Restoring Relational Circuits: Polyvagal Theory & Faith

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Re-Engage!

Re-engaging relational circuits, especially when they’ve been disrupted by sympathetic (fight or flight) or dorsal vagal (freeze or shutdown) activation, is crucial for restoring a sense of connection and well-being in our relationships. Neuroscience Informed Christian Counseling® (NICC) and theories such as Polyvagal provide a framework for understanding these states and offer strategies grounded in both neuroscience and biblical principles to facilitate reconnection.

Strategies for Re-Engaging Relational Circuits

Recognize and Name the State

The first step in re-engaging relational circuits is to recognize and name the state you’re in. This is akin to the biblical principle of “confession,” where acknowledging our current state can be a powerful step toward healing (James 5:16). Identifying whether you’re in a fight, flight, or freeze mode can help demystify your feelings and behaviors, making them easier to address.

Deep Breathing and Grounding Techniques

Deep breathing exercises, specifically those that emphasize slow, diaphragmatic breaths, can activate the ventral vagal system, promoting a state of calmness and safety. Grounding techniques, which involve focusing on physical sensations or engaging in mindfulness practices, can also help bring you back to a ventral vagal state, fostering readiness for connection.

Social Engagement and Safe Relationships

Engaging in safe, positive social interactions can stimulate the ventral vagal system. Seeking out trusted individuals, whether friends, family, or members of a faith community, and sharing your experiences with them can be incredibly healing. In Christian counseling, this aligns with the concept of “bearing one another’s burdens” (Galatians 6:2), highlighting the importance of community and connection in our healing journey.

Movement and Embodiment Practices

Physical movement, whether through exercise, walking, or even gentle stretching, can help release the tension associated with sympathetic activation. Embodiment practices, which encourage a deeper connection with one’s body, can also be beneficial, especially for those experiencing dorsal vagal freeze responses.

Engagement with Scripture and Prayer

Focusing on Scripture that emphasizes God’s presence, love, and protection can provide comfort and reassurance during times of distress. Prayer, particularly practices that involve gratitude or meditative reflection on God’s character, can serve as a powerful means of re-engaging the relational circuits by fostering a sense of safety and trust in God’s care.

Creative and Expressive Outlets

Creative expression, whether through art, writing, music, or another form, can be a therapeutic way to process emotions and experiences, facilitating a shift back to a ventral vagal state. These activities can serve as a form of worship and reflection on God’s creativity, enabling a reconnection with oneself and with God.

Seek Professional Support

Sometimes, re-engaging relational circuits requires the guidance of a professional, especially when dealing with deep-seated traumas or patterns of disconnection. NICC counselors can provide support that integrates psychological strategies with spiritual guidance, offering a holistic approach to healing.

Re-engaging relational circuits is a process that involves self-awareness, intentional practices, and often, the support of a community. By incorporating strategies that draw on both neuroscience and biblical principles, individuals can navigate back to a state of connection and openness, reflecting the relational design God intended for us.

Keep Learning!

In navigating the complexities of human relationships and emotional well-being, the intertwining principles of Polyvagal Theory and Christian faith offer a transformative path from disconnection to deep, meaningful connections.

This journey underscores the importance of understanding our neurological responses and leveraging them alongside spiritual wisdom to foster environments where relationships can flourish. For those intrigued by the prospect of enhancing their emotional and relational health through the lens of both neuroscience and spirituality, exploring Neuroscience Informed Christian Counseling® and Neuroscience Informed Relational Discipleship can provide valuable insights and tools.

These approaches not only illuminate pathways to healing and thriving within our communities but also deepen our understanding of how we are wonderfully made to connect, love, and live fully.

To learn more about how these innovative frameworks can impact your life and relationships, we invite you to delve deeper into the world of Neuroscience Informed Christian Counseling® and Relational Discipleship, where science and faith converge to guide us toward holistic well-being.

REFERENCES

  1. Unlocking Holistic Ministry: Embrace Neuroscience Informed Relational Discipleship

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Josh Spurlockhttps://joshspurlock.com/
Josh Spurlock MA, LPC, CST, has a BA in Biblical Languages and a Masters in Counseling. He is a licensed professional counselor (LPC), holding licenses in Missouri, Colorado, and Florida. He is also a certified sex therapist (CST), Level 2 AEDP therapist, and an ordained minister. He is an advanced practice clinician, with over 10,000 hours of clinical experience. He specializes in marriage counseling, sex therapy, family counseling, and works with executives, pastors, business owners, and ministry leaders.

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