I was listening to a podcast recently that confirmed what many of us have intuitively known for a long time.
People are having spiritual conversations every day … they just never think of turning to a preacher or the church for answers.
I’m not talking about people who have other religious backgrounds. I’m talking about your neighbors, your friends, maybe even your family members, as well as cultural leaders and thought leaders in our cultural context who are unchurched.
It’s not that people aren’t interested in spirituality; it’s that they don’t think the church can help them.
It’s completely worth the 45 minutes for you to listen to this conversation between Lewis Howes and Prince Ea. (The direct iTunes link is here.) Lewis is a pro-athelte turned podcaster and Prince Ea has dedicated his life to fitness, inspiration and music.
As you listen to this conversation, you’ll see how much the dialogue has completely shifted. Lewis is clearly looking for answers to spiritual questions, and Prince Ea is giving them, but the conversation is completely different than any conversation I’ve ever heard in any church.
Jesus comes up once, but they quickly move on to having dinner with Buddha instead.
Truthfully, most of the people they reference in this conversation are people I’ve never read … or even heard of.
The dialogue is moving, friends, and we preachers and church leaders are increasingly not a part of it.
A Shrinking Audience
If many preachers and church leaders were musicians, I’d say we’re increasingly cutting records nobody’s listening to, let alone buying.
Yes, that’s a bit harsh.
And I write this in a year when our church is seeing a year of encouraging growth—mostly from unchurched people.
But I’m painfully aware that we have over 250,000 people within a 30-minute drive of our locations who are completely unchurched.
Who’s talking to them?
I think that’s crickets I hear.
I say this not so much as criticism as I do out of a sense of burden.
I just think we need to get better at this. I need to get better at this. We all do.