Following Christ is a lifelong journey, requiring commitment, growth, and a willing heart. As Christians, we are called to become more like Christ in our thoughts, actions, and relationships, reflecting His love and truth. However, it’s possible to slip into patterns that reveal a lack of true discipleship, even while calling ourselves followers. Here are five signs that may indicate a need for a renewed commitment to walking closely with Christ.
5 Signs You’re Not Truly Following Christ
1. You Prioritize Worldly Success Over Spiritual Growth
One of the first signs that you may not be truly following Christ is when the pursuit of worldly success takes precedence over spiritual growth. Society often defines success by wealth, status, achievements, and material possessions, but Christ’s teachings center on seeking God’s kingdom above all (Matthew 6:33). When your thoughts, energy, and actions focus primarily on personal gain without considering your spiritual growth or how it impacts others, it’s worth examining your priorities.
Jesus cautioned against this when He said, “What good will it be for someone to gain the whole world, yet forfeit their soul?” (Matthew 16:26). A true follower of Christ seeks to live a life that glorifies God and values eternal things over temporary gains. Take a moment to assess where your treasure truly lies, as “where your treasure is, there your heart will be also” (Matthew 6:21).
2. Your Faith is Reserved for Sundays
A common misconception is that being a Christian means attending church services on Sundays. While gathering with other believers is vital, limiting your faith to a single day reflects a lack of true discipleship. Christ calls us to live out our faith daily, in everything we do, as He says, “Take up your cross daily and follow me” (Luke 9:23).
If you find yourself going through the motions on Sunday but not integrating Christ’s teachings into the rest of your week, it may indicate that your commitment is shallow. True discipleship involves constant connection with God, prayer, and a desire to align every aspect of your life with His will. Christ should be present in your actions, thoughts, and decisions every day, not just when you’re within church walls.
Consider spending time in daily devotions, praying, and studying the Bible to keep Christ at the forefront of your life, allowing your relationship with Him to influence how you treat others, make choices, and live your life.
3. You Hold Grudges and Resist Forgiving Others
Forgiveness is a central part of the Christian faith. Jesus taught us to forgive, as God has forgiven us (Ephesians 4:32). Holding grudges or harboring resentment toward others not only harms relationships but also creates a barrier between you and God. If you find it difficult to forgive others, it may be a sign that your heart is not aligned with Christ’s example.
Jesus’ own words remind us, “If you do not forgive others their sins, your Father will not forgive your sins” (Matthew 6:15). A hardened heart towards forgiveness signals that we have not fully embraced the grace that has been freely given to us. Following Christ means allowing His love and mercy to soften our hearts, teaching us to extend that same grace to others. By forgiving, we emulate Christ’s love and break free from bitterness, healing relationships and drawing closer to God.
4. You’re Comfortable Living in Unrepentant Sin
None of us are perfect, and we all fall short of God’s standard. However, the difference between a true follower of Christ and someone only claiming Christianity lies in the attitude towards sin. A true disciple will feel convicted by sin and will seek God’s forgiveness and help to turn away from it. In contrast, if you find yourself living comfortably in sin, justifying your actions, or showing no desire to change, it indicates a serious spiritual disconnect.
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John writes, “If we claim to have fellowship with him and yet walk in darkness, we lie and do not live out the truth” (1 John 1:6). Living in unrepentant sin while calling oneself a Christian is contradictory to the message of Christ, who died to set us free from sin, not so we could continue in it.
Ask yourself: Do I feel genuine remorse for actions that go against God’s commands? Am I willing to let God transform my heart and change my ways? When we truly follow Christ, we welcome His correction and seek to live in a way that honors Him.
5. You Lack Compassion for Others
Jesus’ life and ministry were marked by compassion and a love that reached across boundaries. He cared deeply for the marginalized, the lost, and those rejected by society. When asked about the greatest commandment, He said, “Love the Lord your God with all your heart… and love your neighbor as yourself” (Matthew 22:37-39). Lacking compassion or ignoring the needs of others reflects a heart that may not be fully following Christ.
A true Christian sees others through the lens of God’s love, feeling called to serve and uplift those in need. Compassion is not merely a feeling; it’s an action, something we choose to live out daily. If you find it difficult to care for others or make excuses for not helping, it may be time to ask God for a heart that loves as He loves.
Consider small ways you can begin showing compassion today. Whether it’s lending a listening ear, volunteering, or simply offering encouragement, ask God to open your heart to others. True followers of Christ reflect His love by being a light to those around them.
Growing Closer to Christ
Following Christ is more than a label; it’s a way of life. Jesus calls us to a deep, meaningful relationship with Him that goes beyond mere words. It’s about transforming our hearts, minds, and actions to reflect His love, grace, and truth.
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If you recognize any of these signs in your own life, don’t be discouraged. We all go through seasons of spiritual dryness or distraction. The beauty of the Christian faith is that God’s love is constant, and His grace is always available to help us realign with His will. Take these signs as opportunities to draw closer to Him, renew your commitment, and ask for His guidance.
As you seek to truly follow Christ, remember to:
- Pray for a deeper relationship with Him. Spend time in honest prayer, asking for His help in areas where you struggle.
- Read and study the Bible. God’s Word offers the guidance and wisdom needed to live a Christ-centered life.
- Join a community of believers. Surround yourself with others who encourage you and hold you accountable in your journey.
- Embrace humility and a teachable spirit. True followers are willing to learn, grow, and change as God leads them.
Following Christ wholeheartedly requires daily surrender, but the reward is a life filled with purpose, peace, and joy in Him. May we all strive to be true followers, living lives that reflect the love and light of Christ to the world around us.