Coleman’s willingness to propose was “the only thing he had to offer” his victims, Goussen said. “Getting proposed to was a big gesture for these women, and that corroborated his guise that he’s a godly person.”
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Hiding behind “important-sounding titles” is a common tactic for con artists, according to Goussen. She advised people to vet potential romantic partners by running background checks, reviewing social media accounts, and asking lots of questions. “It’s easier than you think to get swept off your feet,” Goussen said.