3. Domination by a Few Strong Members
Church bosses rarely seize power. They accumulate it.
A pastor leaves. A few faithful members step in to “hold things together.” They organize services, oversee decisions, and keep the lights on. When the next pastor leaves quickly, those same people step back in again.
Over time, they begin to see themselves as the church.
They position themselves as protectors. They filter information. They make decisions “for the good of the congregation.” When a new pastor arrives, they offer help that feels more like control.
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Their role becomes clear when bold ideas are proposed. Initiatives are stalled. Risks are avoided. Faith is discouraged in favor of predictability.
No healthy family moving into a community would choose to join a church controlled by a small, unaccountable group.
The remedy is transparency and rotation. Leadership roles should change hands. Decisions should be visible. Questions should be welcomed. Darkness protects control. Light exposes it.
4. Not Trusting Leaders
In many small churches, monthly business meetings revolve around cents instead of souls.
Every expense is scrutinized. Every ministry decision is questioned. Leaders are second-guessed publicly. Faith is replaced by suspicion.
I once watched a deacon criticize a revival because only one child was saved. Another deacon stood, wrote a check, and said, “That child is my son. And he was worth every penny.”
Churches that demand perfect certainty before acting in faith will never act in faith.
Elect good leaders. Trust them to do their work. That trust creates momentum. Distrust paralyzes it.
