More Tips About Children and Disasters
9. Admit when you don’t know something.
Then find answers to questions together. Use that as a teachable moment.
10. Be prepared to answer the same questions several times.
When something is tough to understand or kids need reassurance, they’ll ask a question repeatedly.
11. Share God’s promises.
Read appropriate Bible verses that deal with the child’s emotions. Have the child read the verses out loud with you and share what it means to them. Let kids know that Jesus is their best friend. He will always be with them, no matter what they go through. Jesus will never leave them.
12. Pray together about the tragedy.
Pray with simple, childlike words of faith. Give the child opportunities to pray as well. Tell God how you’re both feeling and ask for his help to get through it.
13. Help meet needs.
If the child and family have experienced personal loss, rally support and help them get back on their feet. Help children get back into a routine as soon as possible. Routine brings security and stability back into a child’s life.
Also provide opportunities for the child and family to take a break. Fun, entertaining activities offer relief from the turmoil.
14. Be there.
Even if you’re at a loss for words, just being there for the child and family makes a difference.
15. Keep a copy of “Comforting Children in Crisis” on hand.
Last but not least: I give each kidmin staff member this book. It’s full of great advice about children and disasters. I use it constantly when helping kids and families.
With disasters, the circumstances are often unexpected and never easy. You may have a lump in your throat, and your heart may be skipping a beat. That’s okay. Do your best and totally depend on God, the Great Comforter.
