Leaders lead the way. Which is why leadership is so scary.
Leading the way requires taking risks, potential failure, and embarrassment. Of course, leading the way is also how leaders make things better and make better things.
Leading the Way at a Billie Eilish Movie Concert
My 15-year-old is a raving Billie Eilish fan. She’ll tell you without hesitation that she’s been following her music since the beginning. There’s no bandwagoning with her.
Several weeks ago, Billie released in theaters a one-night-only concert event. When touring, she recorded a full concert and released it to the world on this one night. Obviously, my daughter insisted we go. So I got us tickets and began listening to Billie on repeat in preparation.
If you’re wondering, my favorite song is “Bellyache.”
Before the concert movie, my daughter mentioned that Billie told her fans to treat the movie as a real concert on Instagram. Meaning she invited everyone to get out of their seats, dance, sing, and participate. This sounds like a great idea until you enter the movie theater and find your nice, plush leather recliner. No one moved when the lights went out and the movie concert began. I mean, we had recliners. AND it’s scary to go first!
My daughter was not happy. She wanted to experience a concert, not sit and listen to music.
She looked around and realized the next hour and a half would be spent in our recliners unless somebody did something.
But who? That was the question.
Who was going to go first?
If You’re a Leader, Your Followers are Waiting for You To Lead
I’ll come back to the movie concert in a moment, but let’s talk about your role for a moment.
If you’re a leader, people watch and wait for you to go first. That’s what leaders do. They take the risk and march out into uncharted waters first.
While that feels scary and risky, we often forget that our followers aren’t standing back and watching us from afar. Most of our followers are right behind us. They are for us and with us. They just need us to go first. That’s what leaders do.
Remember, your followers aren’t cheering for your failure. Your failure is their failure, and your success becomes their success. They have your back when you step out to make things better and make a better thing. They aren’t watching; they are following. Often right behind you, supporting you.
When a leader goes first, all they can see is the unknown future ahead. I imagine if we could also see the group of people behind us, that unknown future wouldn’t look as scary. Going first often looks worse than it is.
But you still have to take that step.
