Decide ahead of time how much you will share with them. Also, decide how much you are going to allow your children to see in the news. Images are hard to erase once they are in your child’s mind. Too much exposure can cause increased fear or anxiety.
They may become clinging or whiny, have difficulty sleeping, or start wetting their beds. Reassure them that they are safe with you and these symptoms should reside.
Pre-Teens will probably have already heard about the shooting. They have immediate news sources with their phones, tablets and other mobile devices. Start by asking them what they have seen and heard about the tragedy. Clear up any inaccurate information they may have heard. Fill in the blanks for them.
Ask them how they are feeling about the tragedy. It is important to let them express their feelings.
Teenagers. They are looking for solutions. They like to collaborate to bring change. Ask them what you can do together to stand against and help prevent violence.
In general, all kids want to know 3 things when faced with a tragedy like this shooting.
- Am I safe?
- Are the people who take care of me, safe?
- How will this event affect my daily life?
I would encourage you to pass this along to the parents in your ministry. Give them the tools they need to navigate this with their children.
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