Debra Fileta

Debra is a Licensed Professional Counselor, national speaker, relationship expert, and author of Choosing Marriage and True Love Dates, and Love In Every Season. She's also the host of the hotline style Love + Relationships Podcast. Her popular relationship advice blog, TrueLoveDates.com, reaches millions of people with the message of healthy relationships. Connect with her on FacebookInstagram, or Twitter or book a session with her today!

4 Myths Christians Should Stop Believing About Depression

There are several myths about depression that Christians need to stop believing. Truly, it breaks my heart when I think about the misunderstanding and shame that can surround this topic.

Marriage Isn’t About Your Happiness

Marriage happiness can be elusive. Plus, marriage isn't about your happiness, it's not even about you. It's about LOVE, which is something we choose to give time and time again.

Are You Prideful? 20 Questions to Ask Yourself

A humble person is someone who is secure in who they are in Christ.

Don’t Fall in Love With a Fantasy

Sometimes our fantasies become more real than the people and situations in front of us. Choose to connect with people who bring life, and protect yourself from others. And watch as your reality becomes even richer than your fantasy.

Why Your “Type” Isn’t Always Good For You

Physical attraction is a legitimate need in a relationship, but it must be kept in proper perspective because just because you’re physically attracted to someone, doesn’t mean they’re good for you.

Why Giving Too Much Kills Relationships

Like plants, relationships require a pattern of give-and-take in order for them to grow. If you are in a relationship in which you are constantly taking and never giving anything in return, your relationship will eventually stop growing.

Top 6 #RealityChecks of Marriage

I had a set of unrealistic expectations going into marriage.

The Ebb and Flow of Physical Attraction in Marriage

If you are dealing with a lack of physical attraction in marriage, here are three big picture themes to address. Then you can move past the superficial emotion of infatuation and live in a place of deliberate adoration.

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