4 Steps to Establishing Consistency in Your Small Groups

About this time every year, we have a few small group leaders say … things are not going the way I thought they would go in my small group. It’s no surprise that when January hits and we have met with our group for several months every small group leader out there questions their choice to invest in pre-teens, middle school or high school students because … IT NEVER GOES LIKE YOU THINK IT WILL. One promise I can make to every small group leader is that there will be challenges and surprises. Small group leaders need help pushing through. If you are out there and you are wondering if your group is going to make it then this is for you …

  • Keep showing up. Really this is 90 percent of being a great small group leader. Show up prepared to connect, to lead and to listen at group. Show up at ballgames. Show up and try not to be distracted by other opportunities that would cause you to miss group. Your small group is wondering right now if you are going stick with them and be there. Keep showing up.
  • Push toward your next event or retreat. Shared experiences build connection. If you can make it and go to your winter or spring retreat with your student ministry, you are going to build some powerful bonds with your small group. Events and retreats are like small group magic … it will help take your group to the next level.
  • Keep connecting. Keep sending those weekly texts, emails and Facebook posts. In time it really does mean so much to your small group. Maybe even try to set up a movie night or bowling night. Go do something with your group just to connect.
  • Keep listening, learning and praying. This is the hard part of being a group leader. You have to lead out in your spiritual disciplines as you invest in the group. Pray, prepare, listen to the Holy Spirit and be ready to lead strong as God opens the door.

When small group leaders push through the difficult task of establishing consistency good things happen. Life change happens. Mentoring happens. Community happens. It’s worth pushing through to see what God can do through your small group over an entire school year!  

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Michael Bayne
Michael is a follower of Christ, a husband, a dad and a pastor. He serves Grace Community Church in Clarksville, Tennessee as the Executive Pastor. He has served in multiple family ministry roles as a kids, student, and family pastor for 16 years. He’s also the Team Leader @ Parent Ministry for Kids and drinks way too much Diet Mountain Dew! Follow Michael on twitter at @michael_bayne.