Helping Your Group Decide What’s Best
Instead of making the decision alone, invite your group into the process. December rhythms vary widely from household to household.
Ask the Right Questions
Try discussing questions such as:
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What stresses or pressures are you facing during December?
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Would meeting weekly feel helpful or overwhelming?
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What kind of gathering would serve you best this month?
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Is there one special gathering we could prioritize instead of several?
These questions help you lead pastorally rather than programmatically.
Offer Flexible Gathering Options
If your group wants to stay connected but can’t commit weekly, consider alternatives:
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One simple Christmas devotional night
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A potluck or cookie-exchange
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A prayer walk through a decorated neighborhood
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An online check-in for those traveling
Flexibility allows community without unnecessary pressure.
Communicate Clearly and Early
Whatever you decide, communicate your plan well before December begins. People need clarity to plan their schedules, especially during the busiest time of the year.
Choosing a Healthy Approach to Holiday Small Groups
Whether you decide to continue or pause, your goal is the same: helping your people grow spiritually and feel supported. What serves one group well may strain another. What fuels one leader may drain someone else. Pastoral wisdom involves reading the season, reading your people, and honoring the realities God has placed before you.
RELATED: Small Groups CAN Thrive Through the Holidays
Holiday small groups offer a unique opportunity to embody grace during a season that can feel rushed or lonely. If you continue meeting, simplify. If you pause, pause with purpose. Either way, lead with care.
This week, ask your group about their December needs and make a plan together. Choose a path that strengthens community, honors the season, and helps your people stay rooted in Christ.
