Dana, how did your faith help you as you coped, first with Charles being away in the military, and then with his death? How do you describe the state of your faith now?
Dana Canedy and Jordan Canedy attend the World Premiere of “A Journal For Jordan” at AMC Lincoln Square Theater on December 9, 2021 in New York City. Photo by Theo Wargo/Getty Images for Sony Pictures
Canedy: The older I get the stronger it gets. I didn’t grow up in a traditional Christian home. My parents were believers, but we didn’t attend church regularly. And so when Charles died, I always assumed if someone close to me died, I’d be angry with God. But I felt enveloped in his love and uplifted by knowing that I can get through this with my faith. There were all these signs, from the moment he died, that God was with me and Charles was with us, very specific things. Like coming home one day, three days after he died, from a military base where I had to fill out all this paperwork — we hadn’t buried him yet. And I remember walking in the door, thinking my son — who was a 6-month-old, I was holding him — suddenly he was heavy. And I thought, Charles, how am I going to do this? Please give me a sign you’re still here. And this was a time when we all had answering machines at home. I turned on the answering machine. And one of his soldiers is calling from Iraq, saying, “He gave me your phone number and made me promise that if anything ever happened to him, I would call you and tell you he loves you and you’re going to be OK.” That was God.
I wondered about the journal specifically and how much Charles talked about faith. I believe I heard the actor portraying Jordan read that if he was down he knows he can “talk to the one who can do something about it.” Were there other parts of the journal that related to faith that either of you would speak to that struck you?
Canedy: There are themes in the journal that come through: his dedication to military service, his absolute respect for women, which is one of the things that comes through the most, and his religious faith. He put Bible verses in there for Jordan. He writes and speaks about religion at least a dozen times throughout the journal.
Anything else that struck you, Denzel, about the journal especially related to faith?
Washington: That actual line I added — talk and speak to the one that can do something about it — and I was always frustrated when I was cutting the film. Because the young boy, he didn’t quite understand what I was trying to say, to talk to the one (points heavenward). But of course, it was kind of the way God wanted because in the child’s mind, talk to the one who can do something about it: Mom. (both laugh)
Canedy: The beauty of that is that, in the real world, there are things Jordan has to grow to appreciate in the journal. There are certain things in the journal that resonate with him as a boy. There are certain things that will resonate when he is a husband. There are certain things that will resonate when he’s a father. But throughout that, Charles’ reference to the power of religion, the power of prayer, there are messages for any of those points in his life.
Dana, will you go to the movie on Christmas Day and either way, how do you and Jordan celebrate Christmas?
Canedy: We have a party every year — we didn’t do it during COVID — with about 25 of our friends. I cook. My mother cooks. And some of our friends only see each other that one time a year. I started that when Jordan was a baby because I wanted him to feel surrounded with love and family. So family flies in, friends fly in. And this year we’re going to do that. And then we’re all gonna try — anonymously — to go to the movie to see it. And Chanté (Adams, the actress who portrays Canedy in the movie) and her mother and father will be joining us.
Washington: Oh, wow.
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