Small group leaders often feel an obligation to TALK. There are a few times when allowing another voice to be heard is the best choice.
1. When a small group leader asks a question. When leading a conversational Bible study, small group leaders have a tendency to ask a question then, if no one jumps in quickly, the small group leader fills the awkward silence. Don’t. Ask the question and wait. Sooner or later someone will speak up. Not only that, they’ll voice a well thought out statement.
2. When someone else in the group has the knowledge to speak to the issue. Oftentimes during a group meeting someone in the group unveils a life situation or a doctrinal question. The tendency of the small group leader is to speak to that situation or question. If the leader knows someone else in the group is capable of answering that question or has already been through that life situation, allow them to speak. You may have to call their name and get them to jump in. If necessary, do that. This will grow the person who speaks to the situation or question as well as helping other group members realize that wisdom from all for all is what you’re after.
3. When the Bible has the answer to the question. The goal of a Christian community is to hear from God. Most often, He speaks to us through His Word. When a question comes up allow the Bible to speak. That is, turn to a passage of Scripture and tell the person asking the question what God tells us in Scripture. God’s response is always the right response, whereas our opinion may miss the mark.
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