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Person Behind Christian Tradwife Account ‘Patriarchy Hannah’ Apologizes for Catfishing, Goes on Groyper X Space To Explain

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“Christian Twitter” was shook this week when news broke that the person behind the tradwife account “Patriarchy Hannah”—supposedly a woman with 14 children married to a man named “Tony”—had catfished her followers and was actually single and childless. 

The person behind the account, allegedly a woman named Jennifer Bays, deactivated and reactivated her profile at least twice after the news broke, posted two apologies, and addressed the scandal in an X space Wednesday (Feb. 19) that was hosted by “groypers.”

“I want to start this by saying again how deeply sorry I am for lying and for the hurt that I caused people,” said Jennifer in her second apology, which she posted to X Wednesday. “When the original Hannah profile got started, it was just something fun with a friend and I. It got out of hand, and then Patriarchy Hannah came about.” 

“At one point, there were 4 of us running the account. We meshed together different aspects of our lives and that became the character,” she said.

Christian Tradwife Account, ‘Patriarchy Hannah,’ Catfished Thousands

According to her profile, “Patriarchy Hannah” joined X in 2021 and gained around 27,000 followers before she was exposed as a fake person. Hannah claimed to be a married mother of 14 children, some of whom she fostered or adopted. She would at times post funny comments her supposed children had made, as well as controversial takes endorsing patriarchy. 

These included accepting whatever her husband thought instead of having “theological differences” with him. She also said having children was not “an excuse to gain weight,” and defended her so-called husband’s expectation that she stay at a certain weight. Another post questioned the masculinity of any man who isn’t “capable of violence.”

Jennifer acting as Hannah was critical of conservative commentator Allie Beth Stuckey, whom Jennifer accused of being a feminist. Since the news broke about Patriarchy Hannah being a fake person, Stuckey posted a podcast episode addressing and responding to the scandal. 

Jennifer, who reportedly also ran a now-deleted Discord server, had built relationships with some of her followers. Some initially defended her as being who she said she was but later realized their error and now feel shocked and betrayed. There were people who interacted with Jennifer online who had sent her gifts, and a number expressed concern and distress that Jennifer had their personal information. 

Multiple people were looking into Patriarchy Hannah’s true identity, including user Ryan Duff, whose Feb. 14 thread outlining evidence for her lies went viral, amassing 3.2 million views as of this writing. 

WATCH: The Season 5 Trailer of ‘The Chosen’ Features Cleansing of the Temple, Judas’ Betrayal, and Johnny Cash

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Tensions continue to rise in the storyline of “The Chosen,” according to the newly released official trailer for Season 5. The fifth out of what will be seven seasons focuses on events during the week leading up to Jesus’ death, including the Last Supper.

“I’ve seen too much,” says Judas Iscariot in the trailer.

‘How Will You Escape?’—Tensions Rise in the Official Trailer for Season 5 of ‘The Chosen’

The next season of “The Chosen” focuses on the Last Supper and other events of Holy Week. Dallas Jenkins, the show’s creator and director, said the show will “cover joy, pain, loyalty, betrayal, excitement, anger, sadness, and fear, sometimes within one episode.”

Matthew 26 describes Judas Iscariot’s decision to betray Jesus to Roman authorities in exchange for 30 pieces of silver. Season 5 of “The Chosen” will highlight conversations between Judas and Roman officials.

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“I do believe that Jesus is most likely the Messiah,” admits Judas. “I’ve seen too much.”

When asked why Judas was collaborating with the Romans, he answers, “I suppose I have not seen enough.”

“The Pharisees are plotting to arrest Jesus of Nazareth,” a Roman says. Multiple clips show schemes, alliances, and utter chaos during the events of Holy Week.

Season 4 ended right before the Triumphal Entry, and Season 5 picks up where viewers left off. The trailer shows Jesus clearing the temple.

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As Johnny Cash’s hit “God’s Gonna Cut You Down” plays, Jesus is shown in utter dismay, walking the streets of Jerusalem—a “powder keg with all of Jesus’ followers, enemies, and over a million Passover pilgrims packed into one small place,” described Jenkins. Jesus grieves for the people and what was to come.

Former Youth Pastor Pleads Guilty to Sexual Battery of Minor, Receives 10-Year Prison Sentence

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A former youth pastor will spend roughly a decade behind bars after pleading guilty to having sex with a 16-year-old church member. Alexander Blackwelder was on staff at East Main Church of Christ in Tupelo, Mississippi, at the time of the crime. 

Editor’s note: This article refers to reports of child sex abuse, which some readers might find triggering and/or disturbing.

In a statement following Blackwelder’s arrest, the Tupelo Police Department said that it had “received an anonymous tip pertaining to a possible inappropriate relationship between a local youth pastor and a minor.”

“Detectives with the Tupelo Police Department investigated the tip and were able to determine that the tip was valid,” the statement added. 

During interviews with investigators, Blackwelder reportedly admitted to having consensual sex twice with the 16-year-old student.

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The victim told investigators that she initiated the relationship by exchanging sexual pictures and videos with Blackwelder. She also said that she and Blackwelder had sex four times.

Blackwelder was taken into custody in February 2023 and charged with two counts of sexual battery by a person in position of authority of a child and one count of enticement of a child to produce visual depiction of sexual conduct.

Blackwelder was initially held without bond in the Lee County Jail.

A judge later set a $350,000 bond, but it appears that Blackwelder remained behind bars for the entirety of the criminal proceedings. 

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At the bond hearing, Blackwelder’s father told the judge that Blackwelder had resigned his role as youth pastor and requested that Blackwelder’s bond be set at $60,000—a figure the family could possibly afford. 

Maintain a Healthy Brain

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When it comes to your health, do you ever single out your brain as its own category? 

Laurie Kelly, a fitness and nutrition coach, dives into this topic of brain health with helpful tips to care for this important organ. While it is good to focus on healthy, fit bodies, we often neglect the significance of having a healthy brain. Let’s find out why we should spend more time invested in brain health!

In her blog article, “The Brain: Your Body’s Most Important Muscle,” Kelly observes certain facts about the brain that should alert us, as clergy, to pay attention to maintaining brain health: the brain makes up only 2% of total body weight, but uses 20% of the body’s energy; 60% of the brain is comprised of essential fats; 1 in 10 Americans over age 65 will develop Alzheimer’s Disease; 60,000 are diagnosed with Parkinson’s Disease every year.

Check out these five recommendations for brain health, based on Kelly’s article. Consider the importance of maintaining good brain health as you serve God and others in your role as a pastor:

Stay well hydrated.

Think of hydration as the key to supporting your entire central nervous system. The brain has the highest proportion of water when compared to all other organs in the body. That means, with its 80% mass of water, it’s important to be drinking lots of water to maintain healthy levels of hydration. And maybe you’ve experienced the effects of dehydration! When you’re feeling stressed out and maybe a little “foggy,” you might need a glass of water! Those two side effects can be linked to dehydration.

Consume healthy fats.

Our brains are also made up of fats, or fatty acids (omega-3s and omega-6s). Something unique about these fats is they are acquired from food. Your body, on its own, cannot produce them.

When you dig into the science of what’s occurring, you’ll find omega-3s are especially important, because when further broken down, they contribute to the growth of neurons and your brain’s ability to form and reorganize synaptic connections, especially in response to learning or experience. Kelly’s article reminds us a deficiency in omega-3s can affect cognition.

A few helpful ways to stay full of the omega-3s your brain needs is to include fish, seafood and flaxseed, as well as hemp, sunflower, and pumpkin seeds in your diet!

Meditate.

Kelly points to the documented health benefits of meditation, which can take many forms. As Christians and as clergy, there are significant benefits of slowing down in silence before God, simply being present with God through the Spirit, and offering up all our thoughts and concerns to him, not dwelling on them, but basking in his loving presence and releasing all our concerns to God (1 Peter 5:7).

While there are obvious spiritual benefits to quietly meditating on God’s Word or maintaining silent prayer before him, there are also benefits to the brain. It increases blood flow, which helps with mental awareness and other neurological benefits.

Exercise.

We are all aware exercise increases physical fitness in general, but did you know it also helps increase the fitness of your brain?

Kelly shares recent research showing that physical exercise actually brings about measurable changes in brain chemistry, leading to the growth of new brain cells and new synaptic connections. It can also, to a certain degree, reverse the negative effects of aging. This is so important for clergy as we lead, study, and guide others.

The Ultimate Church Media Equipment List for Livestreaming

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What type of church media equipment list should you make for church live streaming? If you want to create a professional live stream, your smartphone won’t provide the quality or features that you need. For pro video and sound, you need pro equipment.

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The cameras and microphones that you use for your live steam directly impact the quality of the stream. If you use inferior cameras or mics, the mixers and software that you use may not provide much help.

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There are several different types of cameras for professional live streaming and each has its own advantages. Your main choices for video cameras include:

  • Smartphone cameras
  • Consumer HD video cameras
  • Professional-quality consumer cameras
  • DSLR video cameras
  • Professional video cameras
  • Pan Tilt Zoom Cameras

The camera on your smartphone and the consumer HD video cameras offer the lowest-quality video, compared to the higher-end options. These cameras typically record in 720p or 1080p HD. While you can get clear video in properly lit settings, smartphone cameras and handheld HD cameras have small imaging chips, which limits the overall clarity and brilliance of the video.

Professional-quality consumer cameras may cost between $1,500 and $20,000 and offer larger imaging chips than the camera on your phone. They also include the features that you need for professional streams, including a wide assortment of video filters and the ability to change lenses. You can also find cameras in this category that include XLR inputs for connecting professional microphones.

The DSLR video cameras are high-quality digital photo cameras that allow you to record HD video. These cameras tend to feature better imaging compared to standard consumer HD video cameras. However, they do not include XLR inputs or any of the video settings available with high-end video cameras such as audio control, exposure settings, and filters.

Why Church Small Groups Don’t Work

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A pastor confesses that he can’t figure out how to make groups work. A popular author grabs a confession and says “See, small groups don’t work. You need to do it my way instead.” Another labels groups as a fad of the last decade. Another leader claims that small groups are small enough to care but not large enough to do anything. Then one of the most prominent churches that promoted small groups and developed an extensive network of churches for small group training is no longer doing groups. It seems like many people are jumping into the blog world to announce that their experience reveals why church small groups don’t work in America. They proclaim the demise of groups as if their point of view is the gospel truth. And the sad thing is that we embrace their limited point of view on small groups don’t work as if it is as valid as any other. Welcome to the post-modern world of flat information dissemination. Everyone is an expert. Or so it seems.

But we need to have something that helps us discern the elements of truth that these small group obituaries contain and try to understand why church small groups don’t work in these specific situations.

Why Church Small Groups Don’t Work

The truth is that groups don’t often work in America. But that does not mean that they can’t work. We have to do the hard work of trying to figure out why church small groups don’t work.  Please understand that reasons I will state are not so much about strategies as much as they are about how we approach our strategies. Here’s the first:

Reason #1 that Groups Don’t Work: Fad Hopping

The leadership of the church moves on to other emphases. When groups were the hot fad and big churches were promoting them and writing new books on why we should develop groups, it was easy to embrace them as central to church life. But when the excitement wanes, leadership moves on to something else that claims to be able to turn a church around. I recently learned that one of the flagship small group churches in North America, one that hosted annual conference on groups and even started an organization to help other churches develop groups, no longer emphasize home cell groups.

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I have seen many churches in America fail at groups because they saw them as a fad and then moved on to other things that promised greater results. Sadly, in the 1990s and early 2000s, many were promoting groups as the best way to grow the church, including yours truly. And many jumped on this bandwagon because they thought that they could enter into the land of success. And when that did not pan out like they expected, they jumped on the next one that passed by.

Groups work! And they can be done, even in America, in a way that brings growth. But they work and grow because we invest in them over the long haul. They are not a magic formula for church growth and health. They are not a fad. Far from it. For the last 50-60 years, the American church has seen about four or five waves of interest in groups.

Reason #2: Boredom with the Mundane

Church leaders are not usually that good at embracing the mundane. We want results and we want them yesterday. We want something that makes for good testimonies, something that has what they call “sizzle” in the marketing world. After all we are accustomed to building churches on sizzle. In the old days, we had revival meetings, then meetings, and sing-alongs. Then we created seeker-services with all the excellence we could muster. Now we have multi-site with annual growth numbers that are staggering.

Long-term small group success lacks this sizzle that we so eagerly long for. It has little fan fare. Small groups work when leaders operate like shepherds. They do the under-ground, consistent, steady work of caring for the sheep. That is hard to promote and measure. It’s different from developing programs in the church which can be seen and measured as we build buildings, develop budget-dependent programs and attract more and more people to a centralized venue. Small group ministry happens without such clear sizzle.

Such long term success cannot be promoted, inspired or programmed. It’s a little like my farm experience as a kid. My father did not go out and inspire the cattle, sheep, chickens, rabbits, etc. to eat, grow, have babies, and do what they were supposed to do. He did not promote, strategize, develop mission statements, motivate, etc. He did not do all the things that we are told that we must do to be good leaders in the church.

Instead he was an environment creator. He focused his work the factors that contributed to a setting where the animals could naturally flourish. And to be honest, it is boring, mundane, repetitive, inconvenient, sacrificial, long, hard work. There are no short cuts to environment creation and maintenance. But when farmers do create the right environments, the animals do what they are supposed to do.

The reason why small groups flourish is when there are leaders who know how to do the mundane work of establishing and supporting environments for growth. May the Lord teach us what this looks like.

Learn two more reasons why church small groups don’t work on Page Two

Reason #3: Hiring Program Administrators

We hire program administrators to run the small group ministry instead of hiring shepherds who will do the mundane, repetitive work of caring for sheep. The reason why small groups can work is an effective small group pastors possess strengths that allow them to focus their energies on caring for people, developing leaders and gathering people around a vision.

I’m not sure that this is something that comes that easily for those of us who have been in church leadership for any length of time. Our traditional church structures have depended upon those who are good orators and those who are good program administrators. It does not take long to see this when we assess the average M.Div. program. And look at the most popular books that target pastors. The bestsellers speak to the issue of vision development skills, leadership aptitude and communication skills.

As SBC Abuser Database Is Put on Ice, Advocates Are out of Patience and Executive Committee Is out of Money

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“It’s the end of an era,” said Tiffany Thigpen following the announcement that the Southern Baptist Convention’s (SBC) Executive Committee is no longer pursuing the implementation of an abuser database.

Thigpen is one of several key abuse survivor advocates who have for years worked alongside SBC leaders and task forces to bring about reforms to address the decades-long failure of the denomination to properly respond to allegations of clergy sex abuse. 

Among the proposed reforms has been the “Ministry Check” website, an online database of pastors, church leaders, and volunteers who have been credibly accused of sexual abuse.

For a time, it appeared that advocates were making headway. At the annual meeting of the SBC in 2022, they cried tears of joy as local church delegates (called messengers) overwhelmingly voted in favor of creating the database. 

“We really thought, wow, people are really listening,” Thigpen told ChurchLeaders. “For us, rejoicing for that is just knowing that other people are going to be safe and other people are not going to have to go through what we’ve been through.” 

The vote for reform came roughly one month after a third-party investigation conducted by Guidepost Solutions revealed that the SBC Executive Committee, at the advice of legal counsel, had systematically ignored and/or silenced victims of sexual abuse who had come forward with credible abuse allegations.

The report became a motivating factor to push reforms forward. However, Thigpen said, “That was the year that I believe the entity heads and everyone else got scared.”

“ Everyone else in the larger structure got really afraid,” she added. “Because they saw what the power of the people could do. I think that they were looking out there going, ‘Oh no, we are possibly in trouble.’”

A number of key leaders consistently opposed the creation of the database, citing issues of liability and due process. 

Two years later, the task force charged with implementing the creation of the database had still not completed the task. As the group disbanded following the denomination’s annual meeting in June 2024, it handed over the reins to the Executive Committee. 

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Task force chairman Josh Wester said at the time that the team had been plagued by liability concerns that had kept it from succeeding. Wester nevertheless expressed optimism that the Executive Committee would complete the task under the leadership of its new president, Dr. Jeff Iorg. 

Chris Pratt Joins Jonathan Roumie, Mark Wahlberg for Hallow’s Lent Prayer Challenge

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Chris Pratt will be joining Jonathan Roumie and Mark Wahlberg, along with Fr. Mike Schmitz, Sr. Miriam James, S.O.L.T., and Cardinal Robert Sarah, for Hallow’s upcoming Lent Pray40 Community Prayer Challenge. Hallow, a Catholic prayer and meditation app, regularly offers prayer challenges that follow the Christian liturgical calendar. 

“This Lent, Hallow will once again launch its Lent Pray40 prayer challenge, beginning on Ash Wednesday,” said Hallow on its website. “Drawing on the incredible writings of St. Josemaría Escrivá, author of The Way, we’ll follow Jesus into deeper faith every day this Lent.”

“Our Lenten challenge is always our biggest challenge of the year,” said Hallow CEO and co-founder Alex Jones in response to a request for comment, “and it’s an honor to get to pray with so many incredible voices and our brothers and sisters in Christ around the world.”

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Hallow’s CEO and co-founder Alex Jones helped launch the app at the end of 2018. Jones said that he grew up Catholic, fell away from his faith, and later returned to his roots, “learning about the Church’s beautiful tradition of prayer & meditation.” These traditions include “deep and transformative contemplative and meditative prayer techniques.” 

Jones and his fellow co-founders, Erich Kerekes and Alessandro DiSanto, created the Hallow app as an alternative to the “secular meditation, mindfulness apps and yoga” attracting many of their friends.

The app regularly partners with celebrities, including Jonathan Roumie, Mark Wahlberg and Jim Caviezel. In 2022, Hallow partnered with members of “The Chosen” cast for that year’s Advent prayer challenge. Last Christmas, Hallow teamed up with Bear Grylls, Gwen Stefani, Kevin James, Lauren Daigle, Jonathan Roumie, and Francis Chan for its annual Pray25 Advent challenge.

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Jones has written a lengthy blog post on the Hallow website explaining the app’s partnership philosophy, which distinguishes between “spiritual leaders,” “content partners,” and “advertising partners” and assigns different levels of responsibility to each.

“We take great care to make sure all of the content on the app is in-line with Church teaching, but we do not stand behind each individual actor or musician’s past public comments, actions, or personal beliefs,” said Jones. “Any answer to any question about where Hallow stands on Church teaching can be found in the Catechism of the Catholic Church.”

This Lent, Hallow said that “to help bring Escrivá’s advice to life, we’ll follow the story of Servant of God Takashi Nagai, a Japanese physician who survived the atomic bombing of Nagasaki in 1945. He survived, but his life was not without difficulty, heartbreak, and, ultimately, conversion.”

Pro-Life Advocates Voice Displeasure With Trump for ‘Expanding Access’ to IVF

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On Tuesday (Feb. 18), President Donald Trump signed an executive order titled “Expanding Access to In Vitro Fertilization.”

“Today, many hopeful couples dream of starting a family, but as many as one in seven are unable to conceive a child,” the order says. “Despite their hopes and efforts, infertility struggles can make conception difficult, turning what should be a joyful experience into an emotional and financial struggle.”

“My Administration recognizes the importance of family formation, and as a Nation, our public policy must make it easier for loving and longing mothers and fathers to have children,” the order continues.

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Therefore, “it is the policy of my Administration to ensure reliable access to IVF treatment, including by easing unnecessary statutory or regulatory burdens to make IVF treatment drastically more affordable.”

The order further states:

Within 90 days of the date of this order, the Assistant to the President for Domestic Policy shall submit to the President a list of policy recommendations on protecting IVF access and aggressively reducing out-of-pocket and health plan costs for IVF treatment.

Following Trump’s signing, White House press secretary Karoline Leavitt posted on social media, saying, “PROMISES MADE. PROMISES KEPT: President Trump just signed an Executive Order to Expand Access to IVF!”

Leavitt continued, “The Order directs policy recommendations to protect IVF access and aggressively reduce out-of-pocket and health plan costs for such treatments.”

Pro-Life Advocates Express Displeasure With Trump’s Executive Order

Seth Gruber, who is the founder of White Rose Resistance and author of “The 1916 Project,” said, “This is NOT good.”

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“If we believe babies have a right to life, then they also have: A right to their mother and father—A right not to be frozen or discarded 70-80% of all embryos created through IVF are discarded,” Gruber posted on social media. “This isn’t ‘pro-family’—it’s expanding access to murder.”

‘People Are Hungry for Truth,’ Says Pastor Greg Laurie After 300 Respond to Gospel Message

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It’s not uncommon for Pastor Greg Laurie to preach the gospel and invite listeners to make a decision that will forever change their lives. Whether he’s addressing the thousands attending the March for Life or those gathered at a weekend service at Harvest Christian Fellowship in California, Laurie unapologetically and clearly speaks to “the power of the gospel.”

“People are searching,” Laurie said in a recent social media post. “They are hungry for truth.”

Greg Laurie Presented a ‘Brief’ Gospel Invitation at Harvest and 300 People Responded

With four campuses across California and Hawaii and services streaming online, Harvest Christian Fellowship reaches people around the globe. Laurie founded the church in 1973 and has served as senior pastor ever since.

He also spent time with evangelist Billy Graham. Laurie “helped him with his message preparation” and “had a front-row seat to watch the greatest evangelist of modern times.”

“It’s as though I enrolled in the finest evangelistic university on Earth,” recalled Laurie.

At a recent service held at his church’s Riverside campus, Laurie preached on “The Man Who Needed a Second Chance.” He decided to share a “brief gospel invitation.” Nearly 300 people made decisions for Christ.

“You can see people coming forward,” Laurie shared, “stepping out in faith to publicly declare their decision to follow Christ. It’s absolutely incredible!”

Laurie called on everyone—not just pastors—to share the gospel. “People are searching,” he explained. “They are hungry for truth. They just need someone like you to start the conversation, to point them to Jesus.”

“The Bible says, ‘How will they hear unless someone tells them?'” Laurie, said quoting Romans 10:14. “The answer? They won’t. So let’s step up, speak up, and share the gospel—because when we do, lives are changed for eternity.”

“I have to tell you—God is moving!” said Laurie.

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Laurie led those who came forward in a prayer, asking them to pray the words out loud after he said them first.

Southern Baptist Leaders Remain Undaunted As Legal Bills From Abuse Investigation Mount

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The Executive Committee of the Southern Baptist Convention gathers for its annual meeting on Feb. 17, 2025, in Nashville, Tenn. RNS Photo by Bob Smietana

NASHVILLE, Tenn. (RNS) — Leaders of the Southern Baptist Convention’s Executive Committee struck a hopeful and defiant tone on Monday night (Feb. 17), acknowledging the fiscal woes facing the convention yet insisting the nation’s largest Protestant denomination remains a force for good in the world.

“Some critics persistently claim we are corrupt, and the entire Southern Baptist enterprise needs to be dismantled,” Executive Committee President Jeff Iorg told committee members in an impassioned speech. “They are wrong.”

The denomination would not fail on his watch, Iorg added, saying he hopes the SBC’s thousands of pastors feel the same way.

Iorg, a former seminary president, had been on his way to retirement last year before accepting the role of president of the Executive Committee. Convention leaders hope his tenure will bring an end to several years of instability and conflict for the Nashville-based committee, which manages the denomination’s business in between the SBC’s annual June gatherings.

When he was elected president, Iorg became the first permanent leader since 2021 and its third since 2018. His predecessor, Ronnie Floyd, resigned in October 2021 after a two-year tenure marked by the SBC’s sexual abuse crisis. Floyd’s predecessor, Frank Page, stepped down in 2018 for misconduct. An interim leader that followed Floyd also resigned after admitting he falsified his resume.

During Iorg’s speech, held in a meeting room at a Nashville airport hotel, he said the committee’s staff had begun to make progress in addressing abuse by hiring Jeff Dalrymple as a national director to oversee several proposed reforms. Iorg also outlined five steps the committee planned to take to implement the abuse reforms, including strengthening training materials and working more closely with the denomination’s state conventions to address abuse.

The abuse reforms, including a database to track abusive pastors, have largely stalled over the past three years — in part because there was no permanent funding and because implementing reforms had been left in the hands of a volunteer task force. Last year, the SBC’s annual meeting charged the Executive Committee with getting the reforms back on track. Iorg and Dalrymple are expected to meet with reporters to address the abuse reforms after the committee’s meetings on Tuesday.

Iorg said the committee’s plans for responding to abuse were shaped in part by the response to a hotline set up by the SBC in 2022 for reporting abuse claims. The hotline has received 1,008 contacts since then, said Iorg.

Two-thirds of those contacts – 674 in all  — had to do with abuse. Of those, 41% dealt with alleged abuse of adults, while 59% were reports of alleged abuse of minors.

Iorg said those reports suggest sexual abuse is a serious issue for the SBC to deal with —  but asserted it is not widespread.

“Abuse is not frequently being reported in Southern Baptist churches,” Iorg said. “We have widely publicized this issue for the past five years and encouraged people to come forward with information and allegations. We now have verified, third-party data.”

Iorg also said that the hotline call data was not a comprehensive look at the scope of abuse in the SBC and that more data was needed.

TD Jakes: Defamation Suit Filed After Health Incident Because ‘Enough Is Enough!’

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Bishop T.D. Jakes appears to The Potter’s House congregation via video, Dec. 1, 2024. (Video screen grab)

(RNS) — Dallas megachurch pastor Bishop T.D. Jakes continued to deny claims by two other ministers who have accused him of sexual misconduct, describing the accusers in a newly filed affidavit as “bullies” and himself as the victim of a scheme to “destroy” him.

“In all my years, I have never initiated a lawsuit against anyone,” Jakes said in the eight-page affidavit that was part of a 562-page package of legal documents filed in a Pennsylvania federal court on Friday (Feb. 14). “We filed this lawsuit against individuals who were supposed to be men of God but are clearly not.” Two men, the brothers Duane and Richard Youngblood, allege that Jakes made sexual advances decades ago, when he was pastor of a church in West Virginia.

Jakes’ legal team filed a defamation suit against Duane Youngblood in November, a day after Jakes suffered an unspecified medical incident in front of his congregation attending a Sunday service at The Potter’s House in Dallas.

Jakes claimed the incident, for which he was briefly hospitalized, along with other family health situations, spurred him to take the legal action.

“All of this was happening while I found myself helping my wife recover from knee replacement surgery and while helping my brother navigate kidney failure,” he wrote in the statement filed Friday. “This unwarranted stress brought me to a place of having a health crisis on stage in front of my entire congregation. As a guy who’d had no previous health challenges, this near-death experience was a turning point for me. Enough is enough!”

Friday’s filings came in response to a January motion to dismiss the defamation suit by Duane Youngblood, a Pennsylvania man who made his allegations against Jakes in two 2024 interviews on the “Larry Reid Live” YouTube talk show.

In his affidavit, Duane Youngblood recalled a long conversation he had with Jakes as a teenager at the private home where the elder minister was staying. “As I prepared to leave, he pulled me close and tried to kiss me,” according to the affidavit. Youngblood said Jakes called him the next morning and “told me he wanted me to be the only person he had a sexual relationship with when he came to town.”

The motion to dismiss Jakes’ suit included a sworn affidavit from Youngblood’s older brother, the Rev. Richard Edwin Youngblood, who testified that he had heard Duane Youngblood describe the alleged misconduct by Jakes. But Richard Youngblood also claimed that Jakes climbed into bed with him on a church business trip.

Richard Youngblood said he first met Jakes around the spring of 1986 and worked as an assistant and praise and worship leader in Jakes’ church before “things started to become weird,” including Jakes discussing oral sex. Later, he said, Jakes rented a hotel room one night for them with two beds.

“That night, while I was laying in my bed, I felt Elder Jakes climb into my bed. He pressed his body against mine and asked, ‘Youngblood, do you feel that?’” reads the statement, signed in December 2024. “He was referencing his erection that he was pressing against my back side.”

Jakes and his legal team responded to the allegations by noting that Duane Youngblood has felony convictions for sexual assault and corruption of minors and said Richard Youngblood’s “story surfaced only after I declined to hire him due to his lack of qualifications.” Jakes said the request from Richard Youngblood occurred about 10 years ago.

In a second affidavit in Friday’s filings, Jakes’ son Jermaine spoke in support of his father. In Duane Youngblood’s filings, the younger Jakes was accused of sending the accuser a “message perceived as carrying a direct threat of harm.”

Wheaton College Clash Over Russell Vought Escalates, Exposing Evangelical Fault Lines

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Russell Vought, President Donald Trump’s choice for director of the Office of Management and Budget, appears before the Senate Budget Committee during a hearing examining his nomination, on Capitol Hill in Washington, Jan. 22, 2025. (AP Photo/Jacquelyn Martin)

(RNS) — Despite Wheaton College’s attempts to quiet a backlash from alumni over its pro forma congratulatory message recognizing alumnus and newly confirmed White House official Russell Vought, the actions of the “deliberately non-partisan” evangelical Christian school have only brought more controversy.

After Wheaton posted its Feb. 7 statement asking for prayers for Vought, alumni and others answered on social media, objecting to Vought’s work as an architect of Project 2025, the proposed agenda for a second Trump administration, and as a past and current White House director of the Office of Management and Budget. Wheaton soon withdrew its statement, saying the flap had rendered its congratulations more political than it intended.

On Feb. 10, an open letter signed by hundreds of alumni appeared, calling Vought’s positions “antithetical to Christian charity.” The signers, including alumni who are on the faculty at New York University and Baylor University, agreed to “publicly distance” themselves from Vought’s work and “reaffirm our commitment to the Gospel’s radical call to justice, mercy, and humility.”

On Monday (Feb. 17), a second alumni letter appeared, accusing the college of stifling conservative viewpoints, capitulating to “the spirit of our age” and upholding a “DEI regime.” It concludes with a list of demands, including that the college audit “every single faculty and staff member’s commitment to the Statement of Faith and Community Covenant.”

While the clash of alumni can’t be tidily summarized as a division between progressives and conservatives — plenty of conservative Christians oppose recent actions by the Trump administration — the dueling Wheaton letters mirror a larger clash between the Christian values invoked by President Donald Trump’s Cabinet members and those of religious groups at odds with the administration’s humanitarian aid freeze, halting of the U.S. refugee program and decision to permit law enforcement officials to raid houses of worship in search of migrants.

The competing letters also expose the larger fault lines in evangelical Christianity. While earlier dustups at U.S. Christian colleges pointed to a growing rift over culture war disputes, the incident at Wheaton, one of the most influential Christian colleges in the nation, drew defenses of Vought and Trump from the likes of Franklin Graham, the head of Samaritan’s Purse whose father, Billy Graham, attended the school, and evangelical radio host Eric Metaxas.

Graham pronounced himself “shocked” when, hours after Wheaton’s congratulatory Feb. 7 post, alumni — whom Graham dismissed as “leftist Trump-haters” — answered with a flurry of comments claiming that Vought contradicts the Christian values the school promotes.

“The work that he is doing negatively and directly impacts countless other Wheaton alum who are seeking to be the hands and feet of Jesus in this country and around the rest of the world,” one commenter wrote. Several condemned Vought for backing the freezing of foreign aid and shutting down the Consumer Financial Protection Bureau, which protects consumers from predatory practices.

A day after sharing the post, Wheaton deleted it, saying: “It was not our intention to embroil the College in a political discussion or dispute.” Later, it released a statement calling the comments on the post “primarily incendiary” and “unchristian,” and clarifying that the deletion of the initial post was “in no way an apology for having expressed congratulations or for suggesting prayer for our alumnus.”

Wheaton did not provide new information in response to questions from RNS.

Wheaton’s pivot, however, only further ensnared the school in debate. The second letter, which has been signed by more than 740 students and alumni and 270 other stakeholders, does not name Vought or Project 2025 explicitly, but criticizes Wheaton, which its says “has repeatedly capitulated to the spirit of our age—placating bad actors while sidelining those who bear a more faithful witness.”

It goes on to accuse Wheaton of “mission drift,” citing “the relentless centering of race and the elevation of voices who promote unbiblical pedagogies, like critical theory,” and “the general tendency to stifle those who bring conservative viewpoints.” It also says the school has appropriated “LGBT terminology and identities.”

8 Christian Values Jesus Wouldn’t Agree With

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What if certain Christian values we equate with following Jesus aren’t actually Christian? Like it or not, culture shapes our picture of Jesus. If we don’t identify false stigmas and misconceptions, we will devote time and energy cultivating a virtue that isn’t Christian.

Fake Christian Values

I hate disclaimers, but what follows deserves one. The Christian values below aren’t evil. I’m not asking you to avoid them. I am asking you to think seriously about what it means to walk in the footsteps of Jesus. Here are eight Christian virtues that aren’t really Christian.

1. Niceness

I can’t help but wonder what we would think about Jesus in modern-day America. We’re talking about a guy who called one of his closest friends “Satan!” He talked disrespectfully to religious leaders. Nice wouldn’t be the first word I would use.

Was Jesus kind? Absolutely. Kindness is a fruit of the Spirit. Here’s the problem, though, when it comes to Christian values. Niceness and kindness aren’t interchangeable.

Nice is cheap. It costs you nothing. Nice avoids tension and always strokes your ego, even if Ray Charles could see you’re wrong. Niceness is NOT next to godliness.

Kindness, however, tells you what you need to hear. It won’t stroke your ego because you’re awesome. Kindness loves you too much for that. The seeds of kindness are planted in the soil of love. From this rich earth comes real tension. But the end result is a fruitful life.

I wonder how many friends Jesus would have in an overly sensitive culture where ego stroking is a national pastime?

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I know Jesus would infuriate me. For much of my life, I equated niceness with godliness. Good friends would never call me out, I thought. Good Christians wouldn’t either.

But I struggle to equate niceness with godliness when I read the Gospels. Maybe we need more Christian like Jesus. Maybe we need more friends like Jesus. I know I do.

2. Always say “Yes.”

When Tiffani and I graduated from college, we immediately plugged into a local church. For the first two years, we said yes to everything.

“Will you lead a prayer in worship Sunday?”

Yes.

“We’re short a few volunteers. Will you help out at the food pantry?”

Yes.

“Will you housesit our cats?”

No. I don’t do cats. Neither does Jesus.

Good Christians were servants, I thought. They never say no. They’re “yes men (and women)”…for Jesus.

While you should serve your local church, the weight of “yes” can (and will) cripple you. For those who say “yes” too often, you feel this weight.

Here’s why. Oftentimes, we say yes because we want to feel needed. It’s about approval, not servanthood.

Saying no to a volunteer opportunity is hard. Saying no to a toxic friendship is painful. Saying no to peer pressure, negativity, temptation and abuse, all of these are hard.

But let’s not bow down to the god of yes. This god takes everything and gives nothing.

45 Great Worship Songs for Men

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Looking for good worship songs for men? Let me tell you this true story.

I’m getting ready to speak to several hundred guys at a men’s event. Let me say it again: a men’s event. And the band is leading us through this song:

Your love is extravagant
Your friendship, it is intimate
I feel I’m moving to the rhythm of Your grace
Your fragrance is intoxicating in our secret place

Why do worship leaders choose such girly songs, filled with romantic imagery, even when they perform worship songs for men?

 

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Well, now they don’t have to. I asked one of my readers, Jeffrey Painter, to assemble a list of good songs for men’s worship for men. He came up with 45. Consider this a down payment. If someone would like to expand this list of men’s worship, let me know.

Jeffery Painter’s List of Worship Songs for Men:

4 Weapons of Mass Distraction in the Lives of Leaders

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In Os Guiness’ excellent book, Fool’s Talk: Recovering the Art of Christian Persuasion, he used the phrase, weapons of mass distraction, to describe how people today distract themselves to avoid facing their inconsistent and broken beliefs about God and eternal matters.

He writes that while distraction may feel good in the short-term (we avoid the discomfort of inconsistent belief and behavior), it’s disastrous in the long-term. Mass distraction is also a fitting metaphor for how leaders sometimes get sidetracked from the business of leading.

Ask yourself which of these four weapons of mass distraction divert you the most from leading at your best.

4 Weapons of Mass Distraction

1. Multi-tasking

Sometimes we get lulled into thinking we can multi-task and get more done… keep email and text alerts on as we prepare a sermon (if you’re a pastor) or as you think through a critical strategy as a leader. We think that giving 90% effort to an important task and 10% effort to a distraction equals 100% of our effort. Actually, each time we shift from one task to another and then shift back, the sum total of our effort gets diluted. It never equals 100%. There is a cognitive cost.

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It’s called attention residue — it takes time for our minds to disengage from the distraction and get back on task. And, researchers have discovered that constantly emailing or texting temporarily decreases our IQ.

Solution: Leaders, turn off your phone and automatic alerts.

2. Continuous partial attention

Linda Stone, a former VP at Microsoft coined the term. She describes it this way. “To pay continuous partial attention is to keep a top-level item in focus, and constantly scan the periphery in case something more important emerges.” As a result, this “always on” mode puts our brains on constant alert, thus flooding them with too much stress hormone which slows processing.

Solution: Schedule your best thinking time in a quiet, distraction free environments. I use a niche in my office that blocks me from seeing people pass by my office window.

3. Dopamine addiction

Dopamine is one of over 100 chemicals in the brain called neurotransmitters. Simply put, a neurotransmitter is a chemical messenger the brain uses to send messages from one brain cell (a neuron) to the next. As a feel good neurotransmitter, it kicks in during activities that bring us pleasure — from checking off items on your to-do list to eating a bowl of triple-fudge marshmallow creme ice cream to seeing more ‘likes’ on your Facebook posts. It’s also involved in drug, alcohol, and sexual addition.

Goals for Children’s Ministry: 10 Ways To Be More Inviting

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What are your goals for children’s ministry at your church? One should be to create an inviting environment. Surroundings matter…a lot! But that doesn’t mean everything has to be difficult or expensive.

Easy improvements can instantly make your kidmin program more inviting to parents and kids. Get started with these ideas.

Goals for Children’s Ministry: 10 Tips

1. Start with the parking lot.

First consider how people arrive. I visit lots of churches and am often amazed at two things. The parking lot area is often in bad shape. Second, it’s often difficult to find the children’s ministry. Next time you drive into your parking lot, view it from the perspective of first-time visitors. Then make changes accordingly.

2. Be obviously safe.

Signage, check-in requirements, people with bright orange vests… Whatever you need to do to communicate that families are entering (and dropping their kids off in) a safe environment—do it.

3. Brighten things up. 

Have you ever walked into an area that’s supposed to be for kids but is dark? Enough said.

4. Remember that music matters. 

Have you ever walked into an area that’s supposed to be for kids but is dead silent? Enough said.

5. Be ready and waiting.

Next, don’t make families figure things out for themselves. When they arrive at church, they must figure out how to check in their kids, where they drop them off, where bathrooms are, how to get to the Worship Center, what they’ll do with the pager, and so on. There’s a lot to figure out, usually in a short period of time. (What visitor wants to walk in late to worship?) Greeters should be as much a part of your kidmin team as teachers.

Signs You’re a Youth Pastor: Check Out These Indicators

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What are some signs you’re a youth pastor? Comedians Tripp and Tyler occasionally poke fun at the Christian community (all in good humor). The video below highlights the following telltale signs of youth pastor-dom. Which signs do you recognize in yourself?

Signs You’re a Youth Pastor

You might be a youth pastor if…

  • You pick your clothing based on how well it will resonate with teens.
  • To attract people to events, you publicize what snacks you’ll be serving and what games you’ll be playing.
  • You take every opportunity to applaud your hot spouse’s amazing organizational skills.
  • You encourage everyone to bring their “pagan” friends to youth events.
  • While talking, you use the word amazing an amazing number of times!
  • You slip the meat of the Word into youth events just as a parent sneaks veggies into a strawberry smoothie.

Last but not least, we’re adding this one in. The video doesn’t mention it, but if you know, you know!

  • You will do absolutely anything and everything to reach a kid for Christ. That includes changing your wardrobe, ditching your Friday night plans, and bending over backward to show the love of Christ.

We see you, youth ministry worker. And we appreciate everything you do!

Enjoy watching this video about signs you’re a youth pastor. Then chime in below, adding some other signs in the comments.

‘God Has a Path’—Nate Bargatze Talks to Anjelah Johnson-Reyes About How God Has Guided His Comedy Career

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Nate Bargatze, a comedian who is known for his clean sense of humor, has exploded in popularity over the past several years, yet Bargatze did stand-up for a long time before becoming famous. In a recent conversation with his friend, fellow comedian, and fellow Christian, Anjelah Johnson-Reyes, Bargatze shared ways he believes that God was watching over him throughout his career. 

“God has a path, and I’m just here to follow the path, so I just kind of wait and see where the doors open,” said Bargatze during an interview on the “Funjelah” podcast. 

“I mean, I get nervous with ideas that pop in my head,” Bargatze said, but he trusts that God will “open the doors that need to be open, and you just point me where you want to go. So I’m grateful to get to be the one that was chosen to be this vessel.”

Nate Bargatze Is Thankful God Had Him Tour With Anjelah Johnson-Reyes

Anjelah Johnson-Reyes is a former professional cheerleader and is an actor and a stand-up comedian who has several specials on Netflix and Comedy Central. She is known in part for her character Bon Qui Qui, portrayed while Johnson-Reyes was a cast member on “MADtv.”

Nate Bargatze is a Grammy-nominated stand-up comedian who counts among his achievements several specials on Amazon and Netflix, including his latest, “Your Friend, Nate Bargatze.” Bargatze also hosted Saturday Night Live twice, playing the role of George Washington in two different skits that each went viral. Earlier in his career, Bargatze toured with Johnson-Reyes and was her opening act. 

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Bargatze does not often allude to being a Christian during his stand-up routines, although one of his specials has a segment joking about what it was like growing up in a Christian home in the 80s and 90s.

“Is there something that stands out to you that you’re like, I am grateful for?” Johnson-Reyes asked Bargatze during their nearly two-hour conversation.

“Yeah, I’m grateful to be a vessel for what I’m doing…the one thing I try to remind myself right before I go on stage every time is this is not about me,” he answered. “So when I go out there, it has nothing to do with me. This night’s not about me, even though it looks like it’s only about me.”

“It can’t be about me,” Bargatze said, “because if it was about me, I wouldn’t be able to handle it. That’s why I can handle it, because it’s not about me…what I believe, it’s on God.”

‘Wicked’ Star Cynthia Erivo Will Play Jesus in ‘Jesus Christ Superstar’ at Hollywood Bowl

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Time's Up event at the 2018 Tribeca Film Festival (Tribeca Talks: Time's Up). A series of talks/performances about Time's Up/sexual harassment. Cynthia Erivo during the Reclaiming the Narrative panel. April 28, 2018. Rhododendrites, CC BY-SA 4.0, via Wikimedia Commons

Cynthia Erivo, who charmed moviegoers as Elphaba in the 2024 film adaptation of the musical “Wicked,” will star in the title role of “Jesus Christ Superstar” in a production that will play at the Hollywood Bowl this August.

“A global phenomenon that has wowed audiences for decades, Jesus Christ Superstar is a timeless work that explores the biblical portrayal of the extraordinary events that led to the death and resurrection of Jesus Christ as seen through the eyes of his betrayer, Judas Iscariot,” says a description of the show on the Hollywood Bowl website. “The story, told entirely through song, explores the personal relationships and struggles between Jesus, Judas, Mary Magdalene, Jesus’ disciples, his followers and the Roman Empire.”

The site says that the rest of the cast for the Aug. 1-3 production of “Jesus Christ Superstar” is yet to be announced. 

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Cynthia Erivo Takes on the Role of Jesus

Cynthia Erivo is an award-winning British actor and singer and the daughter of Nigerian immigrants. Her accolades include being the winner of a Tony Award, Daytime Emmy Award, and Grammy Award. Erivo was nominated for an Academy Award for Best Actress for her portrayal of Harriet Tubman in the 2019 biopic “Harriet” and was nominated for the Academy Award for Best Original Song for the film’s song “Stand Up.” 

Erivo was most recently nominated for an Academy Award for Best Actress for her portrayal of Elphaba alongside her costar Ariana Grande, who was nominated for an Academy Award for Best Supporting Actress for Grande’s portrayal of Galinda/Glinda. 

“Jesus Christ Superstar” is a rock opera told from the perspective of Judas that debuted in 1971 and is loosely based on the gospel accounts of the life of Jesus. Andrew Lloyd Webber composed the music, and Tim Rice wrote the lyrics. 

“This brand-new production sees Jesus Christ Superstar returning to its rock roots,” says the the Hollywood Bowl website, “and features lyrics by Tim Rice and music by Andrew Lloyd Webber, with Tony Award winner Sergio Trujillo as director and choreographer and Tony winner Stephen Oremus as musical director and conductor.”

According to the Los Angeles Times, the show will be the first summer musical to take place at the Hollywood Bowl since the COVID-19 pandemic caused a hiatus in 2020.

The play was and is controversial for reasons including that it suggests a romantic relationship between Jesus and Mary Magdalene, shows Jesus struggling with doubt, takes a sympathetic view toward Judas, and does not depict the resurrection. People have also criticized it for an antisemitic portrayal of the Jews. Famed evangelist Billy Graham once said that “Jesus Christ Superstar” “bordered on blasphemy.” 

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