprepared to bring payment next time. (Important: If there is anyone in your group that cannot afford to pay, we have a way to help.)

10. Pray!

Pray to close the meeting.  Make it really simple.  Ask, “Is there anything we can be praying about for you personally?  There may be times when we pray for those who aren’t part of the group, but today, let’s keep prayer requests focused on just group members.”  Write down any prayer requests.  Close with a very simple prayer.