That is precisely what Jesus condemned among the Pharisees.
Yet as you engage with fellow Christians, even when it involves a disagreement about a matter of orthodoxy/orthopraxy that is primary in nature, it must, as mentioned, be done with charity. The use of our tongues—whether in person or online—must reflect Jesus. That means our speech must be controlled.
Before you say something, ask yourself four things:
Is what I am going to say true?
Is what I am going to say helpful?
Is what I am going to say being said to the right person?
Is what I am going to say loving?
If you are not sure the answer to any of these questions, my suggestion is simple. It’s Proverbs 10:19: “Too much talk leads to sin. Be sensible and keep your mouth shut” (NLT).
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