4. Address cliques immediately.
It can be difficult to confront students in a clique. So it’s tempting to avoid conflict with these kinds of students. However, the longer we wait, the worse it gets. First, cliques will often sink deeper into exclusivity. Second, as one group of students begins to clique, others might follow the same pattern to protect themselves.
5. Program for community.
Intentionally break up circles of friends. Place them in different groups and pairings. Create ice breakers and team-building activities so students get to know each other better. Realize it takes time for students to connect and develop authentic community.
6. Leaders set the example.
It means everything when youth leaders cross the lines of friendship groups. So don’t become comfortable with certain “favorite” students or fellow leaders.
7. Give ownership to students.
Whether in a student leadership setting or in small groups, give students power. Hand them the reigns to own a problem and create solutions. When we empower students to discover and implement solutions, they’re more likely to be aware of cliques. And they’re more likely to break them up when they see them.
This article about cliques in church youth groups originally appeared here.
