As a pastor, there are a lot of responsibilities and people vying for your attention and a place in your schedule. You love God, people and your job shepherding God’s people, but sometimes…boundaries get jumbled, crossed or even worse—they don’t exist to begin with. The truth is, your pastoral leadership is closely tied to your personal health. And your personal health idepends on healthy boundaries, directly impacted by how well you plan, prioritize, and stick to your schedule.
Healthy Boundaries
But when it comes to your schedule, do you have healthy boundaries? Does your calendar reflect a desire to be a leader who is spiritually, mentally and physically healthy?
Here are a few ways to create healthy boundaries in your schedule to make sure your time is spent wisely.
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Prioritize when you plan.
While your role as a pastor or church leader is an important part of your life, your ministry stretches far beyond the church walls.
That’s why it’s important to plan for the priorities you have both inside and outside of church. Your church meetings have a place in your schedule and your other priorities such as time for family, friends, and leisure should have a place as well. Schedule your family devotions and date nights into your calendar. Treat these time slots the same way you would treat any other meeting.
A few questions to ask yourself based on a few priorities you might have:
- Family: Which times can I set aside each week for my spouse and children?
- Physical Health: Where can I fit working out into my schedule?
- Spiritual Health: How’s my prayer life? How’s my personal walk with God? Are other priorities taking His place?
- Discipleship: When and how can I be available for those I lead spiritually?
Not only does prioritizing your responsibilities in your schedule help you establish boundaries and make time for what matters, but it also sets a good example for your staff and congregation to follow.
