What are some messages teens need to hear? Read on to learn how your words can make a major difference in young people’s lives.
Teenagers are bombarded by words these days. But what loud-and-clear messages are they receiving? Words have so much importance—often more than we realize. Words can wound, maybe even kill. But they can also affirm and build up.
The messages we convey as youth leaders can let kids know they matter. So check out these tips about words that encourage and affirm teens.
5 Messages Teens Need To Hear
Here are 5 messages teens need to hear (often!) from youth leaders and other adults:
1. God loves you, no matter what.
First and foremost, this is the top truth to share. Keep repeating it, every single time you talk to teens. No matter what we’ve done or will do, God will always love us.
God loves you even if you’re the biggest sinner who ever walked the earth. He loves you when you’re depressed and cutting yourself. When you’re having sex with your boyfriend or girlfriend. When you’re angry all the time. God loves you whether you’re gay, straight, or confused. Absolutely nothing you could ever do would make God stop loving you. So tell teens that, affirming God’s love for them again and again.
2. I love you.
Next is another key truth. And it may sound cheesy. But do you know how many teens long to hear someone say, “I love you”? Show kids you love them by spending time with them and investing in a relationship with them. But remember to say the words too. “Hey man, I love you. You’re like a little brother to me, you know? I love you, girl. I’m so blessed to know you and to have you in my life.” Say the words and watch them make a difference.
3. I forgive you.
Teens will mess up. At one point or another, they will make a mistake, cost you money, or hurt you. How you react can have a huge impact on them. The words kids need to hear are, “I forgive you” (possibly followed by “and I still love you!”). Teens need to know they have the room to make mistakes and that messing up every now and then is okay.
