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Mark Yarhouse: How to Pastor Someone Who Has Gender Dysphoria

“Science shouldn’t run the show, but it informs it.”

“There [in pastoral care], I think it is more on a case-by-case basis. How do I walk with this person? There is a true north because I’ve been doing my theological work, but I walk with this person as they’re sorting out issues surrounding sexuality and gender.”

“One of the misconceptions is that [gender dysphoria] is just willful disobedience, and that tends to come out of the integrity lens, that somehow a person’s making bad decisions and that gets them to this place of gender dysphoria.”

“One thing to think about is whether the path forward in ministry is going to be to restore creational intent or whether it’s going to be to foster Christ-likeness with an enduring condition. And that probably goes back to the three lenses.”

“I do think that most people experience gender dysphoria as an enduring reality, as a besetting condition.” 

“What’s your primary area of ministry? What are you called to? Most of us are not called to debate and engage with political activists. But if you are, it takes a different sort of skill set to navigate those debates at that level.”

“You’ve got to avoid little sound bites and memes that people do all the time in ministry.”

“Ministering to this group of people is a sustained presence, sustained over time.”

“I think if a church is going to start to identify things that preclude them from fellowshipping with people, they’re going to have to be very thoughtful about being consistent here around what they’re saying. Because there’s a lot of things that get a pass in the local church.”

“Whenever you do a sermon… it will come across to the person in the pew as a little more top-down. That doesn’t mean you don’t do it, but realize how that’s experienced. What I try to do is make more emotional connections with the people in my audience.”

“If I preach, I would preach as though there are people in my pews navigating these issues. You preach differently when you start to think of people in the pew, and this is their story.”

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Jason serves as the Chief Strategy Officer at PastorServe, a ministry committed to strengthening the Church by serving pastors through personal coaching and church consulting. He also hosts FrontStage BackStage, a podcast and YouTube show, that helps pastors embrace healthy, well-balanced leadership as they develop a sustainable rhythm for life and ministry. Prior to joining the PastorServe team, Jason served as Vice President of Ministry Mobilization at Outreach, Inc., and as the Executive Director of the National Back to Church Sunday movement. Additionally, Jason served for nearly two decades in pastoral leadership, primarily as a lead pastor, in several contexts, including church plant re-launch, multisite church, multiethnic urban church, and an established suburban church. His experience as a lead pastor has provided numerous opportunities to coach and mentor pastors across the country. Jason and his beautiful wife, Monica, are the proud parents of six children and live on Anastasia Island, Florida. @jasondaye