Jesus Values Children
In Mark 10:13-16, the disciples rebuke the people who bring children to Jesus. Jesus’ response is classic and the basis of all children’s ministry. He says, “Permit the children to come to me; do not hinder them; for the kingdom of God belongs to such as these.”
Jesus values children, but children don’t always feel valuable. Many experts believe children’s low self-esteem is generally based on poor skills and incompetence in many areas of their performance.
The truth is that no child will perform well in every area. He may be a great speller but can’t throw a baseball. She may be a great tap dancer but feel awkward socially. Children each have certain inadequacies they must deal with in an imperfect world.
Developing Christ-Centered Self-Esteem
We can give children the gift of Christ-centered self-esteem. Here’s how:
1. Let them know how God views them—loved, valued and esteemed.
Say things such as, “You are special to God” or, “The Bible says God loves you so much, He has counted every hair on your head!” We can remind children God loved them enough to pay the highest price for them—his Son’s life.
2. Celebrate each child’s God-given strengths.
When a child displays his or her gifts, point the child to the giver. Say something like, “I thank God for giving you your beautiful voice.”
3. Teach children to persevere.
If a child has difficulty with a problem, don’t jump in and save the day. Pray with the child for guidance. Then ask questions to help the child think of solutions. Otherwise, your save-the-day help could send the message the child isn’t capable.
