My friend Dave Ferguson introduced me to the story of Eliud Kipchoge and the Ineos 1:59 Challenge. In October 2019, this Kenyan marathoner did something many thought impossible—he ran 26.2 miles in under two hours. But he didn’t do it alone. Forty‑one pacesetters surrounded him in rotating formations, shielding him from the wind and helping him stay on pace. They made it possible for Eliud to accomplish something he could never do alone.
The writer of Hebrews understood this principle: “Therefore, since we are surrounded by such a great cloud of witnesses, let us throw off everything that hinders and the sin that so easily entangles. And let us run with perseverance the race marked out for us, fixing our eyes on Jesus, the pioneer and perfecter of faith.” (Hebrews 12:1–2a NIV).
We preach about needing community, yet somehow, we forget to apply this wisdom to our lives and ministry. We are tempted to run the race alone instead of asking others for help.
As an elder at my small church and someone who speaks with pastors across the country, I’ve become increasingly aware of how many faithful shepherds feel isolated, under-supported, and stretched thin. Even with more resources available than ever before, too many pastors feel like they’re running alone.
But pastor, you are not alone. Others share your challenges and your calling. We are better when we run the race together.
Other Pastors Share Your Challenges
As a church leader, you may be tempted to think that you are the only one with struggles—but the statistics on today’s pastors tell a different story.
Barna research reveals that more than half of all pastors report having no professional sources of support and guidance, including mentors, advisors, coaches, or counselors. Male pastors are especially unlikely to receive support, which is troubling given that men often struggle to initiate vulnerable relationships.
If you’ve felt fatigue, loneliness, or discouragement, hear me: You are not failing. You are not broken. You are not alone. In December 2025, 24% of pastors considered quitting full-time ministry.
Thankfully, God gives us a solution to these challenges. We are called to “carry each other’s burdens” (Galatians 6:2 NIV).
The Solution: Proactively Connect with Pastors Outside Your Church
Pastors in your city or network are navigating similar realities. Regular peer connection fuels resilience and prevents isolation.
I was part of a peer group that met monthly for seven years. It was incredibly helpful to share wins and problem-solve together. We shared struggles, prayed for each other, and carried each other’s burdens. But it didn’t happen by accident. It required intention, structure, and a willingness to say “no” to lesser things so we could say “yes” to the group.
Consider forming or joining:
- City-based pastor cohorts that meet regularly for prayer and processing
- Denominational or network groups that provide accountability and support
- Informal gatherings focused on encouragement rather than networking
The key is consistency. One coffee meeting won’t change your ministry, but the rhythm of regular connection will transform it.
