There are some “if . . . then” passages in the Bible, and it is vital how you interpret and apply them! Here’s one I read this morning:
“If I had not confessed the sin in my heart, my Lord would not have listened.” (Psalm 66:18, New Living Translation)
Some people interpret this legalistically. In other words, they think, God will not have any communion with me if I don’t first confess my sins to him. Some Christians even set up their prayer times by being absolutely certain to put confession before supplication. When we do this, we can easily make things like adoration, confession, and thanksgiving holy bribes to soften up God before we ask him for what we want.
Psalm 66:8 is talking about the condition of our hearts, not some legalistic thing we must “do” to blackmail or even to lure God into listening to us. God is concerned primarily about our hearts. God listened to David because David came to him with an open, contrite, humble heart that allowed David to honestly confess his sins to his Father.
The same heart condition was in play in another “if . . . then” passage when Jesus talked about the necessity of forgiving others in order for God to forgive us (Matthew 6:14-15), and he still does this today with us. It’s up to us how we respond to him in these circumstances.