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The Kingdom Mission Center: Churches Supporting Missionaries in Korea and Beyond

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It was a joy to visit with Pastor David Hwang at SaeJoongAng Church in GyungGi-do, Korea. We will profile their church later in Outreach Magazine, but I wanted to let you know about one quick thing.

The church LOVES missionaries and they send them out all over the world. They currently are supporting numerous missionaries around the world. The Korean church is passionate about missions.

Now the church has over 10,000 attendance. Not every church can do this, but they have built something like a hotel for missionaries. They can house 60 missionary families and use these rooms to serve the missionaries when they are off their field for a session.

They call the multi-level facility the Kingdom Mission Center. Pastor Hwang gave me a brief tour.

There is a team that greets the missionaries and care for their needs, like a hotel.

They explain the purpose here:

But, it’s not just lodging. It includes clothing for missionaries.

They also provide education and fun experiences for the children. 

Former Youth Pastor Convicted of Sexually Abusing Teen While Aboard an Airplane

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A former youth pastor has been convicted of abusive sexual contact aboard an aircraft. Justin Baker, 41, was arrested March 14 after sexually assaulting an 18-year-old woman on a flight from Burbank, California, to Seattle. 

Editor’s note: This article refers to reports of sex abuse that some readers might find triggering and/or disturbing.

The U.S. Attorney’s Office for the western district of Washington announced the conviction on Thursday (Oct. 24), noting that the jury only took 90 minutes to deliberate following a three-day trial. 

Baker was arrested after the Alaska Airlines flight on which he was boarded arrived at the Seattle-Tacoma International Airport. 

RELATED: SBC Pastor Matt Queen Pleads Guilty To Making False Statements During Abuse Investigation at Southwestern Seminary

According to the victim’s testimony, Baker was in the middle seat and the victim was seated by the window. Baker conversed with the victim, who disclosed her age and told Baker that she was preparing to go to college.

The victim alleged that Baker showed her sexually explicit text messages he had on his phone before draping his jacket over both their laps. Baker then proceeded to grope the victim’s leg and genitals over her clothing. 

The victim said that she attempted to move away from Baker and asked him to stop, but he persisted, attempting to grope her breast. 

RELATED: Florida Pastor, Previously Convicted in Sex Abuse Case, Under Investigation as Authorities Seek To Identify Other Victims

Eventually, the victim was able to get away from Baker, and she reported the assault to the plane’s flight crew. She said that as she passed Baker to get into the aisle of the plane, Baker groped her buttocks. 

Mindy Caliguire: Soul Care for the Exhausted Leader

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Do you experience feelings of exhaustion, overwhelm, maybe isolation, or even burnout? In this week’s conversation on FrontStage BackStage, host Jason Daye is joined by Mindy Caliguire. Mindy is the founder and president of Soul Care, an organization committed to helping leaders cultivate healthy souls, both for themselves and the people they serve. Mindy has served in a number of ministry roles, and her newest book is titled, “Ignite Your Soul.” Together, Mindy and Jason explore how we can reframe our perspective of caring for our own souls to view it as an invitation rather than another item on our to-do list. Mindy then shares some incredible ideas and examples of how we can begin prioritizing our own soul care.

FrontStage BackStage Podcast With Mindy Caliguire

View the entire podcast here.

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Looking to dig more deeply into this topic and conversation? Every week we go the extra mile and create a free toolkit so you and your ministry team can dive deeper into the topic that is discussed. Find your Weekly Toolkit here… Love well, Live well, Lead well!

Ralph Fiennes Talks About Papal Thriller ‘Conclave,’ Women’s Ordination

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Actor Ralph Fiennes as Cardinal Lawrence in "Conclave." (Photo courtesy Focus Features)

This article contains spoilers for the film.

(RNS) — Despite constant buzz about Pope Francis’ age and health, the only conclave — the gathering of the Catholic Church’s College of Cardinals to elect a new pontiff — on the horizon is in theaters: A cinematic flocking of red-hatted, red-robed princes of the church portrayed in a star-studded thriller in theaters Oct. 25.

“Conclave,” Robert Harris’ 2016 novel, dramatizes the Catholic process for choosing a new supreme leader in a film that has already won top prizes at multiple film festivals and seems well positioned for awards show season.

Despite the barrage of the improbable, telenovela-worthy plot twists, the film’s tone is serious, with artistic shots of the cardinals and the Vatican and a string-heavy score backing theological discussions about doubt and power.

Director Edward Berger, who comes to “Conclave” after winning an Oscar for 2022’s “All Quiet on the Western Front,” told RNS he was drawn to the world of Harris’ novel both because of its “theatricality,” as well as the avenue it takes to explore what happens in an “institution where a top job is empty.”

While Berger was raised Protestant, he remembers visiting a friend’s Catholic church and being curious “because I thought it was so much more interesting than my service where I went, because of the theatricality, in a way, and all the rituals.”

But he also remembers being a little frightened by those rituals. The director explained, “They intimidated me because I always thought I would do something wrong.”

Ralph Fiennes, who stars as Cardinal Lawrence, the dean of the College of Cardinals, said the “human questions” are what he loves about the film.

“The church is peopled by human beings, and it’s interesting to reflect on their motivation,” said Fiennes, best known most recently for a lead role in “The Menu” and for playing the arch-villain Lord Voldemort in the Harry Potter movies.

“I thought this script did not seek to satirize or somehow cynically exploit the Catholic church,” he told RNS. “I thought it was a very human look at a particular aspect of the Catholic Church, which is huge and complex.”

He also explained that those making the film had done their best to be “accurate to the details of ritual” with a religious adviser on set. “I hope at a physical, practical level, it’s accurate. I’m sure there’ll be people to tell us where we did things wrong, but that was the aspiration anyway,” he said.

Fiennes, who was raised Catholic but now describes himself as “lapsed,” said he still has “a very keen interest in what it is to have a spiritual guide or sense of a path” and described the Catholic church as “an object of great interest” to him.

20 Signs of a Great Speech That Sadly Changes No One’s Life

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A reporter once said of Abraham Lincoln prior to his presidency, “His speaking went to the heart because it came from the heart. I have heard celebrated orators who could start thunders of applause without changing any man’s opinion. Mr. Lincoln’s great speech was of the higher type, which produced conviction in others because of the conviction of the speaker himself. ”These words are from Doris Kearns Goodwin’s new book, Leadership in Turbulent Times, which I am currently reading. If the remaining two-thirds of this book are as good as the first-third, this will go down as one of the best leadership books I will have ever read. It should be in the library of every leader. It is that good.

One of the leaders she profiles is the legendary United States president Abraham Lincoln. After a failed initial stint in Congress, a 32-year-old Abraham Lincoln entered into a deep depression. No longer in politics, he re-entered the legal profession. After a period of waiting, Lincoln returned to politics by making arguments in the House and assisting in congressional and presidential elections.

This interim period was not downtime. It was in intense time of personal reflection, evaluation and growth. Lincoln’s time arguing cases was a time for discipline to confront weaknesses and practices which kept him from achieving his goals and dreams. It was also a time to work on his craft as a communicator.

Lincoln became such a success in defending clients and making arguments before juries that his practice became the largest in central Illinois. By time he re-entered politics, Lincoln had become the country’s greatest communicator because of relentless self-evaluation and constant reps. He would become one of our America’s best communicators ever.

As mentioned in the opening quote, there is a difference between a strong speech and a transformative message that changes someone’s life. Lincoln learned the difference. You can as well.

When and Why We Stopped Singing about Heaven, and How to Start Again

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American evangelical churches aren’t singing about heaven as often or as well as they used to. And this isn’t just my personal opinion. As part of a larger research project, I compared two large selections of worship songs. The first selection was the most commonly sung congregational songs in the United States from 2000–2015; the second group was the most commonly published congregational songs in the United States from 1737–1960. Among many similarities, one difference was striking: the topic of heaven, which once was frequently and richly sung about, has now all but disappeared.

This article begins by tracing examples of the differences between these two groups of songs and offers some explanations for the changes. Troubled by what these changes indicate, I conclude by exhorting local churches to continue to sing about heaven.

WHAT’S CHANGED

To begin, consider the different ways believers sing about the presence of God. In broad strokes, traditional American hymns describe our journey toward God’s presence in a future, heavenly home as a pilgrimage from a fallen city toward a celestial one, much like John Bunyan’s story, A Pilgrim’s Progress. In contrast, much of Contemporary Worship Music (CWM) refers to God’s presence as a current and near experience.

A brief comparison of songs from each period demonstrates this difference. William Williams’ 1745 hymn, “Guide Me, O Thou Great Jehovah” refers to being a “pilgrim” (verse 1). It asks God to lead “me all my journey through” (verse 2) until he would “land me safe on Canaan’s side” (verse 3). The chorus to John Cennick’s 1743 hymn, “Jesus My All to Heaven Has Gone” repeats, “I’m on my journey home to the new Jerusalem. I’m on my journey home to the new Jerusalem.” And the old well-known Irish hymn “Be Thou My Vision” prays, “May I reach heaven’s joys, O bright heaven’s sun.”

Perhaps the clearest example of a pilgrimage hymn is Samuel Stennett’s “On Jordan’s Stormy Banks I Stand.” In the opening line, the believer describes his present location as “stormy” and looks toward the “fair and happy land” of heaven. The second verse develops the theme: “O’er all those wide extended plains shines one eternal day; there God the Son forever reigns, and scatters night away.” Stennett then contrasts this fallen world with the blissfulness of the world to come: “No chilling winds or poisonous breath can reach that healthful shore; sickness and sorrow, pain and death, are felt and feared no more.” The final verse strains to see God’s presence as a distant reality: “When I shall reach that happy place, I’ll be forever blest, for I shall see my Father’s face and in his bosom rest.” You can almost feel the ache, the yearning for what’s promised and hoped-for, but not yet seen.

4 Must-Know Church Marketing Secrets

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I once had the opportunity to share at a gathering of United Methodist Church leaders near Washington D.C. I shared four things I think church leaders need to know about church marketing. Below are some notes and videos I shared with them. Enjoy!

I believe passionately that the local church is the hope of the world, and I believe we’ve got the greatest message that’s out there: the message of the Gospel. I carry the conviction that the greatest message deserves the greatest church marketing, creativity, and storytelling.

Marketers spend millions of dollars every single year to tell us that our lives would be better or enhanced with the products, services, or ideas they are selling.

We aren’t about selling salvation as a product, trying to woo people to our services, or trying to convince them to convert to what we think. We are about seeing the trajectory of people’s lives changed and hearts surrendered to the Gospel.

I believe that with every generation comes the challenge of communicating the unchanging, timeless message of the Gospel in a way that is relevant and compelling to the culture of its time.

We live in a generation that has been influenced and shaped by marketing and now we need to focus on church marketing. If you want your brand or church to grow, you can actually source some content creation from professionals who are topnotch in the industry.

God is the author of creativity. The first glimpse we see of Him in creation is that He is a creative God.

I believe that we are called to reflect that same creativity in whatever it is that we do for Him—and in this instance, in how we market and communicate His message to the community where our churches find themselves.

Traditional Marketing

  • Traditional marketing, by definition, means “the action or business of promoting and selling products or services.”
  • Marketing as we know it today was deeply influenced by the Madmen era of advertising executives.
  • Those ideas have created a tidal wave of commercial messages that have interrupted our daily lives.
  • The average person is exposed to over 3,000 commercial images every single day. That’s nearly one million per year.
  • Everywhere you look, there’s a constant barrage of messages and information trying to get our attention.
  • The result of that is we’ve learned to filter out the noise.
  • We record TV shows to our DVRs, and fast-forward the commercials.
  • We glaze over banner ads and pop-up windows.
  • We are sick of marketing.
  • We are sick of being “sold to.”
  • We’ve learned to be untrusting of what’s being sold to us.
  • This generation has lost trust in marketing, big business, politics, and religion.
  • The rules of marketing have changed.
  • Marketers have even gone so far as to redefine marketing.
  • In 2011, the American Marketing Association changed their definition of marketing to say marketing is, “an organizational function and a set of processes for creating, communicating, and delivering value to customers and for managing customer relationships in ways that benefit the organization and its stakeholders.”
  • It’s moved from promoting and selling to adding value and managing relationships.
  • You can’t buy your way to the top, and you can’t win by plastering your name everywhere.
  • What captures people’s attention today isn’t a clever jingle or great art and copy [although those things can help]; it’s compelling stories, emotional connection, and sharing.
  • That commercial was for a Web browser.
  • Ten years ago, a commercial message would have focused on the features and explained why Google Chrome was one of the best Web browsers for you to use.
  • Instead, this commercial focused on the story. It gives you emotional connection. It’s less about the product and more about the story it helps you tell.
  • It works.

4 Things You Need to Know About Church Marketing:

1. Church Marketing isn’t a line item on your budget.

    • It’s not a group or committee of volunteers.
    • It’s not what you do at Easter and Christmas.
    • It’s not fliers, brochures, mailers, or even your Web site.
    • Marketing is the sum total of everything your church does.
    • Every phone call a staff member takes is marketing.
    • Everything you write for your church Web site is marketing.
    • Every usher, greeter, and children’s worker is marketing.
    • Every word your pastor says [or doesn’t say] is marketing.
    • Every e-mail interaction someone has with a member of your church staff is marketing.
    • Every person who attends your church is church marketing.
    • Everything your church does is church marketing.
    • The challenging part of all this is how much of it is out of our control.
    • We can try to manage perceptions, set standards and expectations, and create compelling media and slick brochures, but it’s everything everyone else does that truly markets your church.
    • Church marketing is a team effort that’s not on the shoulders of a single person or department in your church, but the collaborative efforts of everyone (paid staff, volunteers, and attendees) that ultimately defines your church marketing.
    • What message are the experiences people have with your church communicating?
    • What does your marketing say about you and your church?
    • What different aspects of people’s experiences with your church need to be reworked?
  • Is there a disconnect between what you say and what people experience?
  • Where are the gaps in your church marketing?
  • Have you ever wondered what it would be like if Starbucks marketed like a church?

Read Marketing Secret #2 >>

On ‘Jamal Bryant Podcast,’ Dante Bowe Discusses How He ‘Accidentally’ Posted a Nude Selfie

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Former Maverick City Music singer Dante Bowe recently sat down with Pastor Jamal Bryant of New Birth Missionary Baptist Church to discuss Bowe’s transition from gospel music to R&B.

One of the first things the Grammy Award- and Dove Award-winning singer, who says he doesn’t do many interviews because he’s “too honest,” discussed with Bryant was the real reason he was removed from Maverick City Music in September 2022.

“Okay, so everybody wants to know, because so many stories circulate,” Bryant told Bowe. Laughing, Bryant referenced to Maverick City Music’s statement about pausing its “professional relationship” with Bowe due to “behavior that is inconsistent with [their] core values and beliefs.”

RELATED: ‘I Accidentally Posted an Inappropriate Photo of Myself’—Dante Bowe Denies Instagram Post Was ‘Sexual,’ Provides Details of Maverick City Music Split

“Yeah, man,” Bowe replied. “You know what’s crazy—and we cool now—but like I didn’t really bow to anything, like any of that stuff, you know? I mean, yeah, you know, I was supposed to go away for six months.”

“Why?” Bryant asked.

“First it was because I would do things on my own,” Bowe responded, explaining that he was becoming more popular as a solo act.

“So I was the first in my group to perform at the Doves by myself, while they performed second after me. [At the] Stellar Awards, [I was] nominated on my own,” Bowe said, adding that he “doesn’t like talking about my accolades.”

Nevertheless, he continued, “I had already made No. 1s and stuff on my own, and I think I was still part of the group, and so I had to turn down a bunch of gigs and different things like that with the group.”

“And so naturally, you’re replaceable, because you might do eight dates out of the 20-something we got to do,” Bowe said. “So it’s already like, we can get rid of you.”

RELATED: Maverick City Music ‘Pauses’ Their Relationship With Grammy Award-Winning Singer Dante Bowe Due to His Behavior

Bowe claimed that other artists in the collective were “doing all kinds of bad stuff.” He said, “I was just the one that was, like, used as the poster child.”

67% of Pastors Have Personal History of Porn Use, Reports Barna

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The American church has a porn problem. Nearly 1 in 5 pastors (18%) in the United States currently struggles with pornography. Two-thirds (67%) have engaged with porn at some point in their lives. And 74% of practicing Christians “who have engaged with porn” say no one is helping them avoid it.

These sobering statistics are from the recent study, “Beyond the Porn Phenomenon,” by Barna and Pure Desire Ministries, a follow-up to Barna’s 2016 study, “The Porn Phenomenon.” While the findings are disheartening, the researchers nevertheless have words of encouragement for church leaders, as well key takeaways regarding how churches can be equipped to address the poison of porn.

RELATED: ‘Emotional Pornography’—Allie Beth Stuckey Warns Christian Women To Avoid ‘It Ends With Us’

Since 2016, not much has changed about society’s porn problem. In fact, as you’ll see in this latest study, some things have become worse,” said Barna researchers. “And there’s even greater opportunity—and need—for the Church to respond.” 

“Our dream at Pure Desire is to see the Church as the safest place possible for someone to admit to their sexual struggles or the struggles of a loved one,” said Pure Desire Ministries Executive Director Nick Stumbo. “This can only happen as we all learn to respond well to those who are struggling or hurting and provide focused, intentional community around this topic.” 

“May we rise to this cultural moment and create healing space—for all men and women, married or single, struggling or partnered with someone struggling—to find lasting hope and freedom in Christ,” he added. “You are not alone.” 

Porn Problem in the American Church

In 2016, Barna released the report, “The Porn Phenomenon,” which showed that the use of pornography in American culture was pervasive and accepted. Now, porn use in the U.S., which was at 55% in 2015,  has increased to 61% in the present day. Porn use has increased among women, and younger generations report using porn more often than older generations do. 

“Beyond the Porn Phenomenon,” said Stumbo, shows that the “average Christian is not experiencing freedom in this area.” Moreover, church leaders are also struggling, and it is not common for churches to provide help tailored to sexual addiction.

One of the areas the report evaluates is the relationship between porn use and “betrayal trauma,” which results when “the people or institutions on which a person depends for survival significantly violate that person’s trust or well-being.” Researchers write that the new report demonstrates “just how crucial it is for church leaders to better understand betrayal trauma and pornography use within their congregations.” 

RELATED: Porn Is a Women’s Problem, Too. Our Solutions Need To Be Woman-Oriented.

“Faith community can be a place where betrayed spouses are reminded how God ‘rescues those whose spirits are crushed’ (Psalm 34:18, NLT),” the researchers said. “However, without recognizing the very real devastation of this trauma, church leaders risk mishandling the pain these individuals experience, leaving them feeling more hurt, unheard and invalidated.” 

Youth Pastor Arrested, Charged With Living Off Earnings of Teen He Trafficked

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Stephen Johnson, who served as a volunteer youth pastor and counselor for 12 years in Alabama, has been charged with living off the earnings of a teen prostitute. Police in Plantation, Florida, where Johnson now lives, arrested the 40-year-old, who is accused of sex trafficking a minor across several states.

Johnson, who was being held in jail on a $500,000 bond, appeared in bond court on Thursday (Oct. 24). A judge ordered him to stay offline and have no contact with minors, including the teenage girl he allegedly trafficked.

Charge: Youth Pastor Stephen Johnson Lived Off Teen Prostitute’s Income

According to court records, Stephen Johnson initially met a 12-year-old girl on a social media app, where she was selling sexually explicit material online. Authorities claim Johnson posed as a woman on that app and then offered the girl assistance for marketing her nude material more effectively. This virtual relationship allegedly lasted for five years.

RELATED: She Left Her Job to Help Sex Trafficking Survivors. This Is What She Learned.

When the girl was 17, the complaint alleges, she traveled to Birmingham, Alabama, where Johnson volunteered as a youth pastor for a dozen years, working with kids ages 5 to 18. In Alabama, authorities say, Johnson placed escort ads for the girl and had her engage in sex acts as a prostitute. That continued, police say, when the two moved to south Florida, after the alleged victim was accepted at a college.

Johnson has been charged with one count of living off the earnings of a teen prostitute. According to the complaint affidavit, Johnson took 40% of the girl’s $100,000 earnings as a sex worker.

In court Thursday, prosecutors told the judge, “[Johnson] trafficked a minor in another state, your honor, a 17-year-old.” They allege that the defendant did this across several states, including Maryland, North Carolina, Pennsylvania, Virginia, and Washington, D.C.

How Predators Seek Out Human Trafficking Victims

Because Stephen Johnson had served in a position of trust among young people, prosecutors argued that he poses a danger to the community. “I don’t think it is safe for females in the community to have him traveling about, not knowing where he is,” they told the judge.

A check into Johnson’s background unearthed an attempted rape and strangulation case from 2019. But he was never convicted in that case.

ChurchLeaders was unable to pinpoint the church where Johnson had served. News reports haven’t indicated that he targeted anyone in his Birmingham youth group.

New Pastors: 7 Pitfalls to Avoid

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Getting a new church job can be scary. And pastors often overlook pitfalls in those new jobs. In this article, adapted from my book on on-boarding for pastors, I list 7 pitfalls new pastors must avoid in a new church job.

A quaint story circulated among Methodists describes a young pastor fresh out of seminary who had just begun his first pastorate. As he drove up to the small church he noticed an old tree blocking the side doors into the building. In his exuberance he cut the tree down to show the congregation his decisive leadership. Unfortunately, no one told him that they believed that John Wesley, the founder of Methodism, had planted it hundreds of years earlier. He had one of the shortest pastorates on record after that.[1] Even if this story is somewhat dubious, it captures what often happens in a new ministry when a new pastor is blind to potential pitfalls. Here are 7 common pitfalls a pastor to a new church should seek to avoid.

New Pastors: 7 Pitfalls to Avoid

Pitfall # 1. Cookie cutter: Thinking what worked before will work now.

“It’s a mistake to believe that you will be successful in your new job by continuing to do what you did in your previous job, only more so.”[2] This pitfall reflects a ‘one-size-fits-all’ approach to ministry. Such thinking not only could be a mismatch for the church, but could stifle learning new ways to do ministry crucial to your continued professional and spiritual growth.

Sometimes this pitfall shows up when we realize we’re talking too much about our previous ministry and our successes there. An occasional reference to your former ministry is fine. But when it becomes commonplace, your staff, volunteers, and people in the church may hear you imply that your prior ministry was better than your current one. Don’t communicate buyer’s remorse, even if you feel it.

Pitfall # 2. Smartie-pants: Assuming you know all the answers.

I still remember an embarrassing conversation with a leader in my first church where I was lead pastor. We disagreed on an issue and I recall saying, “I’m usually right on most things.” When I think back on that statement I cringe at the egotism I conveyed with that comment. I had failed to remember that Proverbs 16.18 warns that pride comes before a fall.

Great Leaders Are Great Listeners

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What qualities does a great leader possess? Talent? Charisma? Confidence? Typically, great leaders are smart. They’re good connectors. They’re good decision makers and, even more importantly, decision managers. In most of our thinking about great leadership, we often skip over one particular characteristic that has a surprising influence on a leader’s ability to lead better: great leaders are great listeners.

I still remember the funny movement my stomach made when Pastor Rick Warren asked me to address the staff at Saddleback Church about the in’s and out’s of using social media to minister to more people. (This was 2010, by the way – digital ages ago.)

Great Leaders Are Great Listeners

There were several hundred people on staff who would gather in the Refinery theater weekly to hear Pastor Rick share lessons about leadership and observations about his vision for Saddleback. And on this particular week, he asked if I’d speak to everyone in his place.

Speaking to hundreds of people doesn’t get me too worked up, and I felt confident in my knowledge of the content. What had me a little stressed out was a single person who would be there, in the audience listening. Yeah. Pastor Rick Warren.

Are You Ready to Risk Again? (A Worship Team Devotional)

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This worship team devotional asks the people on your worship team: are you ready to risk again?

ARE YOU READY TO RISK AGAIN?

From John 6 in The Message. “The Spirit can make life. Sheer muscle and willpower don’t make anything happen. Every word I’ve spoken to you is a Spirit-word, and so it is life-making. But some of you are resisting, refusing to have any part in this.” (Jesus knew from the start that some weren’t going to risk themselves with him…).’”

DEVOTIONAL

What would you risk everything for? Most of us have risked money, reputation, or our future at one time or another. We are compelled to take risks because we believe that something better is waiting on the other side. We take chances because, ultimately, we believe that moving forward is better than just staying where we are.

As we lead others in worship, there are times to do what is familiar, and times to take risks. For example, you are in the middle of a song that the congregation has sung 100 times before. As you near the end of a chorus, you sense that you should play it one more time, only this time, instrumentally. The band engages, the music rises, and a Scripture comes to mind. You begin to sing a phrase from it, and make it a spontaneous, musical prayer. You try something new, something small, and see the results. Then, later, you ask each other and those leading the gathering, “Did that work? Did people get it? Did they respond? If so, what did we learn? If not, what can we learn from taking that risk?”

Bible Study Topics for Youth: 15 Subjects To Engage Teens

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Bible study topics for youth help teens engage in life-changing conversations about faith. When choosing subjects to teach, consider what resonates with kids’ lives and experiences.

Teens navigate changing values, peer pressure, social media, and questions about identity and purpose. So select Bible study topics for youth that connect scriptural truths to adolescent challenges.

These 15 engaging Bible study topics for youth ministry will capture attention and ignite great discussions!

15 Great Bible Study Topics for Youth

1. Identity in Christ: Who Am I?

Teens often struggle with their identity and self-worth. But the Bible is clear about who they are in Christ. Read passages like Psalm 139:13-14 to show teens that God designed them with a purpose. Help teens consider how their identity in Christ shapes their self-image. Also talk about ideas for standing firm against worldly pressures.

Key Verse: Ephesians 2:10 – “For we are God’s handiwork, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do.”

2. Navigating Peer Pressure: Standing Firm

Teens face pressure to conform to peers’ expectations. Daniel and his friends refused to bow to King Nebuchadnezzar’s golden image, despite the consequences. Discuss how to develop courage and conviction amid pressure.

Key Verse: Daniel 3:17-18 – “If we are thrown into the blazing furnace, the God we serve is able to deliver us from it… But even if he does not… we will not serve your gods.”

3. Handling Social Media: A Christian Perspective

Social media plays a major role in teens’ lives. A Bible study on the topic can use Proverbs 18:21 to address words, online behavior, and boundaries. Encourage teens to use social media as a platform for good rather than harm.

Key Verse: Ephesians 4:29 – “Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs.”

4. Dealing with Anxiety and Stress

These days, many teens struggle with anxiety. Scripture offers comfort and guidance on how to cope. Teach kids to lean on God’s promises and bring their worries to God in prayer.

Key Verse: Philippians 4:6-7 – “Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God.”

5. Friendship: What Does the Bible Say?

Many Bible study topics for youth focus on friendships. Look at biblical principles for healthy, Christ-centered relationships. Point to David and Jonathan, or iron sharpening iron (Proverbs 27:17). Discuss what makes a good friend and how to be one.

Key Verse: Proverbs 17:17 – “A friend loves at all times, and a brother is born for a time of adversity.”

Creation Activities for Preschoolers: Learn About Light

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In these creation activities for preschoolers, children explore the story of Creation. Glow-in-the-dark stars help them understand and experience God’s light.

Creation Activities for Preschoolers: Let There Be Light

Bible Basis: Genesis 1:1-31

You’ll need:

  • Bible
  • sheet of dark-colored construction paper for each child
  • glow-in-the-dark star stickers

Prep

Before this activity, remove the glow-in-the-dark star stickers from their package. Set them in a place where they have direct exposure to a light source such as a window or lamp. This allows the stickers to absorb plenty of light so they’ll glow brightly.

Dark Into Light

Next, hold up a sheet of dark-colored paper.

Say: Before God made our world, everything was completely dark, like this paper. There was nothing in the world—not a sun or a moon or stars. Let’s close our eyes to see what that might have been like.

Close your eyes, and direct the children to do the same. Tell children to keep their eyes closed until you say to open them. You might suggest they put their hands over their eyes to make it “extra” dark.

While their eyes are still closed, ask:

  • What do you see?
  • What would it be like if our world was like this all the time?

Say: In the Bible, the first thing God said was, “Let there be light.” And the world became bright! Let’s call out together, “Let there be light!” just as God did. Then we’ll open our eyes and see what happens.

Have the children call out with you, “Let there be light!”

When they’ve opened their eyes, ask:

  • Now what do you see?

Say: Giving light to the whole world is something only God can do! Only God can make light as bright as the sun or as pretty as the stars.

Crafty Creation

Give each child a sheet of dark-colored construction paper.

Say: Let’s add something special to our dark pieces of paper to remember that when God made our world, God gave us light, too. Put one of these star stickers on your paper. When you do that, say, “Thank you, God, for making our world.”

Distribute the glow-in-the-dark stickers. Then let children place stickers on their papers as they say, “Thank you, God, for making our world.”

When everyone is finished, say: Now turn your paper over so you can’t see your star. When I turn off the lights, let’s all call out, “Let there be light!” just as God did. Then we’ll turn our papers over again, and we’ll see a big surprise!

Be sure the children have turned their papers star-side down before you turn off the lights. Then have them turn their papers back over to show their stars.

If You Aren’t Being ‘Persecuted’ for Your Faith, You Might Be Doing Something ‘Wrong,’ John Amanchukwu Tells Modern Church Leader Conference

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Preacher, author, and activist John K. Amanchukwu Sr. recently told attendees of the Modern Church Leader Conference that if they weren’t being persecuted for their faith, they might be doing something wrong.

Amanchukwu frequently visits school board meetings across the nation to speak out against school literature that promotes critical race theory (CRT), intersectionality, queer theory, gender theory, and other cultural issues.

“Politics doesn’t drive the church. The church should drive and influence politics,” Amanchukwu told ChurchLeaders following his session. “So we’re called to influence everywhere.”

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Doing Kingdom Life and Kingdom Work Outside of the 4 Walls of the Church

Amanchukwu continued, “My topic today that they gave me was addressing doing kingdom life and kingdom work outside of the four walls of the church.” He further explained, “That also includes the marketplace, government, school systems, wherever you are. You know, we have this thing called a Great Commission where we’re called to go to Judea, Samaria, Jerusalem and the uttermost parts of the world.”

With that idea in mind, Amanchukwu provided some examples in culture that he believes church leaders, including preachers, should be boldly addressing.

“We should address the sanctity of life. Pastors and the church should make it plain that life begins at conception, and that we should not be endorsing [any] exceptions for aborting a baby,” he said. Amanchukwu also believes that pastors should address “gender theory and queer theory and those teaching our kids that they have to know their certain pronouns at school.”

Amanchukwu clarified that “people have a freedom and a right to do whatever they want to do.” However, he stressed, “My rub, my ax to grind, is when we push these things upon children.”

“When you go to a public school and you intentionally dress as an individual that you’re not,” Amanchukwu added, “when a man puts on a woman’s dress and the cosmetic femininity and then gets access to children, that’s where, you know, I’m angered by that.”

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Quoting Dietrich Bonhoeffer, he said, “‘To fail to speak is to speak, and to fail to act is to act.’ So I think, now more than ever, Christians need to be comfortable with persecution.”

Amanchukwu Is Regularly Called Racist Names for Speaking Out

Amanchukwu said that persecution isn’t something he has been able to avoid. As a result of his activism, he has been arrested and said he is frequently called racist names.

Florida Pastor Recovering After Being Stabbed in Apparent Random Attack

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An Episcopal rector in Florida is hospitalized in stable condition following what police said seems to be a random stabbing incident. On Wednesday morning (Oct. 23), Father Matt Marino, lead pastor of Trinity Parish in downtown St. Augustine, was having coffee at a café near the church. According to witnesses, a bicyclist rode past the outside seating, then returned and stabbed Marino, who was wearing clergy attire.

Police quickly spread alerts about a possible suspect, and two hours later they arrested Arienna Gibbs. The 22-year-old, who’s being held without bond, is charged with second-degree attempted homicide, aggravated assault with a deadly weapon, and felony simple battery. According to court records, Gibbs was convicted of simple battery in September and released the same day she was sentenced to a 28-day prison term.

Florida Church Addresses ‘Deeply Concerning’ Incident

Theo Glory, who owns the café where the attack occurred, said he was chatting with regulars Wednesday morning when he spotted Marino on the floor. “We had initially thought that maybe he had a heart attack or something,” Glory said. After realizing the pastor had been stabbed, Glory said people were shocked and wondering “why would somebody do something like that.”

Another witness described seeing blood, as well as people jumping into action to help. “It was pretty wild,” said the unidentified man. “You don’t really hear about stuff like that happening in this area.”

Trinity Parish, located just minutes from the scene of the attack, temporarily put its church and school on lockdown as a precaution. In a statement, Trinity called the stabbing “deeply disturbing” and said Marino was being treated at a Jacksonville hospital. The church requested prayers for the pastor and his family. It also thanked local police and paramedics for their “immediate response.”

The Episcopal Diocese of Florida also released a statement Wednesday, requesting prayers and expressing gratitude to authorities and medical staff. It indicated that Marino was “in stable condition and awake.”

Stabbing of Pastor Was a ‘Senseless Act,’ Say Police

Police haven’t revealed a possible motive and are still investigating. So far, there’s no known connection between the pastor and suspect.

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Dee Brown, a public information officer for the St. Augustine Police Department, said the “whole community” was hurting as a result of the “senseless act.” He added, “We just want to continue to keep the clergy and the members of the church in your prayers.”

Tell-Show-Help-Watch Discipleship

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In the pursuit of effective discipleship within Christian ministry, the Neuroscience Informed Relational Discipleship principle of “Tell-Show-Help-Watch” emerges as a transformative approach that bridges the gap between cognitive understanding and relational experiences. This model not only aligns with but also deeply integrates psychological insights with spiritual formation, emphasizing the necessity of whole-brain integration for lasting character change and spiritual growth.

*If you haven’t read the Introduction to NIRD yet, start here 🙂

Tell: The Foundation of Cognitive Engagement

The “Tell” stage initiates the discipleship process through left-brain mediated tasks which involve teaching cognitive information about spiritual principles through written texts, oral instructions, books, Bible study, or sermons. This stage is crucial for laying down the foundational knowledge and understanding of biblical principles. However, while essential, this cognitive engagement alone is insufficient to foster deep and lasting changes in internal working models or character structure​​.

Show: Modeling Principles in Real Life

Following the cognitive engagement, the “Show” phase extends discipleship into right-brain mediated experiences, which are essential for the internalization of taught principles. This stage involves living life in proximity to a mentor or discipler, allowing disciples to witness the application of biblical truths in real-world settings. Whether it’s serving together in community engagement contexts or simply participating in the daily life of a mentor’s family, this stage offers a powerful avenue for disciples to observe and begin metabolizing the cognitive information through relational and sensory experiences​​.

Help: Active Participation and Feedback

The “Help” phase deepens the relational experience by allowing disciples to attempt living out the principles they have learned in real-time, within relevant contexts. This proximity enables mentors to provide immediate coaching, support, and feedback, crucial for the disciples as they navigate the complexities of applying these teachings. The role of the mentor is not just observational but actively supportive, ensuring that the learning is not only attempted but also refined and corrected through practice​​.

Watch: Affirmation and Celebration of Growth

Finally, the “Watch” phase involves the mentor observing and supporting the disciple as they practice the relational skills and principles independently. This stage is characterized by the mentor’s role in affirming and celebrating the disciple’s growth, which reinforces the learning and helps cement the transformation. This validation is vital for encouraging the disciple, highlighting the positive changes, and solidifying the new behavioral patterns as permanent features of the disciple’s character structure​​.

Theoretical and Spiritual Underpinnings

This model is supported by a robust understanding of how the brain processes and internalizes information. The left-brain is engaged in logical processing and understanding, which is critical in the “Tell” phase. However, lasting change involves the right-brain’s capacity for relational and experiential learning, activated through the “Show,” “Help,” and “Watch” stages. This approach aligns with the biblical process of discipleship, which involves more than just knowledge but transformed lives demonstrated through relationship and community​​.

Implications for Church Practice

The “Tell-Show-Help-Watch” approach underscores a significant challenge within modern church practice, which often favors large-scale programs and instructional formats that neglect the deeper relational dynamics essential for true spiritual growth. By adopting this integrative approach, churches can foster more profound and lasting impacts on individuals’ lives, moving beyond superficial engagement to producing disciples capable of replicating this transformative process in others​​.

The NIRD principle of “Tell-Show-Help-Watch” offers a holistic and effective framework for discipleship that leverages both cognitive and relational brain functions to foster deep, lasting spiritual and character transformation. This model not only aligns with neurological insights but also embodies the scriptural mandate for discipleship that is deeply relational and transformational.

Small Group Training

Training small group leaders using the Tell-Show-Help-Watch principle of Neuroscience Informed Relational Discipleship (NIRD) can be a highly effective way to ensure they are well-equipped to facilitate their groups with confidence and skill. Here’s how this principle might be applied in such a training context:

  1. Tell: The training begins with a clear and structured presentation of the key concepts and roles of a small group leader. This includes teaching on the purpose of small groups, the importance of creating a safe and welcoming environment, and the various responsibilities that leaders will hold. For instance, trainers might cover biblical teachings on community and leadership, such as those found in Acts 2:42-47, which discusses the early church’s commitment to teaching, fellowship, breaking of bread, and prayer.
  2. Show: Next, the trainers demonstrate these concepts in action. This could be done through role-playing scenarios where experienced leaders simulate a small group meeting, demonstrating how to handle various situations like managing different personality types, facilitating discussions, and addressing sensitive issues. This stage might also include showing videos or case studies of successful small group interactions.
  3. Help: In this phase, the trainees practice leading a small group session in a controlled environment with real-time feedback from their trainers. The trainers participate in the group as members, guiding the trainee through the process of leading, from opening the group in prayer to steering discussions and handling hypothetical challenging situations. This hands-on approach helps solidify learning and builds the trainee’s confidence.
  4. Watch: Finally, the trainees lead a session with less direct intervention from the trainers, who observe and later provide constructive feedback. This stage may involve the trainees leading a pilot small group with volunteer participants or their peers acting as group members. The trainers watch and evaluate the session, offering feedback on areas such as communication skills, handling of the group dynamics, depth of discussion, and adherence to the group’s purpose.

Throughout each of these stages, the integration of scriptural principles and psychological insights ensures that the training is both spiritually grounded and practically effective. The trainers would emphasize the importance of prayer, reliance on the Holy Spirit, and the application of interpersonal neurobiology principles to understand and manage group dynamics effectively. This holistic approach prepares leaders not just to manage groups but to foster genuine spiritual growth and community among members.

Community Engagement

Applying the Tell-Show-Help-Watch principle to train volunteers for community engagement tasks, such as serving in a soup kitchen, offers a structured approach to ensure they are prepared, confident, and effective in their roles.

Charlie Kirk Calls on American Pastors To Preach Against the Democratic Party, Asks Christians To ‘Put Pressure’ on Pastors Who Refuse

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As election day looms, political activist Charlie Kirk made characteristically provocative remarks about the Democratic Party during a Trump rally in Deluth, Georgia, on Wednesday (Oct. 23). Looking directly into the camera, Kirk told American pastors what they should say in their next sermon. 

“We are here in a state that is a very Christian state, a state that loves God and loves Jesus,” Kirk said. “If there was my biggest concern of this election, it is the faithful. It is the pastors that are not engaging right now in this election.”

“We have 12 days left,” Kirk continued, “and you need to lovingly challenge pastors that are silent that you have a biblical obligation to engage in this election, that you have a biblical obligation to fight evil and to exalt righteousness.” 

“Donald Trump is the most pro-life president in American history as he was responsible for the reversal of Roe v. Wade,” Kirk went on to say. 

Notably, Trump has softened his stance on abortion this election cycle, framing the issue as a matter of states’ rights while also criticizing states that have enacted strict abortion bans, including his home state of Florida. 

“More than anything else, everybody, is on the other side: The Democrat Party supports everything that God hates,” Kirk said. “The Democrat Party is espousing the death of the unborn, the mutilation of our teenage kids, open borders, the destruction of our sovereignty, the elimination of our currency status.”

Kirk said that he believes “a spiritual battle” is taking place in America, and that pastors are vital for “spiritual victory.” 

“Do not expect a spiritual victory if our own pastors do not engage,” Kirk said, adding that for Georgia to continue to be a “Christian state,” it needs the “the faithful” to rise up.

“We need those of you that have influence over your congregation to put pressure on you pastors,” Kirk said. 

“And if you are a pastor watching this right now, I hope this touches you,” he continued. “I hope you have a Sunday sermon and you talk about how the Democrat party believes everything that God hates. I hope you tell your congregation how to biblically vote. I hope you challenge them and tell them to get into the arena.”

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A number of American pastors have caused a stir online for doing exactly what Charlie Kirk has suggested. For example, a clip of an Oct. 6 sermon given by Tennessee Pastor Jonny Ardavanis has generated discussion on social media.

Joby Martin: Guardrails of Grace for Healthy Ministry Leaders

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As pastors and ministry leaders, why is it often easier for us to preach and teach about the concept of grace than it is to live in the fullness of God’s grace? In this week’s conversation on FrontStage BackStage, host Jason Daye is joined by Joby Martin. Joby is the founder and lead pastor of The Church of Eleven22 in Jacksonville, Florida. His most recent book is titled, “Run Over by the Grace Train.” Together, Joby and Jason look at some of the challenges we have as ministry leaders when it comes to experiencing God’s grace. They look at issues such as comparison traps, performance mentality, and others that often trip us up. Joby also shares some biblical insights and some ideas and practices that can help us truly experience the fullness of living in Christ as we serve his church.

FrontStage BackStage Podcast With Joby Martin

View the entire podcast here.

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