It was one of many coffees I have with fellow pastors.
He looked tired. Defeated.
He had planted a church, and eight years later it had yet to cross the 200 barrier. Setting up and breaking down, week after week, had taken its toll. Families would come, but only for a season. They would soon leave, tired from the work, discouraged by the lack of progress, and enticed by larger churches with ministries and programs their families needed.
And then came COVID, which cut what small attendance he had managed to gain in half.
He wasn’t sure how long he—or it—would last.
He’s not alone. That is just one story.
There are so many.
I can’t begin to tell you how many pastors I’ve engaged over the last three years who are shells of who they once were. And often because their churches are shells of what they once were. In case you haven’t heard, the state of the church since COVID is not good.
Here’s a quick snapshot of the typical church:
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in-person attendance has not rebounded to pre-COVID levels
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giving, on the whole, is down
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half of all churches have fewer than 65 attending weekly
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between 3,850 and 7,700 houses of worship close each week
That is far from the only set of dynamics facing most church leaders. The last three years have seen more political, cultural and ideological divides plague our nation than at any other time in recent memory. Adding to the volatility and stress has been how those very political, cultural and ideological divides have often been cast as religious in nature.
This put every pastor in the crosshairs. People demanded they speak out (translation: take their side), and if they did, those who agreed stayed and those who didn’t left. And if they stayed silent? People still left, looking for a church that would espouse and affirm their ideological bent.
Result?
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The percentage of pastors who feel confident about their calling, compared to when they first entered the ministry, dropped from 66% to 35%.
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The number who feel satisfied with their vocation as a pastor dropped from 72% to 52%.
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The number who feel satisfied with their ministry at their current church dropped from 53% to 38%.
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Two in five (41%) say they’ve contemplated quitting over the last 12 months.
