Make the Most of Your Christmas Tree

Make the Most of Your Christmas Tree

It was always an exciting time for our children. They would hound me about when it was going to happen, and they would commiserate with one another about how big it would be this year. We would load them into the car and go to the place we always went to pick out our family Christmas tree. Of course, everyone would have an opinion, but finally we would make a decision, tie the tree to the roof of our car and make our way home. That night we would decorate our tree together as a family and after the tree was finally adorned in splendor, we would turn off all the lights, amazed as our tree shone brightly in the darkness.

I love these kinds of moments because I think as believers, we should be the most celebratory community on earth. We know all the good things that we enjoy and all the family love we experience are sweet and undeserved gifts from our Heavenly Father. But I am concerned that we remember—and that we help our children to remember – that while this wonderful holiday season is about a tree, it’s not about the beautiful tree in your living room that you’ve so carefully decorated.

A Different Type of Tree

From the moment of his first breath, the life of that baby in the manger was marching toward a tree. It would not be a tree of beauty or celebration, but of sacrifice and death. It would not stand in someone’s home as part of a seasonal tradition, but would be outside the city walls on a hill of execution. That baby wouldn’t some day stand before that tree and smile at its beauty, but would be nailed to it in tortuous pain, numbered with convicts. That tree on the hill was not a symbol of a season, but an instrument of judgment. On that seemingly hopeless hill, that tree of death gave life and hope to humanity.

The Advent season tells a story that will take your breath away. It’s a story about dire, inescapable need, a glorious incarnation, a substitutionary life, an atoning sacrifice and a victorious resurrection. Only God could write such a story and only God could complete the plot. It’s a story meant to amaze us, humble us, capture us, rescue us, transform us, and cause us to live in wonder and worship. This story provides the only way you can make sense out of your identity and your true needs. This story reveals where hope is to be found and points you to the meaning and purpose of your existence.

A False Advent Story

I have no problem with the silly, seasonal stories of sleds, snowmen, gifts and goodies, nor do I have opposition toward singing vacuous seasonal songs. What I am concerned about is that each Advent season, our children are told a false story.

This false rendition of the Christmas story puts human pleasure at the center. It tells our children to look for life in the creation, rather than in the Creator. It tells them lies about who they are and what they need. It presents a world that needs no tree of sacrifice, no Messiah Lamb and no life-giving resurrection.

This story forgets that the world our children live in is miserably broken, so much so that it groans waiting for redemption. This story neglects to tell our children that they are a grave danger to themselves because of the sin that lives inside them. And it surely doesn’t tell them that they were created to intentionally surrender their lives to the greater purposes, plans, and glory of God.

Advent Is a Gift to Parents

The Advent season is a gift to Christian parents because it affords you a focused opportunity to talk to your children about the most profoundly important things in all of life. All of the questions that this season addresses will be asked and answered by your children some way.

  • What is this season about?
  • Why did Jesus have to come?
  • What is it that I need?
  • How will those needs be met?
  • Who am I and what is my life about?
  • How is it that I am supposed to live?

These and many more questions are answered by the miracle of the incarnation of Jesus Christ. It’s the ultimate true explanatory story, the only one that carries the promise of real life and true hope for our children.

So parents, this Advent, start preparing your children early and often for the collision of stories that this season has become. Tell them the story of Jesus again and again. Tell them the bad news of why he had to come, because it’s only then that they’ll understand and celebrate what his coming accomplished on their behalf. Tell them that the best gift ever given was the gift of Jesus, because in that gift we are given everything we need.

And don’t forget to make your Advent conversation about a tree, but not the one in your living room. Talk about how that baby in the manger came not to decorate a tree, but to hang on it for their salvation. Remind them that in a world darkened by sin, that tree of sacrifice and salvation shines as a light of eternal hope that will never, ever go out.

This article originally appeared here.

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Paul David Tripp
Paul David Tripp is a pastor, author, and international conference speaker. He is the president of Paul Tripp Ministries and works to connect the transforming power of Jesus Christ to everyday life. This vision has led Paul to write many books on Christian living and travel around the world speaking and teaching. Paul's driving passion is to help people understand how the gospel of Jesus Christ speaks with practical hope into all the things people face in this broken world. Paul and his wife Luella reside Philadelphia. They are the parents of four grown children.