Not long ago, my wife and I attended the funeral of a distant in-law kind of relative. We enjoyed meeting friends and making new ones, and were blessed by the service.
But something big was missing.
Not a single prayer was uttered. Not one.
One wonders if the leaders remembered later and said something like, “Oh my—I forgot to pray.”
We’re Forgetting to Pray
“Pray without ceasing” (I Thessalonians 5:17).
This isn’t an isolated incident. I’ve been in worship services where the first prayer wasn’t offered until midway through—right before the offering.
Nothing reveals more about us than the place we give to prayer, whether personally or in the worship services, including funeral prayer.
Our Lord said, “It is written, ‘My house shall be a house of prayer for all the nations…’” (Mark 11:17, quoting Isaiah 56:7 and Jeremiah 7:11).
The fact that we could assemble and forget to pray says a hundred things about us. All of them bad.
What Our Prayerlessness Reveals
When we forget to pray, we’re saying something we may not realize:
- We are satisfied living in the flesh and not in the Spirit.
- We see no reason to call on the Father, whether for His presence and blessings, or for His wisdom and anointing. We are like the newly-shorn Samson who awakened and “did not know the Spirit had departed from him” (Judges 16:20). What could be more condemning than this?
- We do not hunger for His nearness, long for His comfort, ache for Him to convict the lost and draw them to Christ.
- We worship in the flesh, which means our singing, our preaching, everything, is according to man and not to God.
- Prayer for some of us is only perfunctory. Just going through the motions. Tipping our hats to the Almighty. And thus, prayer was nothing that made much difference.
I fear we have become like the worshipers of Malachi’s day who sniffed at the offerings and said, “What a weariness!” (Malachi 1:13).
God help us.
