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‘We Don’t Get To Discriminate’: How a Raleigh Ministry Decided to Help Resettle Afrikaners

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Welcome House Raleigh rents a storage unit to help furnish homes for new refugees. This one in North Raleigh, N.C., is crammed full of household items. (RNS photo/Yonat Shimron)

RALEIGH, N.C. (RNS) — The 12×30-foot storage unit in a Raleigh, North Carolina, suburb is crammed full of chairs, tables, mattresses, lamps, pots and pans.

Most of its contents will soon be hauled off to two apartments that Welcome House Raleigh is furnishing for three newly arrived refugees. It’s a job the ministry, which is a project of the Cooperative Baptist Fellowship of North Carolina, has handled countless times on behalf of newly arrived refugees from such places as Afghanistan, the Democratic Republic of the Congo, Syria and Venezuela.

But these two apartments are going to three Afrikaners — whose status as refugees is, according to many faith-based groups and others, highly controversial.

Last week, Marc Wyatt, director of Welcome House Raleigh, received a call from the North Carolina field office of the U.S. Committee for Refugees and Immigrants asking if he could help furnish the apartments for the refugees, among the 59 Afrikaners who arrived in the U.S. last week from South Africa, he told RNS. It was a common request for the ministry that partners with refugee resettlement agencies to provide temporary housing and furniture for people in need.

And at the same time, the request was extremely challenging. After thinking about it, consulting with the Welcome House network director and asking for feedback from ministry volunteers, Wyatt said yes.

“Our position is that however morally and ethically charged it is, our mandate is to help welcome and love people,” said Wyatt, a retired Cooperative Baptist Fellowship missionary who now works for CBF North Carolina. “Our holy book says God loves people. We don’t get to discriminate.”

He recognized that Afrikaners are part of a white ethnic minority that created and led South Africa’s brutal segregationist policies known as apartheid for nearly 50 years. That policy, which included denying the country’s Black majority rights to voting, housing, education and land, ended in 1994, when the country elected Nelson Mandela in its first free presidential election.

Like Wyatt and Welcome House, many faith-based groups are now considering whether to help the government resettle Afrikaners after the Trump administration shut down refugee resettlement for all others.

Last week, the Episcopal Church chose to end its refugee resettlement partnership with the U.S. government rather than resettle Afrikaners. Presiding Bishop Sean Rowe said his church’s commitment to racial justice and reconciliation, and its long relationship with the late Anglican Archbishop Desmond Tutu made it impossible for the church to work with the government on resettling Afrikaners.

In January, in one of his first executive orders, President Donald Trump shuttered the decades-old refugee program, which brings people to the U.S. who are displaced by war, natural disasters or persecution. The decision left thousands of refugees, many living in camps for years and having undergone a rigorous vetting process, stranded.

But then Trump directed the government to fast-track the group of Afrikaners for resettlement, saying these white farmers in South Africa are being killed in a genocide, a baseless claim. The order left many refugee advocates who have worked for years to resettle vulnerable people enraged.

“Refugees sit in camps for 10, 20 years, but if you’re a white South African Afrikaner, then suddenly you can make it through in three months?” asked the Rev. Randy Carter, director of the Welcome Network and a pastor of a CBF church. “There’s a lot of words I’d like to attach to that, but I don’t want any of those printed.”

Resettling Afrikaners Is a ‘Faustian Bargain,’ Says Episcopal Church’s Sean Rowe

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FILE - White South Africans demonstrate in support of U.S. President Donald Trump in front of the U.S. embassy in Pretoria, South Africa, Saturday, Feb. 15, 2025. (AP Photo/Jerome Delay, File)

(RNS) — Faith leaders expressed a strident commitment to continue to follow their moral compasses on immigration, including refugee resettlement issues — despite any potential retaliation from the Trump administration — at an RNS webinar on Tuesday (May 20).

“Institutional resistance is now more important than ever,” said the Most Rev. Sean Rowe, the presiding bishop of the Episcopal Church. “The church may be one of the few institutions that will be able to stand up and to tell the truth along the way, and not fold to demands and continue to be asked to make compromises on our moral decision-making.”

Rowe spoke about faith-based lawsuits, explaining the Episcopal Church’s decision to end its refugee resettlement partnership with the United States government over the Trump administration’s new focus on resettling white Afrikaners from South Africa. The Episcopal Church has a long history of opposing apartheid in South Africa, and Rowe said the Trump administration created “a real distortion of the facts and of the truth” when claiming Afrikaners were now being subjected to racial discrimination in the country post-apartheid.

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“Afrikaners don’t fit any definition of refugee,” Rowe said, explaining that he spoke with Cape Town Archbishop Thabo Makgoba about the many Africans fleeing violence who were now “jumped” in line by the white Afrikaners to get to the U.S.

Rowe acknowledged that some argued Episcopal Migration Ministries should resettle Afrikaners now to be able to hopefully resettle other refugees later. However, he defended the church’s decision by saying, “The problem with any kind of Faustian bargain like that is that the devil always wins.”

Presiding Bishop-elect Sean Rowe speaks following his election during the Episcopal Church General Convention in Louisville, Kentucky, Wednesday, June 26, 2024. (Photo by Randall Gornowich)

Several other faith-based refugee resettlement groups have told RNS they are providing or will provide services to a small number of Afrikaners arriving in the U.S. Church World Service and World Relief, two such agencies, both urged the Trump administration to resume refugee resettlement as normal.

The Rev. Carlos Malavé, president of the Latino Christian National Network, said, “As followers of Jesus, we must be faithful to our call.

“We cannot shy away from being prophetic and to name the evils that we are seeing coming out of the policies of the administration,” he said.

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Malavé said the task now is to articulate a Gospel worldview coming from Jesus Christ, “a worldview in which every human being is loved, accepted, cared for, without any difference among them.”

Immigrant families attending churches in his network had initially been afraid to go to sensitive locations like churches, hospitals and schools after the Trump administration lifted restrictions on immigration raids at those sites. But now, with time to reflect, Malavé said, these families are leaning on their faith.

“They have come to think, yes, there’s danger out there, but I’m in God’s hands. My family is in God’s hands,” he said.

Why Narcissists Struggle to Find the Will of God

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If I ever had the chance to ask the Apostle Paul what the will of God for his purpose was, I would have expected him to begin with his Damascus Road experience—you know, the one where he literally met Jesus. If Jesus showed up in a blaze of glory and said something directly to you, isn’t that where you’d start? “Man, it was crazy. I was on my way to class one day, and Jesus appeared to me and knocked me off my skateboard …”(That’s right, skateboard. What else would you suggest is a 21st century equivalent of getting knocked off a horse?) But here’s the thing: Paul doesn’t start with Damascus Road. When Paul states his purpose in Romans 15, he instead grounds his understanding of his calling in God’s purposes on earth. He wants to find the will of God for himself:

“My aim is to preach the gospel where Christ has not been named … but, as it is written, ‘Those who were not told about him will see, and those who have not heard will understand.’”

– Romans 15:20–21 CSB

I think he did this so he could be an example to us because, while most of us will not have a Damascus Road experience, all of us have the Scriptures—and that’s the place we are supposed to begin to find the will of God.

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The Bible makes it clear. In Romans 15:10–13, Paul does something no one else does in the New Testament: He stacks passages from all three major parts of the Old Testament, one after another—from the Law, the Prophets, and the Wisdom writings. It’s as if Paul is saying, “All of the Old Testament is organized around this truth: God will make his name and salvation known among all nations.”

Hymn Vs Song — Is There a Difference?

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I once wrote an article called “Three False Reasons to Label Your Worship Song a Hymn.” But what about the other side of that? In a world that sometimes seems like hymn vs song, let’s look at characteristics of a true hymn.

Hymn vs Song—Is There a Difference?

1. It Functions as a Poem

In Sing With Understanding: An Introduction to Christian Hymnody, Harry Eskew and Hugh T. McElrath describe a hymn as a kind of poem set to music. They further write, “It should be simple and metrical in form, genuinely emotional, poetic and literary in style, spiritual in quality, and in its ideas so direct and so immediately apparent as to unify a congregation while singing it.”

Most song lyrics are not really meant to be taken as poetry. If you read them aloud without the music, the lyrics might not seem as powerful. They were meant to be taken with music, and were likely written after or at the same time the music was composed.

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Hymns are likewise meant for singing, of course, but hymn lyrics are typically crafted as poetry, independent of music (at least, this is true of the hymns of our past by hymnists like Wesley, Watts, Cowper and Newton). When you read a well-crafted hymn such as When I Survey the Wond’rous Cross, you will feel the cadence, even if unaware of the melody composed for it. This is why composers can keep writing new tunes for old hymn texts. It’s also why many people (particularly in ages past) would read hymnals as they would any devotional book, and even delight in the hymns they’d never heard.

2. Economy of Words

What? Hymns aren’t wordy? Hymns often contain more words than contemporary popular songs, but each line is metrically precise. The hymnist establishes a “metrical contract” with worshipers in the first verse. This contract sets terms like “every line will be eight syllables long” or “lines will alternate between lengths of eight syllables and six syllables.” This is true for old hymns like When I Survey the Wond’rous Cross and it is true of modern hymns like In Christ Alone (eight syllables per line, in both hymns—we call that “long meter”).

Faith Over Feelings: What Are You Led By?

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What are you led by? What directs your decisions, actions, words and thoughts? Are you led by faith over feelings?

As believers, we’re called to live by faith. And yet so many of us choose to live by something else—our feelings. Have you ever made a decision because it simply “felt right”? Have you ever said something because it “felt like the perfect moment”? I know I have. Before I became a believer, I lived fully by feeling. My feelings informed my reactions to life and directed my every step. If a pathway wasn’t accompanied by a nice feeling, it wasn’t the one I took.

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Shortly after I became a believer, I still lived by my feelings rather than my faith. I doubted my salvation because it didn’t feel real. I struggled to believe that God still loved me when I sinned because I couldn’t feel His love. I often gave into temptation to sin because it felt better than obedience. My worship time was completely regulated by my feelings as well—if I felt near to God, then I had worshiped effectively and rightly.

Do you live by your feelings? Do you live in a similar way that I did? If so, we need to consider what God’s Word has to say about our feelings and what living by faith actually looks like.

Faith Over Feelings: Your Feelings Can’t Be Trusted

The Bible is quick to tell us that our feelings (or hearts, more accurately) can’t be trusted.

Trust in the LORD with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding (Prov. 3:5).

Whoever trusts in his own mind is a fool, but he who walks in wisdom will be delivered (Prov. 28:26).

The heart is deceitful above all things, and desperately sick; who can understand it? (Jer. 17:9).

Why are our hearts deemed so untrustworthy? Two reasons: They are constantly changing and affected by sin.

Our feelings are about as certain as the sand on the beach. The sand is always being moved, pushed forward and backward by both wind and water. It’s kicked and thrown by people running across it, children building with it and dogs digging in it. It may appear to be a solid foundation for your sandcastle, but add just a little too much water and the entire building will collapse.

Our feelings are no different than that sand. They’re easily changed by people and circumstances. One moment you could be happily reading a book in your favorite chair, and a few minutes later be angered by the trail of mud your dog just brought in. You may have felt down when you first woke up this morning, but after an invigorating run with your favorite music playlist, your day is looking a lot brighter. See how fickle our feelings are?

Our feelings can also be influenced by others. A speaker could make you feel passionate about a new social justice need. A worship leader could make you feel like God’s presence is all around you. A pastor could make you feel guilty. A friend could make you feel happy again. A salesperson could make you feel anxious that you don’t have the latest product. Our feelings are so easily influenced and changed by words, actions and tones.

This is where we can see the folly of trusting our feelings. How can you rely on something to inform you that is always swaying? We wouldn’t take confidence in a leader if he was always second-guessing and changing the plan of action. Why would we trust your feelings any better? They aren’t certain, and they are poorly informed.

Kindergarten Bible Lessons Build an Early Faith Foundation

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Kindergarten Bible lessons help young children learn about Jesus. With age-appropriate lessons, children’s ministry workers and Sunday school teachers can help kindergartners fall in love with God and the Bible.

Read on for developmental tips, plus sample ideas for teaching kindergarten Bible lessons.

Understanding Kindergartners

By ages 5 and 6, children are concrete thinkers. They learn through what they see, hear, touch, and do. So avoid abstract theological concepts; instead, make real-life connections.

Kindergartners have short attention spaces, so plan lessons in 5- or 10-minute segments. Add variety through songs, stories, games, crafts, and movement. Puppets, pictures, and costumes keep kids engaged and aid learning.

Most kindergartners are imaginative, so use pretend play and storytelling. Action-packed Bible stories—like Noah’s Ark or David and Goliath—capture their attention. Keep lessons short, dramatic, and interactive. Ask questions like, “What do you think happened next?”

Because most kindergartners are eager to please, teachers have strong influence on them. So model trusting, empathetic relationships in your children’s ministry. While teaching, get on kids’ level. Sit with them and make eye contact.

Repeat simple words and key phrases: “God loves me,” “Jesus is with me,” “The Bible is true.” Also use kids’ names often. Praise their effort, not perfection.

Be flexible, adapting to kindergartners’ energy, interests, and behavior. To reinforce lessons, send home simple summaries and memory verses.

Faith Topics for Kindergarten Bible Lessons

  • God loves me. This truth anchors the gospel. Emphasize how much Jesus loves each child.
  • Jesus is my friend. Help kindergartners build a close friendship with Jesus.
  • The Bible is God’s special book. Teach that the Bible is true and is filled with God’s words to us.
  • God made everything. Help children connect what they see with their faith.
  • I can talk to God. Introduce simple prayer habits for kindergartners.
  • I can help others. Kids can learn to follow Jesus by being kind and forgiving.

7 Sample Ideas for Kindergarten Bible Lessons

Next up: Here are outside-the-box Bible lessons and activities to engage kindergartners. Adapt these creative ideas to teach biblical truths.

1. Creation Sensory Safari (Genesis 1)

Teaching Point: God made everything, and it was good.

Activity: Set up a sensory path, with stations representing each day of creation.

  • Light: Flashlight and shadow play
  • Sky and Water: Bubble machine and misting spray bottles
  • Plants: Real leaves, dirt, and small flowers to touch and sort
  • Sun, Moon, and Stars: Glow-in-the-dark stars and yellow balls
  • Fish and Birds: Feather toss and goldfish crackers in a water bin
  • Animals and People: Stuffed animals and a mirror (“God made YOU!”)
  • Rest: Quiet zone with soft music or pillows

Outside-the-box twist: Make it a barefoot walk with textures on the ground (grass mat, cotton clouds, pebbles).

2. Noah’s Obstacle Ark (Genesis 6–9)

Teaching Point: Obey God even when it’s tough.

Activity: Create a mini “ark-building” obstacle course.

  • Stack foam blocks (building the ark).
  • Crawl under a table (the storm).
  • Match animal pairs (God cares for all creation).
  • End in a cardboard “ark” boat with rain sounds and rainbow-colored scarves.

Outside-the-box twist: Use water spray bottles or a mister fan for rain. End with a rainbow snack (fruit-cereal bracelets or colorful fruit kabobs).

3. David’s Brave Music Studio (1 Samuel 17; Psalm 23)

Teaching Point: God helps me be brave and gives me peace.

Activity: Set up music zones:

  • Bang on drums (David’s battle courage)
  • Harp strings (David played for Saul)
  • Soft lullabies (Psalm 23 peace zone)

Outside-the-box twist: Create a psalm using a Mad Lib-style fill-in sheet. Then let kids sing it into a toy microphone.

4. Jonah and the Big Fish Blow-Up Theater (Jonah 1 & 2)

Teaching Point: God gives us second chances.

Activity: Use a large inflatable kiddie pool or tent to be the inside of the fish. Turn off the lights and give kids glowsticks or flashlights to explore.

Outside-the-box twist: Play Hide and Seek with a Jonah doll or figurine. After children find Jonah, act out being spit onto dry land (a beach towel).

Healthy Student Ministry Signs: 5 Indicators of True Success

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What does a healthy student ministry look like? Should you look at the numbers you attract every week? Is it important to host fun events that attract a crowd? Does the number of small groups or baptized teens indicate success?

Different churches and leaders define success differently. I used to rely on others to tell me if we were successful. A shift in my leadership occurred when I stopped looking for feedback to determine health. Instead, I embraced health-based principles to help our team measure progress.

5 Signs of a Healthy Student Ministry

For us, the goal of our youth program is overall health. Here are the indicators we look for in our student ministry. We want to be…

1. Jesus-Centered

When we’re healthy, we constantly help teens discover Jesus, follow Jesus, and live a life that honors Jesus. This is different from connecting teens to your way of doing church or your doctrine. If we constantly try to help teens see Jesus more clearly, then life change will happen.

2. Relational

We want small groups to be a foundational element of everything we do. We want to have a ministry full of youth ministers (small-group leaders), not just one youth pastor (our staff). Teens need to be known and mentored, and small groups help us do that.

3. Engaging

We want everything we do in worship and events to be excellent and captivate the attention of teenagers. If kids walk away and think Jesus or the Bible is boring, then it’s our fault. We want to set the bar high and do our best every week to hold their interest and reveal what really matters in life.

Kay Arthur, Beloved Christian Author, Bible Teacher, Dies at 91

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Kay Arthur, world-renowned Christian author, Bible teacher, and Precept cofounder, died on Tuesday, May 20, at the age of 91.

Precept is a non-profit ministry that was founded by Kay and her late husband Jack in 1970 to help strengthen people’s relationships with God through Bible studies. According to the ministry’s website, what started out as a Bible study for teenagers in the couple’s living room now serves nearly 190 countries in more than 110 languages.

Kay hosted a syndicated Bible study, titled “Precepts for Life,” for 20 years. The show was broadcast across the globe, reaching over 75 million households.

In 2020, Kay was diagnosed with Parkinson’s Disease but served at Precept until her death.

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Before starting Precept, Kay and Jack served as missionaries in Mexico and were marred for 51 years until Jack passed away at the age of 90 in 2017. Together, they had one son, David, who assumed the role of Precept’s CEO in 2012. Prior to her marriage to Jack, Kay had two sons, Tom and Mark, from a previous marriage that ended before she gave her life to Jesus.

“Our beloved cofounder, Kay Arthur, went to be with the Lord this morning, May 20, 2025,” Precept shared on social media.

“In the late 1960s, Kay and her husband, Jack, started leading Bible studies from their living room. Over the past 55 years, that small outreach has grown into an international ministry discipling millions through Scripture,” the statement continued. “Through television, radio, writing, and speaking, God has used Kay to transform millions of lives across the world. Including ours.”

The statement said that Precept is “so grateful for Kay’s gifts and her obedience to God’s call on her life. Her heart for God’s gospel is reflected in the mission of her ministry to this day: engaging people in relationship with God through knowing His Word.”

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The ministry asked supporters to join them in thanking God for Arthur’s life and requested their prayers for her family. “She will be dearly missed, but we rejoice knowing that she is whole and made new in the presence of her Maker,” the statement said.

Christian Leaders Pay Tribute to Kay Arthur

Bible teacher and author Beth Moore posted a tribute to Arthur on social media. “I’ve never known an individual more devoted to the Lord or to the tireless, faithful teaching of Scripture than Kay Arthur,” Moore said. “She is now at the feet of her Redeemer, looking up at the radiant face of the One she has loved with her whole being. Thank you, Kay. You were unmatched.”

Baptize America, Formerly Baptize California, Plans Mass Baptisms on Pentecost

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More than 7,700 people were baptized along Huntington Beach on May 3, thanks to the outreach efforts of Baptize California (formerly Baptize SoCal). About 30,000 people representing more than 500 churches gathered to worship and witness the baptisms.

Thanks to continued growth, Baptize California is becoming Baptize America, and the interdenominational nonprofit has even bigger plans for next month.

On June 8, Pentecost Sunday, Baptize America is organizing “the largest synchronized day of water baptism in world history.” Hundreds of churches are expected to participate in what Baptize America calls “the fulfillment of the Great Commission.”

How Baptize America Came To Be

Since launching two years ago, Baptize SoCal has baptized almost 24,000 people into the Christian faith. At the initial event in May 2023, more than 4,000 baptisms occurred at Pirates Cove Beach, site of the Jesus People Movement baptisms of the 1960s and 1970s.

Organizer Mark Francey said the kickoff event represented an act of stepping out in obedience. Francey, who pastors Oceans Church in Orange County with wife Rachelle, said in 2023 that they knew “God’s people would rally” around the movement.

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Back then, the couple had a clear blueprint: Expand the 2024 effort statewide and the 2025 effort nationwide. They dreamed of eventually “hosting hub locations from coast to coast where people can gather and be baptized,” Mark Francey said in 2023. “God is not done with America, and we are convinced if we can unite the church and turn fully back to Jesus, he will heal our land,” he added.

In May 2024, Baptize California celebrated more than 6,000 baptisms at Huntington Beach. Another 6,200 people were baptized across the state.

The 7,752 baptisms at Huntington Beach on May 3, 2025, were a foretaste of what’s coming on Pentecost, according to Francey. “The main reason why we did this event in California a month early,” said the pastor, “is so that all of the momentum from people getting excited about what God’s doing in California would actually transfer into local churches, that they could host it…all over America.”

Francey described a variety of people getting baptized earlier this month, including someone wearing a house-arrest ankle monitor. “I saw homeless people…people in wheelchairs that [got] pushed to the sand…old, young, all different ethnicities, all different political persuasions,” he recalled. “It was a beautiful thing to see what Jesus did at the beach the other day.”

NIRD Principle: Service and Mission

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The NIRD principle of Service and Mission emphasizes that discipleship should not only focus on personal spiritual growth but also extend outward in acts of service that impact the wider community. This principle reflects the biblical call to love one’s neighbor as oneself and to be the hands and feet of Jesus in the world. By engaging in service and missions, believers not only embody the teachings of Christ but also strengthen their communal bonds, making their faith active and dynamic.

*If you haven’t read the Introduction to NIRD yet, start here 🙂

Biblical Foundations of Service and Mission

Scripture is replete with commands and encouragements for believers to serve others and spread the gospel. Jesus’ ministry itself was marked by acts of service, from feeding the hungry to healing the sick and teaching the multitudes. He summarized his mission by declaring that he came not to be served but to serve (Mark 10:45). Similarly, the Great Commission (Matthew 28:19-20) directs followers to go out and make disciples of all nations, emphasizing that service and mission are inherent to the Christian calling.

Strengthening Bonds Through Shared Service

Engaging in service projects and mission activities together can significantly reinforce the bonds within a Christian community:

  1. Shared Experiences: Working together towards a common goal provides a shared sense of purpose and builds memories that can strengthen community ties. These experiences often require teamwork and collaboration, which can improve interpersonal relationships and unity.
  2. Spiritual Growth: Service provides a practical context in which disciples can apply biblical teachings in real-world scenarios. This application can deepen understanding and conviction as abstract concepts like love, mercy, and grace are manifested in concrete actions.
  3. Empathy and Compassion: Serving others, especially those from different backgrounds or less fortunate circumstances, can broaden perspectives and foster a greater sense of empathy and compassion within the community.

Living Out Faith in Practical Ways

Service and mission activities allow disciples to live out their faith in tangible, impactful ways. This practical application of faith can take many forms:

  1. Local Community Service: This might involve volunteering at homeless shelters, participating in food drives, or organizing community clean-up days. Such activities not only meet physical needs but also open opportunities for relational evangelism and witnessing.
  2. Global Missions: Engaging in missions, whether through short-term trips or long-term commitments, expands the community’s impact to a global scale. It also exposes believers to diverse cultures and challenges, which can enrich their understanding of the universal nature of the Christian faith.
  3. Social Justice Initiatives: Christians are called to advocate for justice in society. Participating in initiatives that address systemic injustices (such as inequality, racism, and poverty) demonstrates a commitment to biblical principles of justice and righteousness.

Personal Transformation Through Service

Service and mission work often lead to significant personal transformation. As believers step out of their comfort zones to serve others, they frequently encounter God in new and profound ways. This exposure can challenge personal prejudices, change priorities, and inspire greater generosity and altruism.

The NIRD principle of Service and Mission is crucial for extending the impact of relational discipleship beyond personal growth to communal and global engagement. It emphasizes that true discipleship involves not just being changed oneself but actively working to bring about change in the world, reflecting Jesus’ own ministry. This active engagement not only reinforces the communal bonds among believers but also serves as a powerful testimony to the transformative power of the gospel in addressing human needs and societal issues.

Keep Learning!

In exploring the dynamic interplay between neuroscience and Christian discipleship, we uncover a profound alignment between biblical principles and modern scientific insights. Through the frameworks of Neuroscience Informed Christian Counseling® (NICC) and Neuroscience Informed Relational Discipleship (NIRD), we see how deeply relational God’s design for us is, meant to thrive in community and continuous growth.

If you are intrigued by how these innovative approaches can transform personal and communal spiritual lives, I invite you to delve deeper into Neuroscience Informed Christian Counseling® and Neuroscience Informed Relational Discipleship. Explore more about how these methodologies can enrich your faith journey and strengthen your community bonds.

This article originally appeared here.

Former Adult Film Star Brittni De La Mora Answers 2 Questions She Gets Asked the Most

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Former adult film star Brittni De La Mora says that two of the questions people ask her the most are: “What did you do with all your money?” and “Are you going to tell your children that you did [porn]?” De La Mora, a Christian who now does ministry to help women transition out of the sex industry, answered those questions on Instagram on Monday, May 19. 

“I was in the adult film industry for seven years, and two of the questions that I get asked the most are, No. 1, what did you do with all your money? Did you give it back?” said De La Mora. “And No. 2, are you gonna tell your children that you did [porn]? No. 1, what did I do with all my money? Well, I pretty much spent it all.”

 

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Brittni De La Mora: ‘Transparency Silences the Enemy’ 

Brittni De La Mora and her husband, Richard, founded Love Always Ministries, a non-profit that “helps people walk in their calling by discovering God’s love and leading a victorious life through purity.” In addition to providing other resources, they co-host the “Let’s Talk Purity” podcast, and Brittni De La Mora hosts the podcast “Uncensored With Brittni De La Mora.”

The Love Always website says that De La Mora “was once named one of the world’s most famous porn stars” but her time in the industry was full of her “deepest, darkest days of despair, leading her to survive by way of drugs, alcohol, and ultimately, failed attempts of suicide.”

De La Mora recently interviewed former OnlyFans star Nala Ray about how Jesus redeemed Ray from the darkness of sex work.

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Regarding how she spent all of the money she earned through doing porn, De La Mora explained, “I was an addict. I had a trafficker who took all my money the last three-and-a-half years, and I lived a very lavish lifestyle. So the money was easy come, easy go.” 

“I left that industry with my very last paycheck, which was $1,500, and that’s not an isolated incident,” said De La Mora. “Most of the people that I know that leave the adult industry leave that industry broke. It’s like when you win the lottery and you’ve never had money in your life, and then you just spend it all on the dumbest things, and then you wonder where all those millions of dollars went.” 

Acoustic Church: Could You Do a Sunday Service Without Microphones?

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In today’s worship culture, amplified sound is the norm. From microphones and in-ear monitors to digital soundboards and high-powered speakers, many churches rely on advanced audio technology to deliver Sunday services. But what if we paused to ask: could we do church without it? Could your congregation return to the raw, unfiltered simplicity of an acoustic church? This question isn’t just hypothetical—it invites a deeper look at how we worship and what truly matters in our gatherings.

Embracing the Simplicity of an Acoustic Church

The concept of an acoustic church may sound romantic or nostalgic, but it’s more than a stylistic preference. It challenges assumptions about what is essential in corporate worship and opens the door to a simpler, more connected experience.

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1. Rediscovering the Power of the Human Voice
One of the first things that happens in an acoustic church setting is that the human voice becomes central again. Without microphones, voices aren’t projected over a crowd—they come from within it. This creates a sense of shared experience where singing, prayer, and Scripture reading feel more like a conversation among believers rather than a performance led from a stage. When a congregation sings together acoustically, the result isn’t polished—but it is profoundly communal.

2. Reducing the Performance Factor
One of the common critiques of modern church services is the danger of performance culture. Worship leaders can unintentionally become performers, and congregants passive spectators. In an acoustic church, the absence of amplification often levels the playing field. There’s less pressure to sound perfect, and more space to be authentic. Worship becomes more about participation than presentation.

3. Cultivating Intimacy and Reverence
There’s something deeply intimate about hearing someone pray or read Scripture without electronic enhancement. The quieter setting invites stillness, attentiveness, and reverence. For smaller congregations or house churches, this approach can foster a spiritual atmosphere where God’s presence feels especially near—not because of volume, but because of vulnerability and closeness.

4. Encouraging Congregational Engagement
In a typical amplified service, the worship team can carry the sound, allowing the congregation to “listen in” rather than fully engage. But in an acoustic church setting, every voice matters. People often find themselves singing more boldly, not less, because their voices are needed. The sound of the room is not coming from the front—it’s being built collectively.

How to Know When It’s Time to End a Small Group

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Church small groups are a vital part of Christian community life. They provide an environment for discipleship, prayer, accountability, and mutual support. But just like any ministry or initiative, small groups can have a natural life cycle. While the idea of ending a small group may seem counterintuitive or even discouraging, sometimes it’s the healthiest and most faithful step a church can take. Recognizing the right time to end a small group —and understanding why— is essential for cultivating a vibrant church community.

How to Know When It’s Time to End a Small Group

The decision to end a small group should never be taken lightly. It requires prayer, discernment, and honest evaluation. Here are several key signs that it may be time to consider bringing a group to a close.

1. The Group’s Purpose Has Shifted (or Disappeared)
Small groups are typically formed around a specific purpose: Bible study, prayer, spiritual growth, or fellowship. Over time, however, the original intent can fade. Perhaps the group has become more of a social club, or maybe the spiritual vitality that once defined it has diminished. If a group no longer aligns with the broader mission of the church or its initial purpose, it may be time to end the small group and consider new ways of engaging the participants in ministry.

RELATED: Small Groups CAN Make Disciples!

2. Leadership Fatigue
Leaders are essential to the health of a small group. But leadership can also be draining, especially if one person has carried the responsibility for a long time without support or rotation. If a leader is feeling burned out and there is no one prepared to step in, that could be a signal that the group needs to pause or end. Sometimes, disbanding a group can allow time for leadership development and renewal, creating space for something stronger to emerge later.

3. Lack of Engagement
If group members consistently cancel, come unprepared, or seem disengaged, it may be a sign that the group has run its course. While occasional dips in attendance are normal, persistent disinterest should prompt an honest conversation. People’s seasons of life change, and what once fit well may no longer serve their needs. Ending a group that is no longer fruitful can release people to explore new paths for growth.

4. Conflict or Unresolved Tension
Healthy conflict can strengthen relationships, but unresolved or toxic conflict can harm the group’s spiritual health. If repeated efforts to address dysfunction, gossip, or division have failed, it might be wiser to end a small group rather than allowing unhealthy dynamics to continue unchecked.

5. The Group Has Accomplished Its Goal
Some small groups are seasonal or formed with specific objectives in mind. A discipleship group that walks through a curriculum, a grief support group, or a premarital class may naturally reach a conclusion. There is no failure in bringing such a group to a close. In fact, celebrating a completed journey can be a healthy and God-honoring way to end a small group.

See Page Two for WHY to End a Small Group . . .

How To Get Teenagers Talking in Meaningful Ways: 5 Practical Tips

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Ever struggle with how to get teenagers talking beyond shrugs and grunts? Wondering how to get kids to open up in substantive ways? Then read one youth minister’s tips for connecting with teens.

Conversations with my own teenagers can drift toward the mundane.

“How was school?” “Fine.”

“Soccer practice?” “Same as always.”

“Anything interesting happen today?” “Nope.”

“Nice talking with you!”

Youth workers probably experience the same frustrations with how to get teenagers talking.

“What’s your name?” “Chris.”

“What school do you go to?” “Centerville.”

“Play any sports?” “Nope.”

(awkward pause)

“Have you ever accidentally killed a squirrel?”

“Huh?”

“Never mind.”

Let’s face it. Teenagers have a Ph.D. in one-word answers…if we don’t ask the right questions. Trying to have a conversation with teens doesn’t have to be like pulling teeth, though. Here are 5 suggestions for how to get teenagers talking.

5 Tips on How To Get Teenagers Talking

1. Avoid yes-or-no questions.

First is a reminder we all need. If you ask a yes-or-no question, you’ll likely get a one-word answer. “Was school fun today?” will likely yield the swift reply, “No.” Conversation over.

2. Don’t ask dull questions.

Sure, if you’re meeting a teen for the first time, you might need to ask their name and school. But don’t go the expected route! Ditch the typical, “Do you like it there?” (a yes-or-no question). Instead, ask something a little unexpected. “If you could choose just one class or one teacher and ditch the rest, which would you choose?”

A question like that gives you insights. It reveals what subject the student likes and what kind of adults they respect. Plus, the question provides a fun element. The teen can picture a world where they choose classes and ditch others!

But unexpected questions don’t always come easy. So that’s why you always need to…

3. Think ahead!

Next up: Don’t try to think of something on the fly. Plan ahead. Parents: Don’t wait until you’re sitting at the dinner table to spark a conversation. Youth workers: Don’t walk up to a teenager and say the first thing on your mind. Think ahead. Use some resources, if you have to. Which brings me to my next tip…

Minute To Win It Games for Children: Cool Free KidMin Activities

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Minute To Win It games for children’s ministry are incredibly versatile. For Sunday school icebreakers and lessons, you can never have enough attention-getting activities.

Some kidmin games work best outdoors. Others are themed for a specific season or Bible lesson. But you can always think outside the box. For example, these Minute To Win It games are ideal for winter and the Winter Olympics. But they provide a nice twist during the heat of summer!

So download these free Minute To Win It games to play with your students. Then challenge them to play it cool and do their best. Downplay the competition aspect and focus on fun.

Pro Tip: Offer small winter-themed prizes. Give everyone a treat for participating in these wild and wacky games.

10 Minute To Win It Games for Sunday School

The free eBooklet, which you can download here, includes 10 high-energy games for children’s ministry. Which winter-themed activity will be a favorite?

Chill out and play all these cool Minute To Win It games with your students!

  • Broom Hockey
  • Pop Sledding
  • Downhill Spree
  • Curling
  • Ice Dancing
  • Balloon Mogul
  • Cross Country Eating
  • Pairs Figure Taping
  • Face Luge
  • Candy Skeleton

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Download Instructions: To download this free kidmin resource, follow the on-screen directions from the download site.

For more Minute To Win It Games for children’s ministry, check out these options. The activities are incredibly versatile! Use them before or during class. Kids of all ages will have a blast with these interactive games.

Bonus: Even more winter-themed games are available here. No matter the temperature, kids will have “snow” much fun with these Sunday school ideas. Try them out and let us know what you think.

Then share your favorite kidmin games with colleagues, using the comments section below!

Brandon Lake, Jelly Roll, and Kirk Franklin Join the ‘American Idol’ Finale

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Season 23 of “American Idol” has come to an end with a star-studded finale. After a couple of decades of musical competition and drama, fans have continued to watch artists who live out their faith on stage, including contestant Breanna Nix.

“There’s so much I want to say, but for now…thank you,” Nix posted on Facebook.

Brandon Lake Joined Breanna Nix for a Duet on the ‘American Idol’ Finale

Initially, 144 contestants on “American Idol” were invited to Hollywood to compete on the show. Only 24 contestants were selected from there, and more artists left each following week.

And then there were three—Jamal Roberts, John Foster, and Breanna Nix.

Before Roberts was announced as the winner, several guest stars joined other contestants for their last performances on the “American Idol” stage.

After being a part of the “American Idol” Easter Special, Jelly Roll joined Roberts for his take on “Liar” and “Unpretty.” As Roberts demonstrated his vocal range, Jelly Roll looked on the young artist with admiration.

Brandon Lake became a virtual mentor for finalist Breanna Nix earlier in the competition after she chose to sing his song, “Gratitude.” Lake congratulated Nix virtually after the performance.

Lake took to the stage alongside Nix for a duet of Lake’s song, “Daddy’s DNA.” The song’s lyrics include:

I went runnin’ like a rebel
Racked up debts I couldn’t pay
I went dancin’ with the devil
With one foot in the grave
How the heaven did I get here?
Went and threw it all away
All I’ve given you was trouble
All you’ve given me was grace

Nix took third place this season after she spoke of backlash and criticism for her outspoken faith.

“You know, the show has been a wonderful blessing to me, but the hate sometimes on the internet,” Nix told coach Fantasia in a previous week of the competition. “Being a Christian, there is a lot of opinions that come with it. You know, ‘That’s not what a Christian should wear,’ or, ‘That Christian shouldn’t sing a song like that.’”

Christian Leaders React to News of Joe Biden’s Metastatic Cancer Diagnosis

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On Sunday (May 18), former President Joe Biden revealed he’s been diagnosed with an aggressive form of prostate cancer that has spread to his bones. Numerous church and political leaders responded with well wishes and prayers for Biden, a Democrat and devout Catholic, while others said they suspected coverup or scandal.

According to an announcement from his office, Biden’s cancer “appears to be hormone-sensitive which allows for effective management.” The former president and his family “are reviewing treatment options with his physicians,” his office added.

Biden, 82, withdrew from the 2024 presidential race last summer, after performing poorly in a debate against Republican candidate Donald Trump. Opponents questioned Biden’s cognitive and physical fitness, but White House doctors had given him a clean bill of health in February 2024.

On Monday (May 19), Biden shared a photo with wife Jill, writing, “Cancer touches us all. Like so many of you, Jill and I have learned that we are strongest in the broken places. Thank you for lifting us up with love and support.”

During his presidency, Biden prioritized cancer research, aiming to slash death rates from the disease. His son Beau died of brain cancer in 2015.

Leaders Request Prayers for Joe Biden

News of Joe Biden’s diagnosis led to calls for prayer from church leaders. “Let’s all be praying for @JoeBiden as he battles cancer,” posted California Pastor Greg Laurie. “May the Lord bring healing—whether through a miracle or through medical treatment. And let’s remember to lift up his family as well during this difficult time. ‘The prayer of a righteous person is powerful and effective.’”

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North Carolina Pastor Clint Pressley, president of the Southern Baptist Convention, wrote, “Praying for former president Joe Biden as he and his family grapple with a difficult diagnosis. Praying the Lord is merciful.”

“Praying for President Biden and his family as they walk through this battle with cancer,” wrote Georgia Pastor Jentezen Franklin.

Political leaders also offered support and prayers. Kamala Harris, who served as Biden’s vice president and became the 2024 Democratic nominee after he withdrew, said he’s in her family’s “hearts and prayers during this time.” Harris called Biden “a fighter” who “will face this challenge with the same strength, resilience, and optimism that have always defined his life and leadership.”

Promise Keepers CEO Shane Winnings Warns Christians Against New ‘Demonic’ Movie

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Movies with violent, sexual, or demonic content are going to have an impact on people’s hearts, even if they are unaware of that impact, says Promise Keepers CEO Shane Winnings. Winnings joined ChurchLeaders for an interview about the response he has gotten to a video he made warning people against going to see the upcoming horror movie, “Him.” 

“Before I was a born-again Christian, I might’ve been really interested in this. There’s something in people that wants to, you know, see something scary or something dark,” said Winnings. “There’s this fascination with the demonic. And I really wanted to use that trailer as a chance to teach people, ‘Hey, what you let in your ear and your eye gate actually matters. It affects your heart. It affects your mind.’”

Shane Winnings Warns Christians About ‘Him’

Shane Winnings is a military veteran, a former law enforcement officer, and the chairman and CEO of the longstanding men’s ministry, Promise Keepers. On April 27, he posted a video to his social media warning people not to go see a new horror movie titled, “Him,” starring Marlon Wayans and co-produced by Jordan Peele. The movie is set to come out this September, and a description of the film says it portrays “a chilling journey into the inner sanctum of fame, idolatry and the pursuit of excellence at any cost.”

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A teaser trailer for the movie is out, and Winnings observed it seems at first to portray “an interesting-looking football movie.” Then the trailer “takes a really dark turn” and gets “more and more demonic.” It ends showing a figure covered in blood standing on a pentagram with his arms outstretched, calling to mind Jesus on the cross, as the word “him” appears on the screen.

“It just felt so dark,” said Winnings, who explained that he felt compelled to speak out about the movie in part because Wayans and Peele are well-known. Another reason is that Winnings used to be fascinated by such movies himself, and he wanted to warn people that the content they consume does affect them.

Some people agreed with and thanked Winnings for his warning, but others pushed back and said that the movie does not appear to be glorifying evil but to be showing the consequences of evil. 

“Let’s be honest,” said Winnings. “If they didn’t really embellish and really lean into the dark side, it would probably be a boring movie.” He mentioned that some people who disagreed with him pointed out that “the Bible’s really dark.”

“The Bible is not blasphemous,” Winnings countered. “And when you’re showing a guy standing on the pentagram doing that, when you begin to cross over the realm of educating into entertaining, using demonic stuff, that’s where I draw the line.”

Josh Buice Admits His Allegations Against Voddie Baucham and Tom Ascol Were ‘Sinful’ and ‘Lacked Evidence’

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On Friday, May 16, G3 Ministries (G3) shared a statement from its former president Dr. Josh Buice apologizing for alleging that Voddie Baucham and Tom Ascol were “deceitful” regarding a 2021 GoFundMe campaign that raised money for Baucham’s quadruple bypass surgery.

Buice was encouraged to resign as G3’s president after elders from his Pray’s Mill Baptist Church (PMBC) discovered that Buice had been using multiple anonymous social media accounts to speak ill of Christian leaders, both publicly and privately.

RELATED: Josh Buice Used Anonymous Email To Suggest to The Roys Report Voddie Baucham and Tom Ascol Were ‘Deceitful’ Regarding GoFundMe Campaign

The allegations, which G3 said were “baseless,” were sent to The Roys Report by one of Buice’s anonymous email accounts on Dec. 16, 2024. In the email, Buice told Roys that he had “compelling evidence” that Baucham used a ghost writer for portions of his “Fault Lines” book. Buice also claimed that Baucham and Ascol were “deceitful” with the funds raised from Baucham’s heart surgery.

“The fund raised $1.4 million dollars. The operation, by a cash patient would have been no more than $300,000…where is the $1.1 million dollars?” Buice questioned.

Josh Buice Admits His Claims ‘Lacked Evidence’

“In a past critique of Voddie Baucham and Founders Ministries, I made unsubstantiated and sinful remarks, including leading questions that lacked evidence and called into question the good reputation of my brother, Voddie Baucham,” Buice said in his statement. “I was deceived by the deceitfulness of sin and allowed myself to be led down a path that dishonored God and unjustly maligned faithful men and ministries through an unrighteous, critical spirit cloaked in anonymity.”

RELATED: Founders Ministries Says Josh Buice Targeted Tom Ascol With ‘Sinful, Deceitful, and Slanderous’ Actions

“The details originally shared with me were without merit,” Buice continued. “The accusations proved to be unfounded—false claims that should never have been used to criticize Voddie Baucham, Tom Ascol, or Founders Ministries.”

Buice said he met privately with Baucham earlier in the week to “personally asked for his forgiveness” and that he plans to do likewise “with others in the days to come.” He concluded his brief statement by asking for forgiveness and acknowledging that his “actions have caused confusion and division.”

G3 Board Member Tom Buck: ‘I’m Personally Grieved by Josh’s Lack of True Repentance’

Tom Buck, a G3 board member and the senior pastor of First Baptist Church in Lindale, Texas, shared that he doesn’t believe Buice is telling the truth in his statement.

Can a Christian Be Trans? Dr. NT Wright Offers a ‘Cautious’ Response

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On a recent episode of his “Ask N.T. Wright Anything” podcast, New Testament scholar Dr. N.T. Wright offered his thoughts on whether a person can identify as trans and still be a Christian.

Wright’s remarks were in response to a listener question, moderated by fellow New Testament scholar Dr. Michael F. Bird. The question came from a “transgender man” who is also a “lover of Christ” and who is “fully transitioned.”

“I came to Christ after having gone through all the hormone surgery and living as a man for 10 years,” the listener explained. “Often when I hear people who were transgender then became a Christian, it’s a story of them de-transitioning to be their natural born gender.” The listener added that such stories usual involve people “at the beginning steps of their transition and can easily, so to speak, revert back.” 

“So my question is: What would the Bible have to say about someone in my case? I feel that if I was following God when I was younger, I probably would have tried my best to suppress the feelings that I was born in the wrong body and seek counseling,” the listener asked. 

However, the listener expressed, “I have no desire to de-transition,” and said it would actually “feel very weird to me.” But the listener expressed concern that living this way is sinful. 

Before asking Wright for his thoughts, Bird acknowledged the complexity of the question. 

“Biology is very complex,” said Bird. “A lot of things can go wrong with our biology. Things can also go wrong with our psychology. And the link between them can also be very, very complicated.” 

Wright began his response to the question likewise by acknowledging its complexity but also highlighting that the issue of gender identity has only become a widespread question in recent years. 

“And I think that’s been on the back of other issues, like the so-called ‘gay debate’ et cetera,” said Wright, “where people have gotten used to thinking in terms of, ‘Never mind what my body is or how I was physically born, what matters is who I feel deeply within myself I really am.’”

“That whole discourse is very new,” argued Wright. “We have to remind ourselves that this is not something for which the older manuals of theology, ethics, et cetera would have prepared us.” 

RELATED: Mark Yarhouse: Don’t Be a Culture Warrior or Capitulator When It Comes to Gender Identity

Wright also said that while he has walked through many complicated situations with people as their pastor, he has not “had the personal experience of walking with somebody” who is grappling with their gender identity. 

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