Senior summer is what comes after graduations galore. Once the pomp and circumstance fades away, students are still in a waiting space for the future to arrive. Sure, graduates have stuff to do, like jobs, missions trips, vacations, and maybe camp. But they’re in a waiting game to leave home and start “adulting.”
I remember attending my college orientation during senior summer. About 40,000 students attended that school. I had to stay on campus three days to find my way around, select classes, and figure everything out. About a day in, I called home, panicking that I would never do well. “What if my roommate turns out to be crazy?” I asked. My parents did the best they could to calm my nerves. Then in the fall I headed out and did fine.
Yet… I wish someone else had helped me think through all that would happen. Even the student who seems the most “ready” is shaking in their boots that they won’t make it in college.
During this past year, you’ve probably done a great job helping students think about their future. I’m talking about senior summer, the last months before kids leave home.
4 Youth Ministry Tips for Senior Summer
1. Don’t drop grads like a hot potato.
They’re leaving, but they aren’t gone yet. Students have built a relationship with you and may need reassurance that it isn’t going away. Let them know you’re available after they leave. Talk with them about fears and how to navigate the college years.
2. Reassure kids as they prepare to head out.
College is no easy task. Students worked hard to get to where they are and will need to work to stay. Talk about how to have a great freshman year. Have an honest discussion about the pitfalls of parties, sleeping late, skipping class, and freedom. Some kids can’t wait to get out from under “house rules.” That focus may not be positive for them.
Explain how to find and plug into a local church. Talk about campus organizations like Cru and InterVarsity that will help them connect to God. Don’t just say, “You’ll do great.” Help kids think it through so they will do great.
3. Be practical.
Grads may be thinking through their new dorm room or living space. What can you send with them to remind them of home? Maybe you can create a poster or pillowcase with a Bible verse and picture. The gift may be subtle, but memories that make kids feel safe are awesome.
