7 Tips on Making Your Church More Relational

“Good company upon the road is the shortest cut.” —Author Unknown

Making your church more relational is important regardless of its size. In small churches, it’s often assumed that everyone knows everyone, and so, as leaders, we don’t work to ensure that people are connecting. In medium size churches, we’re embarrassed that we don’t know everyone anymore and might be paralyzed to try to help people connect.

Large churches need to work strategically to fight the “we’re too big” sentiment that can easily arise. Although the best place for people to develop relationships within your church is going to be on a service team or in a small group, we can still make our weekend services have relational elements. Here are a few ways your church can be more relational this coming weekend:

1. Add some coffee.

Something almost magical happens when coffee is available in any environment. It makes it more relational. It slows people down from just rushing out at the end of the service. Even the big football player-type guy can be intimidated to talk to other people, but when he has cup of good coffee in his hand he’s comfortable to chat it up.

2. Start a foyer team.

Find your most outgoing (and not creepy!) volunteers and ask them to help “connect people” in the foyer. Charge them with “swimming” the foyer before and after your services to find people who might be just “standing around” and approach them to get to know them. Ask them to make introductions between people, like a great party host. The key to this team is that they aren’t at some “post” to stand there and do a specific job — their role is to move around the foyer to find people to connect and welcome.

3. Add conversation prompts during the service.

Why not add some fun conversation starters to your service next weekend and see what happens? Near the beginning of the service, ask people to turn to someone they don’t know and answer a simple and fun question. Don’t make it too complex — something that can just spark a small conversation. Hopefully these small interactions will break the ice and make it easier to connect after the service.

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Rich Birch
Rich serves as Operations Pastor at Liquid Church in the Manhattan facing suburbs of New Jersey. He blogs at UnSeminary.com and is a sought after speaker and consultant on multisite, pastoral productivity and communications.

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