3. Break the Ice
Once your group is gathered in a space where you are going to discuss the study or curriculum, my personal favorite thing to start with is what some call an “icebreaker question” but I like to call it a “useless fun information question.” EXAMPLE: What’s your favorite movie, meal, vacation spot, etc. This begins to give insight as to who people are and helps the more quiet folks open up. Minds become open and walls slowly start to fall. As the semester continues, the questions get a little more funny. EXAMPLE: If you could go back in time and see any band in history, who would it be? And so on…. always keep things creative. I believe that the more you laugh with people the better chance there is for people to build relationships and open up. It can take time!
4. Prayer Requests
After the discussion is done, I like to shift gears into asking if anyone has prayer requests. It can take time for people to open up. I believe nothing opens the doors to vulnerability than a leader sharing something they need or they are believing for. Leaders – be transparent and vulnerable! Pray for the requests and for everyone in your group that they will have an incredible week, etc. Nothing ends a session like everyone singing a worship tune together.
5. Eat leftovers and talk some more!
When the discussion, prayer and worship is over the night doesn’t have to be over just yet. Spend a little more time connecting. Some of the best conversations I’ve ever had in a Small Group took place after the session was over.
Recently at Lobby 19, Steve Gladen said ” People join for the content, but stay for the relationship!”
Cut loose and have a small group party great time!!
