5. During Christmas break, host a gathering that says, “We knew you were coming home.”
Chances are, over the holidays, attendance might be sparse. But the goal is to remind kids you see them, know them, love them, and are available to them. Plan a movie night or New Year’s Eve party, even if few kids attend.
6. Pay attention to spring break schedules.
Text students the week before break. It reminds them that you care, and that someone is paying attention to the details of their life. And while they’re home for break, host a get-together.
7. Finals week is tough, so send a care package.
Include fun snacks and/or caffeine. Offer assurance that even during tough weeks, Jesus is near (and so are you).
8. Host a “You Survived” small group over the summer.
Have some fun. Study the Word. Build community.
Because youth ministers are pastors, our relationships have no expiration date. We’re called to shepherd, lead, care, build up, encourage, and love kids—no matter their season of life.
So maintain your connection to graduates as they enter their college years. Then you’ll get to enjoy the fruits of their unfolding impact on the world.
This article about after teens graduate originally appeared here.
