Faith-building activities for preteens bridge the gap between children’s ministry and youth ministry. Preteens, between ages 9 and 12, are at a pivotal stage. No longer little kids, they’re not quite teenagers either.
This transitional time offers rich opportunities for faith. In fact, most people who follow Jesus will do so by the time they’re preteens. Read on to learn how to maximize your time with these students.
Insights Into Preteen Development
First, know that preteens aren’t only changing physically. They experience rapid change in these areas:
- Mental: Preteens are developing critical thinking skills. Because they’re capable of abstract thought, they can grasp deeper spiritual concepts. Tweens ask tough questions about faith, God, and the Bible.
- Emotional: Thanks to hormones, preteens are on a roller coaster. They’re striving for independence yet crave security and guidance. Kids may face self-esteem issues and feelings of inadequacy.
- Spiritual: Preteens are moving from faith that’s largely inherited to more personal beliefs. So help them own their faith! The goal is authentic, lasting relationships with Jesus.
- Social: Friendships are incredibly influential. Peers can bolster or challenge a child’s faith. Preteens often face exclusion, bullying, and conflicts. Misunderstandings and changing social dynamics are taxing. So make church a welcoming place where kids feel valued and supported.
Faith-Building Activities for Preteens
Next, move beyond lectures or traditional Sunday school lessons. Seek out creative faith-building activities for preteens. And always connect biblical truths to everyday life!
1. Interactive Lessons
- Character Studies—Dive into the lives of biblical figures. Discuss their challenges and how they trusted (or doubted) God.
- Application—Relate Scripture to preteens’ struggles. Encourage kids to think critically about living out their faith.
- Q&A Sessions—Welcome tough questions! Be honest when you don’t have the answers. Then encourage judgment-free discussions.
2. Faith-Building Games
- Faith Obstacle Course—Set up a course representing life’s challenges (e.g., peer pressure, fear, doubt). Have preteens navigate it blindfolded, guided by a friend’s voice. Afterward, talk about trusting God’s guidance.
- Bible Trivia with a Twist—Make learning fun, with physical challenges or team competitions. Those reinforce knowledge while building teamwork.
- Giant Jenga with Questions—Write faith-based questions or challenges on each block. As preteens play, they must answer the question or complete the challenge before placing the block.
3. Meaningful Experiences
Faith-building activities for preteens can take place beyond the church too. Plan service projects and outreach opportunities. Serving lets kids put their faith into action. Host prayer stations or take prayer walks. Hand out faith journals so preteens can write prayers, reflect on Scripture, and describe how they see God working.
4. Conversation Topics to Nurture Faith
Preteens are ready for deeper conversations. Talk about our identity in Christ, doubts, peer pressure, God’s plan, etc. Small groups are especially effective with preteens. They can share their faith journeys, hold each other accountable, and pray for one another.
