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The Paradoxical, Scandalous Sacrifice of Jesus—As Captured by Hillsong UNITED

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What is conjured up in your mind when you think of the word “scandal”? It is probably safe to assume that whatever comes is not positive. Perhaps you think of underhanded politics, an unwanted pregnancy, the public airing of corporate financial embezzlement, or a sexual affair that occurs within your church. Scandals can hurt and even kill many people. Paradoxically, though, the only hope in redeeming the pollution of a scandal is to receive the power of another scandal. The scandal of the cross!

In 1 Corinthians 1:23, Paul exclaims to the Corinthian Christ followers that his passion was to “preach Christ crucified, a stumbling block (scandal) to Jews and foolishness to Gentiles..”  The reason that the cross is a scandal is because the most UN-scandalous person offered Himself as a sacrificial substitute for people who realize that their lives are nothing short of scandalous compared to a holy God. It is truly a scandal of grace “that while we were still sinners that Christ died for us (Romans 5:8)”. On the cross, Christ took our sin upon Himself while He imputed His righteousness into His children. That my friends is not copy for fake news, but is the beautiful scandalous truth.

Hillsong United, a worship ministry based in Australia, recently made a video of them performing Scandal of Grace by an empty tomb that is near the ancient site of Golgotha.  The lyrics are below so you can follow along:

Grace, what have you done?
Murdered for me on that cross
Accused in absence of wrong
My sin washed away in your blood

Too much to make sense of it all

I know that your love breaks my fall
The scandal of grace, you died in my place
So my soul will live

Oh to be like you
Give all I have just to know you
Jesus, there’s no one besides you
Forever the hope in my heart

Death, where is your sting?
Your power is as dead as my sin
The cross has taught me to live
In mercy, my heart now to sing

The day and its trouble shall come
I know that your strength is enough
The scandal of grace, you died in my place
So my soul will live

Oh to be like you
Give all I have just to know you
Jesus, there’s no one besides you
Forever the hope in my heart

Oh to be like you
Give all I have just to know you
Jesus, there’s no one besides you
Forever the hope in my heart

And it’s all because of you, Jesus
It’s all because of you, Jesus
It’s all because of your love
And my soul will live

Oh to be like you
Give all I have just to know you
Jesus, there’s no one besides you
Forever the hope in my heart

Oh to be like you
Give all I have just to know you
Jesus, there’s no one besides you
Forever the hope in my heart

Songwriters: Joel Houston / Matt Crocker
Scandal of Grace lyrics © Capitol Christian Music Group

9 Reasons Not to Focus on the “Greener Grass”

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Some Sundays are just hard in church. As a layperson or a staff leader, all of us have had Sundays when we wondered why we remained in that particular congregation. If that’s where you are, I strongly encourage you not to get focused on the “greener grass” today. Here’s why:

  1. The bad Sundays are seldom really as bad as they seemed. Separate yourself from Sunday by a few days, and your perspective often changes. What seemed horrible on Sunday isn’t as bad on Wednesday.
  2. The greener grass is never as green as it seems. No grass is perfect. Every patch of grass has its own problems that you can’t know about it until you’re living in it—and then it’s late to make a change. Even the Promised Land was filled with enemies.
  3. Looking to the greener grass is the wrong focus. If you need to look away from a tough Sunday, look to God. Pray. Listen. Pray some more.
  4. The greener grass is sometimes a distraction of the devil. He did it in the Garden of Eden, and he still does it today. He turns our attention to something new and untried, and we follow his misguided guidance.
  5. You’ll miss the good things that happened on that bad Sunday. That’s a demonic Garden of Eden strategy, too. Looking toward what seems greener often results in missing the present-tense blessings of God.
  6. Wherever you are, there will be tough Sundays. I don’t know a church leader whose Sundays have always been perfect. Rotten Sundays happen, even in the best churches.
  7. There’s often somebody on your greener grass who’s doing the same thing. Sometimes, a leader in that other church is looking to your church as his greener grass at the same time. Everybody has his own battles, and few people can know them all.
  8. God often teaches us the most in the not-so-green grass. The desert of a tough Sunday is a thirsty place that should drive us to the Living Water. Looking only to the greener grass can cause you to overlook the most intimate, desperate moments with your Creator and Redeemer.
  9. No grass stays green. Think about it—it’s possible that you once saw your current church as the “greener grass.” At least for this weekend, things have changed. Bad Sundays happen, and they’re going to come again. Learn to trust God when your own grass looks brown.

Church leaders, what would you add to this list? Help our readers who had a tough Sunday.

This article originally appeared here.

3 Breakthrough Ideas From the Global Small Group Movement

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Every month, small group ministry leaders are meeting around the world, finding fellowship and wisdom with other ministry leaders in their community. What they’re actually discovering in Small Group Network huddles is that we are better together.

Here are three quick ideas from worldwide small group huddles that your small group ministry can take advantage of today:

1. Be open to other ideas.

Some churches and some ministry leaders adopt the NIH (Not Invented Here) principle. NIH is when we fail to adopt or adapt ideas from other places because we think we should come up with all the good ideas. There’s another word for this—pride. During one mission trip to a third world country there was a knock on the door late one evening as I was visited by the leader of a local church. He told me that our teaching made sense, but they wouldn’t be able to use any of these ideas because their church was not a follower church, their philosophy was to lead. I hesitated to mention to this well-meaning leader that Jesus taught the importance of being “a follower.” Instead, I simply responded that many churches had grown exponentially in discipleship and numbers by using the best ideas from all over the world.

As you learn about the experience of other churches, you may need to reconsider a strategy or tactic that you didn’t find successful in the past. Sometimes ideas take time and practice to develop. Some ideas that didn’t work just need tweaking to make them breakthrough strategies. If other churches are successfully using an idea that didn’t work in your church, find out exactly what they did and then consider giving it another try. In my business career clients would often naively dismiss strategies that had helped other companies gain phenomenal success. Their reasoning was generally, “We tried that and it didn’t work.” Most breakthroughs are preceded by a string of failed experiments. Just because something didn’t work doesn’t mean it can’t or won’t. It might just mean that it wasn’t done right the first time. Find out how others used the idea successfully, and give it another go.

2. Don’t stress over what you call your groups.

They can be called anything—life groups, cell groups, small groups, community groups, home groups, disciple groups. More important than what you call your groups is how intentional you are with them. What’s your desired outcome and how will you get there? If you don’t have a strategic plan for your ministry, check out going to an Accelerate! workshop or hosting one in your area. A great reminder on focused intent is to always keep the main thing the main thing. What you call your groups may be important to you, but it is not the main thing. The main thing is to get people in your church connected into disciple-making small groups so they can become more like Christ and reach others who don’t know him. If there’s a reason to change what you call your groups, change. Then get back to the main thing.

3. Be inclusive with your group’s strategy, not exclusive.

Find out if a certain part of your community is not engaging in your groups ministry and then get them involved. A savvy business person once said, “If you want to attract a mouse, you have to look like a cheese.” To include other people groups, learn what attracts them, and then help them get that in your small group ministry. Maybe the breakthrough will come from starting groups in different languages for immigrant people groups. Maybe it will be from starting groups that have a fellowship meal with the group meeting—for ethnic or cultural groups. Or, maybe it will come from incorporating something else. Find the “cheese” and you’ll engage a whole new segment of your community.

Don’t miss out on the wealth of wisdom to be gained from being in a Small Group Network huddle. If you’re not in a huddle now, find one and join it, or start one.

This article originally appeared here.

God Has a Purpose for Your Pain

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“God causes everything to work together for the good of those who love God and are called according to his purpose for them,” says the Apostle Paul. But do we truly believe this in the midst of every circumstance and trial we face in life? Do we really believe he has a purpose for our pain, sorrow and despair? It may not always be easy to accept, but that doesn’t mean the words of Paul to be any less true.

Whether it be my immediate family, close friends, acquaintances or individuals reaching out to me via email and social media, it seems to me that there are a lot of people in this world currently going through some really tragic times. Some are facing financial issues, others are battling marital problems, and some are even mourning over the loss of a spouse or family member. Mostly all of these people are believers in Jesus, but brokenness and pain seem to be quite popular lately. They’ve all encountered tragedies they didn’t expect nor could they have really planned for. They just happened. And now all of these people are stuck in the middle of a storm and wondering what they should do next. Wondering how God is going to help them. Wondering how God is possibly going to work things together for good.

Hindsight is truly 20/20

I guess I’m writing this post to tell you that God truly does have a purpose for your pain. And while I don’t believe everything happens for a reason (see post here), I do believe that God can take everything in life that’s been thrown at him, redeem it, and use it for the glory of his name. But that’s only if the people who are involved will surrender their circumstances to him. Easier said than done, but the outcome is always worth it regardless of how painful your circumstances may be. I’ve come to quickly realize that hindsight truly is 20/20, and just because you don’t quite see the rainbow in the midst of your storm doesn’t mean it’s not going to be there. The storm first needs to pass. God still needs to be trusted. His Word still needs to be meditated on and digested spiritually.

The purpose of your pain may not come immediately. In fact, it may take years. But as God’s Word says, “God causes everything to work together for the good of those who love God,” and we have to stand on this truth. I’m not going to lie and act like it’s easy. It’s not. It’s probably going to be one of the hardest things you encounter in life, but it can also be one of the most renewing, strengthening and encouraging at the same time.

He Can Redeem

Who can better help walk with someone who has an addiction than someone who once had an addiction and lost everything? Who can better help someone who is going through the burden of bankruptcy than someone who has gone through the same experience? Who can better comfort and help someone who is in an abusive relationship than someone who has once been in one themselves? Who can better help walk with someone who is going through a divorce than someone who has been through one? And who can better walk next to someone who is currently mourning the loss of a loved one than someone who has been through a similar experience? God can take our pain, our brokenness, our frustrations, our failures, and use them as the testimonies in which we help others.

God has a purpose for our pain even if we have yet to realize it. He can redeem all things because he is the one who created all things. There is vibrant hope and purpose in the name of Jesus.

This article originally appeared here.

Why Kids Love Harry Potter

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Kids love Harry Potter. I was recently reminded of this again while watching a documentary about J.K. Rowling.

The first Harry Potter book, Harry Potter and the Philosopher’s Stone, was released on June 26, 1997. Sine then, the series has sold over 500 million books world-wide and has been made into blockbuster movies. The franchise is now worth over 25 billion dollars.

The series has had its share of criticism. Some more conservative Christians say it promotes witchcraft. This article is not about that debate. Personally, I allowed my kids to read the books growing up. Whatever you think about Harry Potter, one thing cannot be denied…as I said at the beginning…kids love Harry Potter.

When you find something that resonates with kids this well, it is important to stop and ask “why?” What is it in the books and movies that is a magnet for kids? Let’s look at a few of the reasons.

Harry Potter is slanted toward boys. The author’s full name is Joanne Kathleen Rowling. So why did she just use her initials on the book? The reason…so the book would appeal to boys. The publishers wanted to make sure boys weren’t turned off by a female author’s name. Experts who study kids know at that age, girls are OK with stuff that is “boyish,” but boys are turned off by anything that seems “girly.” When you write or produce something that you want to appeal to all kids, then target boys and you’ll get both boys and girls. But target girls and you’ll only get girls. While the series has strong female characters, the main character is obviously a boy.

Harry Potter was written from a child’s perspective. J.K. Rowling has been recognized for her unique ability to see through the eyes of a child. She is able to write with an 11-year-old in mind. Kids can relate to Harry’s everyday life. Yes, he’s hit with some over-the-top experiences, but he’s also spending time with friends, doing homework, interfacing with teachers, attending sports practices, etc. Things kids do each week.

Harry Potter contains humor. Rowling weaves humor throughout her stories. And kids love to laugh! Here are a few examples.

Dudley: They stuff people’s heads down the toilet the first day at Stonewall. Want to come upstairs and practice? Harry: No, thanks. The poor toilet’s never had anything as horrible as your head down it—it might be sick.

Professor McGonagall: Well, thank you for that assessment, Mr Weasley. Perhaps it would be more useful if I were to transfigure Mr. Potter and yourself into a pocket watch. That way, one of you might be on time.

Dumbledore: I was unfortunate enough in my youth to come across a vomit-flavored one, and since then I have rather lost my liking for them. But, I think I could be safe with a nice toffee. (eats it) Dumbledore: …Hmm, alas, earwax.

Harry Potter is about relationships. Family. Friends. Foes. Relationships run deep. Kids long to have friends. Kids want to know someone cares about them and will stick with them through good and bad times.

Harry Potter challenges kids to take risks. Hogwarts represents a dangerous place. Staircases that shift randomly, a venomous vasilik that kills with a glance, scary looking security guards, a whomping willow outside that wants to smash students’ heads, riding lessons on flying hippogriffts, dangerous villians and more.

In our efforts to protect kids, we’ve stripped away merry-go-rounds and jungle gyms from the playgrounds and carefully monitor every allergy known to mankind. While all along, kids long for danger and thrills. They find this in Harry Potter.

Harry Potter follows the journey of a developing hero. The majority of kids don’t think they have the potential to become a hero. But in Harry and his friends, they find hope. Harry is a skinny kid with glasses. And his friends are the kids that get picked last for games. They are the chess club kids. The kids who stay in at lunchtime to help the teacher.

But kids watch as their hidden potential is unlocked and the geeks become heroes. So many kids see themselves in these characters and long to become a hero.

Harry Potter sparked shared family experiences. Parents saw the books as an opportunity to experience the stories with their kids. Countless parents read the books and talked about the books with their children. Not to mention the millions of parents who have watched the movies and went to the theme park attractions with their children.

Harry Potter is great storytelling. The story of good vs. evil has been told in various forms since the beginning of time and Harry Potter narrates it with skill. Harry is a kid who is fighting to triumph over evil.

Kids love Harry Potter. And if we want them to love coming to church, then I believe we should think through these questions:

1. Are we targeting boys in our children’s ministries?

2. Do we plan our lessons, theming, programming, etc. through a child’s perspective?

3. Do we use humor to engage kids and make church a fun place where kids are free to laugh?

4. Are we providing kids the opportunity to develop relationships with other kids and volunteers?

5. Are we making following Jesus too safe? Are we challenging kids to count the cost and “forsake it all for the sake of the cross”?

6. Are we helping kids see their potential in Christ and showing them how they can impact the world for God?

7. Are we providing parents and kids with shared experiences where they can grow, learn and laugh together? Are we providing tools they can use to read and study God’s Word together during the week?

8. We have the greatest stories ever told. And they are true stories. And the greatest stories deserve the best storytelling. While we may not have the budget to tell the stories on a blockbuster movie level, are we doing our best to make the stories of the Bible come alive with creativity, out-of-the-box thinking and passion?

This article originally appeared here.

Pastors: Here Are Your Top 3 Priorities

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What are the priorities of a pastor in the work of the ministry?

That’s a tricky question. I’m fascinated by leadership and management principles that find their roots in the lives of Jesus, the apostles and other biblical characters.

But I also know that management comes second to theology and spirituality. That is, we are disciples before we are shepherds, and we are shepherds before we are managers in the modern sense of the word.

My own ministry is often filled with what I would term “paperwork.” I have a background in design and marketing and wrote a book about using social media in ministry, so naturally I spend a lot of time creating things, especially for the web.

I believe that it’s important for the church to put her best foot forward, so I am often driven by the details.

Occasionally, however, I find myself in need of a revival of right priorities for ministry. And when those moments come, I remind myself of the three “P’s” of ministry that need to remain in the right order.

First, Prayer Work

Acts 6 is unavoidable in any discussion about priorities in ministry. The overworked apostles, under pressure by various interest-groups within the church, needed desperately to get back to the Bible and prayer.

So they asked the church to set aside seven men to oversee the benevolence work of the church, that they might give themselves more fully to time with God.

One of my former pastors, Don Chandler, used to say that the people you preach to will know within a few weeks of hearing your preaching whether you have been with God or not.

It’s been wisely said that God is more interested in preparing the man than He is in preparing the message.

That’s why prayer must be viewed as just as important as sermon preparation. We need to mine the riches of God’s word in our study time, but not merely academically. We must go to the Word prayerfully!

Second, People Work

God calls people to preach, but the essence of preaching through a lifetime of ministry will be to make disciples.

Disciples are not made on accident. Instead they require personal attention. Though too much ministry to people may indeed rob our time with God, individual people are still more important than the little tasks that steal all of our time.

Pastors cannot possibly visit everybody. In fact, assuming that the pastor must personally know and shepherd every member of a congregation is an outdated, ineffective and even unbiblical model that restricts growth and leaves a lot of lost people lingering outside the church.

Having said that, I love what Andy Stanley says: “We should do for the one what we wish we could do for the many.”

A pastor can’t and shouldn’t try to personally shepherd and disciple everyone. The very essence of pastoral leadership is giving this ministry away to as many believers within the church as possible. But we must always be building some close relationships.

The greater part of peoplework for the pastor will be spent in disciple-making.

Bill Hull wrote an excellent book called The Disciple-Making Pastor. If Hull’s conclusions were followed to their end, the pastor would spend little time at all on mass evangelism, but rather invest himself wisely into “a few good men” and lead them to disciple others in turn.

Third, Paper Work

What often distracts me from the more important ministries is the paperwork of the ministry.

I’m including a lot under the category of “paper” that never really gets printed. Email. Texts. Social networks. Blogging. Church management software. Etc, etc.

There will be an endless stream of little tasks to be completed. The pastor could easily fill all of his time on the phone, handling the business issues of the church, and printing and folding stuff.

The hard-to-find balance here is between achieving excellence in the details without allowing the details to dominate. We can…

  • Hire an assistant, real or virtual.
  • Learn how to be awesome managers of time.
  • Discover and develop creative volunteers.
  • Delegate whole areas of ministry to staff members.

But at the end of a given week, our goal as pastors should be to say that we’ve given ourselves first and foremost to God, secondly to people, and thirdly to the paperwork.

This article originally appeared here.

7 Hidden Costs in Trying to Eliminate Risk

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Every leader I know attempts to limit a certain amount of risk when making decisions or leading change. We should attempt to have good systems, adequate resources, and even contingency or emergency plans. We don’t want to jeopardize the organization—ultimately the people—we are trying to lead.

The problem for some leaders, however, is they confuse limiting risk with attempting to eliminate risk. I’m not sure we can ever fail-proof anything completely, so it’s a futile attempt at best. The bigger problem, however, is what we end up missing out on in the process of attempting to eliminate risk. There are hidden costs involved in a leader who is overly cautious.

Here are seven hidden costs of attempting to eliminate risk:

Limited growth. Personally and corporately, without a certain amount of risk there is no potential for growth. Growth happens in environments where the potential to fail is prevalent, accepted and not scorned.

Unfulfilled dreams. Dreams are made of the seemingly impossible. The bigger the dream the greater the risk. Healthy teams and organizations have big, lofty dreams pulling them forward.

False reality. Life is a constant risk. If a leader has as a goal an attempt to eliminate it, they are essentially playing tricks with mirrors and fancy lights. They’ve created an unachievable expectation for people who follow.

Underutilized resources. “Playing it safe” may make more sense on paper. It may even feel comfortable, but often when resources are stretched is when the greatest growth potential occurs. Ask the question, “What would we do if we were forced to change and there was no money available?” It’s amazing how creative people can become.

Wasted time. The time you invest trying to eliminate risk could be used to leverage risk for a greater gain. All of us only have so much time, so leaders must be diligent stewards of it.

Expensive opportunity loss. Whenever you choose not to do something because of the risk involved, there is always a loss associated. The organization will miss out somewhere on something by not moving forward soon enough. The greatest discoveries often involve people who are willing to assume the greatest risks.

Diminished momentum. The fact is risk fuels momentum. There is something inside of most of us—especially the entrepreneurial or leader types—who thrive on achieving those things that seem impossible. When the chance of failure is high so are the components that fuel momentum.

Leader, you can never fully eliminate risk—and this is one of the hard parts of leading. The time you spend attempting to do so will take precious time from doing other things, which probably can reap higher reward. Risk is a reality to be managed not a problem to be avoided.

(This is absolutely true when leading in the church—perhaps more so, because we are to always be faith-driven. Faith always, by definition, deals with a level of the unknown.)

This article originally appeared here.

Do You Understand the Holy Spirit?

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For many Christians, the person of the Father and the person of the Son seem more tangible, and thus understandable, than the Holy Spirit. So what do we actually understand about this mysterious presence we call the Holy Spirit?

Certain streams within historical Christianity seem to err on the side of over-emphasizing the Holy Spirit over and sometimes against the Father and the Son. Other Christian traditions seem to do the exact opposite by de-emphasizing the Holy Spirit—if they mention the Holy Spirit at all. Is there a simple and concise way of understanding the Holy Spirit?

Luckily the Bible Project is here to help. In order to understand the Holy Spirit, one must literally go back to the beginning. In the opening chapters of the book of Genesis, we read about the Holy Spirit hovering above creation and being an agent of creation. The Spirit then is God’s personal presence and the Hebrew word for Spirit is transliterated “Ruah”.  Ruah can mean “energy” or “breath”, and though they are invisible, both of these concepts connote power and life.

For instance, Joseph in the Old Testament was empowered by the Holy Spirit to interpret dreams while another person named Bezaleel was empowered with wisdom, skills, and creative genius in building the tabernacle. Likewise, the prophets were guided by the Holy Spirit to see what was happening in history according to God’s perspective.  Tragically, sin has broken into our world and has rendered everyone dead in their sins and completely unable to redeem themselves.

It’s in this tragic state where our Redeemer Jesus arrives and as He is being baptized, the Holy Spirit descends upon him as a bird and empowers Him to bring to life what was formerly dead. Though Jesus is eventually crucified, the Holy Spirit continues to work by raising him from the dead and giving life to his followers. To this day the Holy Spirit is still hovering over dark places, pointing to Jesus, transforming His people, and eventually will finish the job by ushering in a new humanity and a new world full of His love and life-giving Spirit.

Four Principles for Writing a Personal Story

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Bible storytellers share stories written thousands of years ago for others to experience today. But because of their unique phase of life, kids have difficulty seeing how that ancient story impacts their modern life. To make it easier for them, storytellers can use moments from their own life as concrete examples of how the Bible story applies to the everyday world. Your personal story deserve as much care and development as the stories you share from the Bible.

Here are a few things to keep in mind when sharing your personal story:

CHOOSING YOUR STORY

Sometimes we want to tell a story because it’s funny. We somehow think that by telling this edgy part of our life that the kids will think that we’re cool. The story doesn’t quite fit, but we’re willing to look past it because of the cool factor.

It’s easy to fall into this trap: wanting the kids to like us more than we hope the story will connect them to something deeper about God.

Before we start to develop the story, we need to choose the right story. And that starts with checking our motivation and asking ourselves why we want to tell the story in the first place.

If the primary motivation behind wanting to tell that story is more about you than the kids, chances are you need to choose a different story. Make sure the story you choose is the BEST moment from your life to help kids connect with the main point of the message.

WRITING YOUR STORY:

Just as much as storytellers need to memorize and rehearse the Bible story, they should treat their personal story with the same care. Only with a personal story, they aren’t given a script to memorize; storytellers will need to write these out for themselves.

When it comes to writing down these moments for our life, we tend to think we can just wing it because, after all, these moments actually happened to us. Unfortunately, for most people, their brains don’t work that way. Memories fade over time and details might not come into view until you’re telling the story and the brain starts piecing memories back together. Write the story down a couple of weeks before you need it, allowing the brain time to work and recreate the story in your mind.

Take the time to write down exactly how you want to tell this story. This doesn’t mean that you have to memorize it word for word, but writing it down will help you organize your thoughts and remember the details of the story you might otherwise forget.

TIP: The brain awakens when you engage both sides of it. Use pen and paper to handwrite the story to increase your chances of recalling those details and memorizing the story.

EDITING YOUR STORY:

After choosing the right story and writing it down, it’s time for some editing. Read through the story a few times. Then have someone read it back to you. Or record yourself reading it and listen to the playback. Consider how your audience might hear this story.

Consider the topics, the details you include, the words you choose and the length of the story. This may be the PERFECT story to share to connect with your audience, but is how you’ve crafted this story appropriate for your audience?

Not all topics and words are suitable for every audience. Kids have a limited attention span and vocabulary. Edit out the words and details that would be lost on this age group. If you find that you can’t edit out those details and still get to the heart of the story, you’ll most likely need to find another story that will work with that age group.

Keep in mind that your personal story is part of a larger story you’re telling during large group. Consider how long it will take to tell this story and connect it back to the Bible story. Edit the words down to the bare minimum you need to tell the story.

REHEARSING YOUR STORY

Just because the story happened to you doesn’t mean that you tell the story well. Just like any other story you plan to tell on a Sunday morning or Wednesday night, take time to run through how you’re going to tell this story. Pay attention to the pacing and build of the plot line. Tell the story with momentum that carries the audience all the way through to the punch line or heartfelt moment you’re trying to create.

Have someone you trust listen to you share this story and ask them to give you feedback. Take that person’s notes into consideration as you continue preparing.

Remember, you’re taking your audience on a journey. Help them experience your story not just for entertainment or a good laugh. Use your story to help kids connect their story to the bigger truth God is speaking in their life. Help kids see how God still interacts with people today.

Your Turn: Comment below with ideas for how you write and rehearse your personal stories.

For more on the importance of personal narratives in storytelling, check out:

A Storyteller’s Manifesto: my ebook on the power of story and the need to understand the three narratives at play when we tell a Bible story.

This article originally appeared here.

When Freaking Out Is OK

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In October 2014, I visited San Francisco for the first time. The first place I had to go was the corner of Haight and Ashbury streets. This street corner represents the epicenter of the hippie culture of the 1960s, and there was a hippie playing a guitar when I arrived, right on cue.

This is also where the earliest signs of what would be called the Jesus Movement began. A hippie named Ted Wise got saved, and then others joined him. Before long the movement went south, where a man named Chuck Smith and a church called Calvary Chapel exploded. Thousands of youth came to Christ, while at the same time thousands of youth in established churches experienced a new zeal for Jesus. Churches filled with youth groups, and Bill Bright of Campus Crusade for Christ (now Cru) organized an event called Explo ’72 where 80,000 young people came to Dallas, Texas, to learn to share Christ. On the Saturday following the event, some 150,000–180,000 youth gathered for a massive festival featuring Billy Graham, among others.

I was saved in those days. I remember young people who did not have a church background, who didn’t have a lot of theological training—OK, they had none—but who had a passion to tell others about Jesus. We had a name for them:

Jesus Freaks.

A Jesus Freak is someone who loves Jesus more than you do.

It’s time to recapture the spirit of the Jesus Movement, to rekindle a passion for Jesus that spills out of hearts of love for God and others, and brings joy to those around us.

I just wrote a book about sharing Jesus WITHOUT freaking out. But some things should freak us out. Negatively:

–The lostness of the world;

–The rise of the “nones,” those who identify with no religious preference;

–The vast numbers of the next generation we are not reaching and are hardly keeping in our churches.

And positively, some things should freak us out:

–That the God who spoke and made the universe loves us and came to save us!

–That God uses the likes of us for his glory!

–The forgiveness of sins, the grace of God and the inheritance of the saints.

What freaks you out? Let’s be freaking out over things worthy of the sentiment.

This article originally appeared here.

God’s Voice in Our Struggles

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Every true believer understands the pressure of life “under attack.” We are objects of the opposition of an enemy who hates our Savior. Because we are Christ’s prized possession, we are targets of the devil’s animosity. His intention is to “steal, kill and destroy.” He recruits willing subjects who foolishly comply with his evil intentions. The result is persecution, derision and disrespect from an unbelieving world against followers of Jesus. We can’t help but glance at these antagonists. They are an ever-present and growing voice in our society. But we must learn to fix our gaze on the Author of our faith, pleading for Him to speak powerfully to our souls in the midst of the struggle.

Unjust Persecution—Proper Perspective

This was David’s dilemma as he wrote Psalm 35. His emotions bounced back and forth between the injustice and hatred that pounded his soul and the greatness of God, who sustained his very being. He pled with God to contend on his behalf with his hateful enemies. These were malicious antagonists who repaid evil for good. He described them as “wretches” and “profane mockers” who “tore at him” like lions. These persecutors hated David “without a cause.” They devised “words of deceit” against him even though David had previously done good to them. This may sound overly dramatic and intense, but anyone who watches the cultural indicators knows that this will become the experience of modern day Christ-followers in increasing fashion.

David wisely fixed his heart toward the justice and power of God to confront these enemies and bring deliverance. He prayed eagerly for the day when his soul would “rejoice in the Lord” and “exult in His salvation,” praising God publically “in the great congregation.” With great faith he declared, “Great is the Lord, who delights in the welfare of his servant!”

But there is one line in this Psalm that captivated me. David appealed to the Lord with these words: “Say to my soul, ‘I am your salvation!’” What a fascinating statement. David cried out to God to speak plainly, powerfully, personally to his soul in the midst of the pain and perplexity (v. 7). Like David, perhaps today you need to hear the Lord say to your soul, “I am your salvation.” I know I do.

“I am Your Salvation”

As I meditated on this passage, I felt the power of each word of this reassurance David requested. Truly, this is a reassurance you and I need. These are words to cherish, embrace and receive at the deepest level of our soul, especially when the world confronts us and we are in need of our Lord’s deliverance and comfort.

“I am your salvation” – He is the great I AM. He is the Lord of Hosts, YAHWEH, Creator of the heavens and earth, Almighty God. He is eternal, faithful, good, gracious, holy, unchanging, impartial, incomprehensible, infinite, jealous, just, long-suffering, loving, merciful, omnipotent, omnipresent, omniscient, righteous, self-existent, self-sufficient, sovereign, transcendent, truth, unchanging and wise. Much more could be said about His names, His works and His character. We could articulate the glorious names of our ever-sufficient Christ. We could review the names and works of the Holy Spirit. But in this moment, consider the wonder of our glorious triune God reassuring you with these words at the core of your being: “I am your God.”

“I AM your salvation” – Right now, in this moment, He is your God. Yes, He has been your God in the past. He will be your God in the days to come. For all of eternity He will be your all in all. Yes, He was. He will be. But, hear His voice say to you right now, “I am.” Stop. Pause. Receive this truth. “I AM your salvation.” Oh how we need to ask the Lord to say this to our soul today.

“I am YOUR salvation” – Yes, our Lord is the Savior of the world. He has saved millions over the millennia. He saves family members, friends, enemies and strangers. But, in this instant, bask in the truth that He is YOUR salvation. It’s been said that if you were the only person in the world, God still would have sent His son to give His life for you. His work is personal, tender, tailor-made and intentional toward you. He is YOUR salvation. Praise His name!

“I am your SALVATION” – Salvation is the only hope for those who cannot save themselves. We are not our own deliverers. We were not able to save ourselves from the destruction and condemnation of our heinous sin and rebellion against God. Our great God and Savior did for us what we cannot do for ourselves. He delivered us by the power of His cross from the penalty of sin. He is saving us day-by-day from the power of sin. He will someday deliver us from the presence of sin. Right now our Savior rescues us from our self-destructive and self-deceived thoughts and choices. He delivers us from the “lust of the flesh, the lust of the eyes and the deceitful pride of life” (1 John 2:16). He lifts us from discouragement, despondency, depression and despair. He salvages our struggling relationships and horrible mistakes. He liberates us from our painful past, our unbearable present and our anxiety-plagued future. Hallelujah! What a Savior!

Oh Be Careful, Little Ears

As we all walk daily in the crosshairs of a very real and consequential spiritual battle we must tune our ears to the right messages. No doubt the “accuser of the brethren” (Revelation 12:10) will whisper his devious lies. The world will spew its condemnation. Antagonists will dish out demeaning indictments. Secular pundits will announce our inferiority. Friends and family may pound us with discouraging words. Even our own internal conversations might be misguided.

No doubt, the need is critical and prevailing. We must tune our ears to the voice of God above all the destructive noise. With David, let us resolve to cry out to our Lord with deep urgency and anticipation, “Say to my soul, ‘I am your salvation!’”

This article originally appeared here.

5 Ways to Make a Huge Impact on Easter Sunday

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Easter is the Super Bowl of Christianity. More people come to church on Easter than any other day.

More people come to Christ on Easter than any other day. It’s the day we put forth our best effort.

Here are five suggestions for making this your best Easter service ever:

1. Dress up the décor.

Many churches buy Easter lilies for the Easter stage. Here at New Song, we ask a local nursery to donate his overgrown plants.

We’ll group these into a mound of beauty the size of two pick-up trucks. After the final service, we invite our volunteers to take them home.

2. Include a meal.

Easter guests are the hardest to assimilate. Slow them down by offering lunch afterward.

Most moms don’t really want to cook on Easter, so if you can offer them an alternative, they’ll jump on it.

We invite local restaurants and food trucks to set up in our parking lot. Add some tables, chairs and hosts, and you have the makings of a feast and a chance to get to know your guests.

3. Throw a party.

People like to party around the holidays. Provide them one by hiring in jumpies and other inflatables.

For the past three years, we’ve hosted a carnival in our atrium. It includes inflatables and also simple games where kids can win toys.

Add a cotton candy booth, popcorn and some music, and you’ve got a great excuse to invite the neighborhood.

Host this on Saturday, and guests are likely to return for church. Host this immediately before or after your services, and guests are very likely to attend your service.

4. Entice with eggs.

We know the Easter bunny has nothing to do with Jesus, but years ago I did a survey of our pre-Christian neighbors and discovered that they were far more likely to attend Easter services if their kids could participate in an Easter egg hunt there.

Our church doesn’t have a lawn area, so we promise eggs in all our promotions, but skip the hunt. Instead, we hand each child a bag of eggs (with candy enclosed) at the end of their Sunday School class.

The kids go home happy. Which means parents go home happy, too.

5. Teach on location.

Want to really impress the guests? Take a camera to Israel and film part, or all, of your sermon on location.

For a small fee, the folks at the Garden Tomb will let you in after hours. Most historic locations (except The Church of the Holy Sepulcher) will let you film on site.

Last year, I did portions of our Good Friday and Easter messages on location. People are still talking about it.

Simone Biles’ Dance to ‘Good, Good Father’ Is Incredibly Personal and God-Focused

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Simone Biles is best known for her incredible performance at the 2016 Rio Olympics. A rookie Olympian with a small frame and a big heart, she won the respect of her teammates, the praise of the gymnastics community, and five medals to boot.

If you followed the Olympics at all in 2016, you know Team USA was composed of more than a few Christians. Their performances and sportsmanship turned many a head—and even now, one Olympian in particular did it again by bringing Father God into the spotlight on the television show “Dancing With the Stars.”

Recently, Simone Biles channeled her gymnastics prowess into dancing. On Monday April 10, 2017, Biles pulled the competition into the spiritual realm, moving the audience to tears with her deeply personal rendition of a dance set to “Good, Good Father” by Chris Tomlin.

Before we see the beautiful dance Biles performs with her partner, Sasha Farber, we are given a rare glimpse into Biles’ childhood. Succumbing to tears, Biles shares with Farber how she was placed in foster care at the age of three when her mother was unable to take care of her. She says she remembers “always being hungry and afraid.”

When Biles’ grandfather, Ron Biles, heard about his grandchildren being in foster care, he sent for them. Matching his granddaughter’s emotion in his own interview, Ron Biles half-jokes as he recalls telling Simone, “You’re not going to steal my heart,” but then soberly recalling that “she did” anyway. In 2000, when Biles was six years old, her grandparents adopted her. She started calling them mom and dad from that point on.

It’s apparent the parent-child bond is strong between the Biles. At the end of her beautiful dance, Biles breaks away from Farber to run into the embrace of her loving parents.

Biles certainly understands the depth of a child’s need to belong to a family and be provided for, to have a “good, good Father,” so to speak. She has experienced want, but now she is experiencing provision.

As she moves through the dance, her whole body speaks to the understanding of having a father who loves her and takes care of her, both here on earth and also in heaven.

Read more about inspiring Olympians on churchleaders.com.

Christian George: What Charles Spurgeon Has to Say to the Church Today

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Dr. Christian George serves as the curator of the C.H. Spurgeon Library and as assistant professor of historical theology at Midwestern Baptist University. He received his PhD in theology from the University of St. Andrews, Scotland, where he also served for three years as a doctoral tutor. George received his Master of Divinity degree from Beeson Divinity School in Birmingham, Alabama, and his bachelor’s degree from Samford University. George’s book, The Lost Sermons of C.H. Spurgeon, is the product of a discovery George made while working on the thesis for his PhD.

Key Questions:

What can preachers today learn from great preachers of the past, like Spurgeon?

Among so many other voices, why has Spurgeon’s voice endured?

Do you think Spurgeon would be a celebrity pastor if he were alive today?

What advice do you think Spurgeon would give pastors today facing criticism?

Key Quotes:

“You’d be hard-pressed to find any other preacher in the last 500 years who is so Christo-centric.”

“Think much on grace, Christian, think much on grace.”

“I think he’s relevant today because Jesus Christ is relevant today. I think he’s endured because God has not allowed his word to disintegrate.”

“Here’s somebody who doesn’t need, you might say, 140 characters to get the gospel across. His style matches the simplicity of the gospel message.”

“His mind and his heart were particularly anointed for the gospel ministry.”

“In many ways, he was more popular than Queen Victoria and Abraham Lincoln.”

“He once said: ‘Just because a church is large doesn’t mean it’s healthy; it could just mean it’s swollen.’”

“Depression and suffering really marked his ministry, and in many ways it was the secret sauce of his ministry.”

“His whole ministry was forged on the anvil of affliction.”

“After many years of suffering, Spurgeon said ‘The storm has a bit in its mouth.’”

“Isn’t it amazing how social media has a way of wilting our fruit of the spirit.”

“I think he would be encouraged by what he sees in 21st Century protestant evangelicalism in America. I think he would be brokenhearted to see what’s happening in England right now.”

“There are people in our country who are just so excited to see what the dead have to say to the living.”

Mentioned in the Show:

The Lost Sermons of C.H. Spurgeon

8 Practical Ways to Celebrate Easter

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In a little more than one week, believers around the world will celebrate the resurrection of Jesus. Congregations will meet before sunrise to focus on the truth that Jesus is alive. Families will dress in their finest clothes for this special day. Folks who typically don’t attend church will do so this week. As you celebrate Easter this year, think about these practical ways to celebrate the holiday:

  1. Focus on new beginnings. We make new commitments at the start of a new year, but let’s be honest: For many of us, we’ve already given up on those commitments by the time Easter comes around. If ever there were a time to start over, though, it’s Easter. The resurrection is God’s reminder that hope still exists. If you’re already behind in your Bible reading for this year, start again. If you’ve failed in your commitment to pray regularly with your spouse, re-start this week. Walk away from that sin that is controlling you. Start afresh, renewed by God’s resurrection power.
  2. Start Easter family traditions. Many families have Easter lunch together, but I’m thinking of more than that. Read the Easter story on Sunday morning, just as you do the Christmas story. Use old photographs to remember loved ones, and talk about the importance of resurrection hope. Bake Easter cookies for your neighbors. Serve a meal at a homeless shelter. Make holiday memories that your children will want to duplicate in their own families.
  3. Send Easter cards or an Easter letter. We expect cards or family letters at Christmas, but not at Easter. This year, send a resurrection card to everyone on your Christmas card list. If you send an Easter family letter, focus more on Jesus than on your family. Talk about his love, his grace, his forgiveness and his victory over death. Be sure to write about the hope you have in Christ.
  4. Reach out to others who buried a loved one in the past year. Churches usually do well in ministering to grieving families at the time of a death, but that ministry is not always lasting. Eventually, the loving crowds return to busy lives. The holidays are often especially difficult as families find themselves alone. This Easter, call one of those families and pray with them. What better time than Easter is there to celebrate life and look forward to resurrection?
  5. Learn about and pray for a people group who know nothing about Jesus’ resurrection. Missionaries tell us that 2.8 billion people have little access to the gospel. They do not know the name of Jesus, much less the story of his conquering death. Learn about one of these people groups at www.joshuaproject.net, teach your children about them and then pray they will hear the Easter story.
  6. Tell somebody what Jesus means in your life. As Christians, we know we need to be telling the gospel story. Why not tell others during the Easter season? Maybe you can approach someone this way: “I know a lot of folks think about going to church on Easter. May I have five minutes to tell you why this holiday is so important to me?” You might find somebody who has been waiting for some good news!
  7. Write a thank you note to someone who models overcoming faith. Maybe it’s that friend who experienced disaster, but who trusted God through the pain. Perhaps it’s a missionary who has been faithful even when his life was at risk. It might be your church pastor or a Bible study teacher. It may even be your parent or one of your children. Easter is about celebrating victory—so honor God by celebrating what He’s done through someone else’s life.
  8. Don’t give up. I don’t know what you’re facing. You might be discouraged and hurting. The mountain you’re trying to climb is steep, or the valley you find yourself in is deep. Prayer seems useless. Trusting God is tough because the obstacles are so big. Whatever you’re facing, though, is not bigger than the God who defeated death. Don’t give up—the God of resurrection is alive.

In what other practical ways do you or your church celebrate Easter?

This article originally appeared here.

Was Jesus a Liberal or Conservative?

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These are notes from talks given at the U.S. Capitol, Georgetown Law, George Washington University and most recently Georgetown University.

As we begin, I want to say that I’m not a political expert. I am a Christian pastor. This is important because I want to be very clear that my main intent tonight is not to move you to the left or right in your political convictions. My aim is to help all of us grow in our understanding of who Jesus is. In fact, I propose that what we think about Jesus and how we respond to Him is infinitely more important than our political convictions—though they aren’t unrelated.

Also, if I wrongly represent someone’s political views, please know that’s not my intent. None of us like to be pigeonholed, and we all know there’s a vast spectrum between the right and the left. My aim is to be fair in this discussion, so I’ll ask you to be gracious as well. This, I hope, is the beginning of a conversation that could last for the rest of our lives. I desire to grow in my understanding of these topics, and I trust you do as well. We’ll have time at the end for Q & A, so please feel free to take notes and we’ll process together after the talk.

When it comes to politics, religion or pop culture, Jesus is the kind of guy people like to be associated with. Whether it’s Justin Beiber giving Jesus a shout out at the VMAs, or Duck Dynasty guys quoting Jesus in the woods, or politicians doing commercials about their thankfulness for “the evangelicals”—people like to have Jesus on their side.

Some political or social liberals suggest that if Jesus were on the earth today, He’d be dressed in denim work clothes, teaching and modeling equality, inclusion and tolerance. After all, He’s the One who said we should “turn the other cheek” (Mt. 5:38) and “judge not lest you be judged” (Mt. 7:1-5). They suggest that because Jesus healed the sick (Mt. 12:15) and taught us to help “the least of these” (Mt. 25:40) that He’ call for free universal healthcare. They say that if He were here today He’d propose higher taxes on the rich so the poor could follow their dreams (Mt.19:21).

At the same time, some political or social conservatives have long claimed to be the ones who really know Jesus. They maintain that if He lived today, He’d be at their rallies giving orders to flip the tables of Planned Parenthood (Mt. 21:12) and calling for the government to quit oppressing people’s morality and pocketbooks. He’d be speaking out about border control (Mt. 10:5) and traditional marriage (Mt. 19:1-6) and the rights of the unborn (Mk. 12:3).

These camps often oppose each other; and both think they are right. A CNN article titled “Do you believe in a Red State Jesus or a Blue State Jesus? rightly said that after the election “somebody somewhere in America will fall on their knees and pray, ‘Thank you, Jesus.’ And somebody somewhere else will moan, ‘Help us, Jesus.’”

So what do you think? Would Jesus be red or blue? Would He be setting up a soup kitchen or shouting at the religious hypocrites? Was Jesus a liberal or a conservative?

To help us answer this, we’ll spend the rest of our time exploring three topics that Jesus taught about that are relevant in political discussions today. We’ll consider what Jesus taught about taxes, what He taught about the rich and the poor, and what He taught about human flourishing.

#1 – What did Jesus teach about taxes?

In the Gospel of Matthew 22:15-22, Jesus was confronted by the Pharisees (religious conservatives of His day) about whether or not people should pay taxes to Caesar, the Roman emperor. Jesus asked them to bring him a coin and asked, “Whose [inscription] is on it?” They said “Caesar,” to which Jesus famously replied, “Render to Caesar the things that are Caesar’s and render to God the things that are God’s.”

What He meant by that is, because Caesar is King give him what is due him, namely taxes. Now, when Jesus says pay your taxes, He’s not talking about giving money to a government that you might fear will squander it. Rather, He’s talking about giving money to one of the most cruel and perverse government systems in the history of the world. Rome was ruthlessly oppressive to everyone under their authority.

Why would Jesus say to pay taxes to them? Because Jesus recognized government is a God-ordained institution set up to maintain order and uphold justice and righteousness in a fallen world (Gen. 9:6). Every government, good or bad, is part of God’s design, and we are to honor God by paying the taxes they require (Rom 13:1-7).

Would Jesus increase taxes on the rich or decrease taxes on the middle-class? Liberals and conservatives have their opinions, but Jesus doesn’t say. But He does say give to Cesar what is Cesar’s—and give to God what is God’s.

And here we see the masterfulness of Jesus’ teachings. He never avoided relevant social topics, but He used those discussions to point us in a different direction. While He speaks to the crowd about honoring the government, He teaches them about honoring God. God created each of us and we owe Him our love, obedience and worship. Jesus’ teaching on taxes ultimately points us to our need to give to God the worship and obedience that He deserves from us. Jesus challenged both liberals and conservatives give honor to whom honor is due, supremely God.

#2 – What did Jesus teach about the rich and the poor?

Jesus was known for His remarkable compassion toward the poor and oppressed. At the same time, He fearlessly ministered among the wealthy and powerful. And we can learn from His interactions with both groups.

In the Gospel of John ch. 5 we find Jesus making a stop by a pool in Jerusalem. This wasn’t a pool like you’d find at the Marriott, instead, this pool was a hangout for the marginalized who were blind, paralyzed and poor.

In the story, Jesus walked over to a lame man and asked, “Do you want to be healed?” The man replied that he had no one to help him, to which Jesus responded by telling him to take up his mat and walk. And the man, who had been crippled for 38 years, stood up and walked. Jesus healed him. Let’s make three observations about this story.

First, Jesus was aware of this man’s distress. This pool wasn’t in a part of town most of religious or political leaders frequented. But Jesus was there. He sought out this man and used His power to do alleviate this man’s physical distress. This kind of practical, compassionate love for broken people characterized everything Jesus did.

Second, Jesus didn’t heal everyone at the pool. Many left that day no different than when they arrived. Could Jesus have healed them all? Yes. Then why didn’t He? We don’t know. Jesus regularly left places where people needed to be healed to minister elsewhere. Was He being cruel? No, that would miss the point. Jesus’ miracles certainly aimed to help people, but they had a deeper meaning—to prove He was God’s Son who had the authority to forgive sins.

Third, Jesus taught the formerly lame man about his greatest need. “Afterward Jesus found him in the temple and said to him, ‘See, you are well! Sin no more, that nothing worse may happen to you.’” Jesus called this man to rightly consider his needs. His greatest need wasn’t a healed body, but the forgivness of his sin. Unless he repented, the physical relief he received that day would be of little consolation on the Day of Judgment.

Jesus cared about the poor and He calls His followers to do the same (Lk. 14:12-14). But physical help was given along with spiritual help. Jesus cared about relieving people’s physical suffering, but even more so He cared about relieving the eternal suffering they would face apart from His grace. And this lesson wasn’t just for the poor.

In Matthew 19:21, Jesus speaks to a man known as a rich young ruler. (This guy is everything we all desire to be. He’s rich, young, powerful.) He said to him, “If you would be perfect, go, sell what you possess and give to the poor, and you will have treasure in heaven; and come, follow me.”

Jesus knew this man’s heart and was keenly aware that this rich man loved his money more than God. So, Jesus told him that if was going to follow Him, he needed to surrender his love for material things so that he could gain the things of eternity. In essence, Jesus had the same message for the rich man as He did for the poor man: Allow your physical situation to awaken you to the reality that a final day of judgment is coming.

Does Jesus teach that we should help the poor and relieve their suffering? Yes! We should be generous with what we have. But as we see in our second example, Jesus challenged both the rich and the poor to not value physical or financial security at the cost of forgetting that having their sins forgiven by Jesus is our greatest need.

#3 – What did Jesus teach about human flourishing?

Our desire for fullness of life is at the heart of our culture’s conversations about the plight of fleeing refugees, the rights of women and the rights of unborn children in their womb. It is behind the call for marriage equality, and the cries for healing the racial brokenness all around us.

When politicians and educators address this topic, the focus is often on economic development, or opportunity equality, or maybe personal autonomy that gives us the right to do whatever we want without anyone telling us we are wrong. But what would Jesus say about human flourishing?

As with just about everything, Jesus came at the topic in a way we wouldn’t expect. Jesus knows all of these felt needs, but does not see them first as physical issues, but as spiritual ones. Jesus taught that true human flourishing is impossible apart from a relationship with Him. Why? Because each of us, regardless of our political leanings or cultural upbringings, are naturally alienated from God in our sin. But this is what Jesus came to save us from.

Listen to just a few of His words. In John 10:10 He said, “The thief [devil] comes only to steal and kill and destroy. I came that they may have life and have it abundantly.” Then later in John 15.10–11″ data-version=”esv” data-purpose=”bible-reference”>John 15:10–11 He said, “If you keep My commandments, you will abide in My love… These things I have spoken to you, that My joy may be in you, and that your joy may be full.” Abundant life. Full joy. It is only through Jesus that we understand true human flourishing.

In Mark 8.34–35″ data-version=”esv” data-purpose=”bible-reference”>Mark 8:34–35 Jesus made this even more clear: “Calling the crowd to Him with His disciples, He said to them, ‘If anyone would come after Me, let him deny himself and take up his cross and follow Me. For whoever would save his life will lose it, but whoever loses his life for My sake and the gospel’s will save it.’”

What Jesus is saying is that the quest for human flourishing, and everything else in life, must be understood and submitted to His Lordship. Human flourishing is not “I get to do what I want to do,” but rather that we get to find joy, find life, find abundant life in being freed from our sin and rightly related to God and to other people.

The way we relate to each other does not begin with our own opinions or our own desires. Rather, Jesus says that it must be filtered through and submitted to His Lordship. Jesus is King, and because of that, all His people surrender their agendas at the door. In our church we have some who will vote for Hillary, some who will vote for Trump, some who will write-in, and some who won’t vote at all. Among them, there are obviously political differences, but they love each other, and show honor toward each other. This was the same among Jesus’ disciples in His day.

It’s safe to assume that Simon (the zealot) and Matthew (the tax collector) had different political views. Both were called to follow Jesus, and both faithfully did so. How does that happen? Because Jesus’ followers know He is greater than our political differences, no matter how important they may be. And it is through relationship with Christ that we can rightly grow to learn from each other, as His teachings guide us.

In fact, I will say on a personal note that years ago, I could never have imagined how a Christian could vote for someone from a particular political party. But through conversations with brothers and sisters in Christ who are different than me, I have grown to see how they seek to honor Jesus with their lives and it has been helpful for me.

What is my conclusion about whether Jesus was a liberal or conservative? As you can imagine, trying to answer this question is like nailing Jell-o to the wall…but here’s my attempt. In one sense Jesus was neither liberal nor conservative, and in another sense Jesus was both liberal and conservative.

Jesus was neither liberal nor conservative in the way that we define them because He came proclaiming a higher reality—the kingdom of God. In John 18:36 Jesus said, “My kingdom is not of this world…for this purpose I was born and for this purpose I have come into the world—to bear witness to the truth. Everyone who is of the truth listens to My voice.” Jesus came to orient us all not toward the right or the left, but first and foremost toward heaven.

Jesus didn’t avoid political conversations; but rather, He filtered discussions about politics (and everything else) through His commitment to honoring God the Father. By understanding this, we avoid the dangerous position that Jesus was just a moral teacher like Gandhi, Buddha or Mother Teresa, whose instruction ought be weighed as one opinion among many. We also avoid the dangerous practice of using Jesus as a poster boy for our personal agendas. When we do this, we risk taking His Name in vain and remaking Him into a god after our own image.

Jesus’ teachings exposed the sin in the hearts of everyone He encountered, regardless of which way they leaned politically or where they stood socially. He didn’t care if a free market system said it was OK to have money changers selling marked up animals in the temple, Jesus flipped their tables because it dishonored God.

Jesus came as light, shining into everyone’s darkness, regardless of who they aligned with. In fact, Jesus’ unwillingness to side with the right or the left got Him into a lot of trouble. The two religious powers in Judaism in His day were the Pharisees (ultra-conservatives) and the Sadducees (ultra-liberals). These two groups hated each other and never found common ground about anything—except that they hated Jesus. The only thing they could agree on was that they opposed Jesus and wanted to dismiss Him, and ultimately kill Him. Liberals and conservatives both opposed Jesus because He didn’t come to further their purposes. He came to call them both to repent, believe in Him and submit to His reign as the King of Kings and Lord of Lords. And that didn’t sit well with either side.

But Jesus didn’t just come to mess with them, He came to mess with you as well. I wonder, does Jesus make you uncomfortable by the way He calls you to turn away from your idols of comfort and enter into the lives of people who are unlike you? To touch the hand of a forgotten leper. To minister to a paralyzed man who reeks of urine. To sit down for a meal with someone of a different ethnicity or different political conviction than you to learn about their fears and hopes. I wonder how Jesus’ teaching affects you here?

Or maybe you’re made uncomfortable with some of Jesus’ commands? Perhaps you appreciate his sensitivity to the lowly, but some of His teachings make you uncomfortable, so you try to pick and choose. You like that He says “don’t judge” but dislike the whole context that instructs you to repent of your hypocrisy so that proper judgment can occur (Mt. 7:1-6). Or maybe you like how He included people from any and all backgrounds, not to affirm their lifestyles, but rather to alter them according to His will.

Naturally we all have issues with Jesus. My guess is that if Jesus and His teachings haven’t offended you at some point, then you’ve never really listened to what He has to say. Jesus was neither liberal, nor conservative.

Jesus was both liberal and conservative. If we were to sift through Jesus’ teachings, we’d certainly see ideals which both conservatives and liberals heartily affirm. While we all have many differences, there are many things we agree upon. We all, regardless of our political affiliation, value mercy. We all want to see an unbiased love of compassion, inclusion and care for the oppressed—though we’d differ on how that should be carried out. Jesus proclaimed and embodied these characteristics of mercy.

In the same way, we all, regardless of our differences, want to see justice upheld. We want to see the guilty punished, we want to see oppressed defended, we want to see the right thing done for ourselves and for those whom we care about. There is no way we can read the life of Christ and not see justice clearly displayed.

In fact, I would suggest that Jesus is the only person who ever was truly merciful and truly just at the same time. And this fact is at the heart of what Jesus came to teach and to perform. Jesus didn’t come to set up a political system or further partisan cause. He came to deal with ultimate issues. He came to deal with our hearts and our standing with God. He came to teach us about our eternal destiny.

This is the message that Christ proclaimed. He taught that all of us are made in God’s image. That’s why we all desire good things like mercy and justice and love and truth. God made us to reflect Him in that sense. The problem is that while good is reflected in us, we are all completely corrupted by sin. Whether we vote red or blue (or somewhere in between), whether our skin is black or white (or somewhere in between), whether we are rich or poor (or somewhere in between)…all of us have sinned against God and against other people.

When we die, we will be judged for all we have done. All the times we haven’t been just and haven’t been merciful. All the times we hated people who disagreed with us. We are all condemned before God, and because He is good, he will bring unfiltered, unreserved wrath on all who have sinned.

But, because God is merciful and He desires none to perish, but for all to know Him and experience His love, He sent Jesus to teach us how to be made right with Him. This is why Jesus came, to seek and save the lost—liberal and conservative alike. The Bible tells us that Jesus willingly became a human being, lived a perfect life without sin, and then willingly laid down His life on the cross so that God’s wrath might be poured out on Him. He then rose from the dead, and God now calls all people to turn from their sins and believe in Him so they will be forgiven. That is the message of Jesus and that is the message of Christianity.

So was Jesus a liberal or conservative? I’d say He is the foundation for all the good that both those camps affirm. I’d also say that both camps, and everyone in between, should hear the greater message of Christ, which is to believe in Him, have their sins forgiven and live in light of the life that is to come.

America is not the hope of the world. Government is not the hope of the world. Presidents, Kings and Princes are not the hope of this world. Jesus is the only hope for this world, and the only hope for you and me.

This article originally appeared here.

7 Signs What’s Driving You Is Beginning to Destroy You

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There are a thousand fine lines in leadership.

Perhaps the most subtle and dangerous line is the fine line between what drives you and what destroys you.

Being driven is not an inherently bad thing. In fact, leveraged well, it’s a huge leadership asset.

You get things done, mobilize people around great causes and make things happen.

Driven leaders are often the ones who create something out of nothing, who make things better and who move the mission forward.

So what drives driven leaders?

Well, hang out with driven leaders long enough and you’ll discover this common thread: discontent with the status quo.

Discontent is actually a good thing. It makes you a change agent in a world where most people avoid change.

But the discontent that drives leaders is a double-edged sword.

No one I know of has talked about the good side of discontent better than Bill Hybels did in his Holy Discontent talk (which is also a book). That talk is one of the most memorable leadership talks I’ve ever heard.

Holy discontent is from God.

It drives you to:

Push on relentlessly toward progress.

Work tirelessly for a better day.

Trust beyond yourself.

Resist injustice.

Demand better.

Lead people to a preferred vision of a better future.

Not quit.

And if you’re like me, you’ve always got some level of discontent burning under the surface.

It’s hard to sit still. Even when you’re off, your brain is still on.

But discontent has a shadow side.

It can move from a good force that’s driving you to a place where it starts to destroy you, and, if you’re not careful, the others around you.

There’s one thing every driven leader has to watch, and it’s this: Don’t let the discontent that drives you become the discontent that destroys you.

So what are the signs that what’s driving you is beginning to destroy you? Well, here are seven. Discontent become destructive when it:

1. Stops You From Celebrating

Any driven leader knows how hard it is to celebrate. When you cross the line and your drive begins to destroy you, it feels like this: You think it was amazing, but you can’t stop wondering what would have made it more amazing.

You can’t mark the progress you’ve made because you only see the progress you haven’t made.

And that kills your team.

To make it worse, you even stop celebrating God’s faithfulness and instead substitute the celebration of your progress.

Don’t miss the progress you’ve made because you can only see the progress you haven’t made.

2. Kills Your Gratitude

You begin to only think about what could be better. Gratitude decreases as discontent increases.

Not only will ingratitude make you miserable; it’s ultimately demotivating to the people around you.

If you want to defeat your team, be ungrateful.

3. Invades Too Many Aspects of Your Life

I can try to improve everything and everyone, including my wife and other people I meet.

This is not good for anyone. (Enough said.)

If discontent takes over your life, you won’t have much of a life.

4. Makes You the Negative Voice at the Table

I have to catch myself during evaluation sessions (we do weekly evaluations on our services) because I will find the 1.2 things that went wrong and miss the 98.8 things that went right.

You shouldn’t miss the 1.2 things. But you shouldn’t dwell on them either.

When you only see what’s wrong and rarely see what’s right, you deflate the people around you.

5. Gets You Off a Project You Should Still Be On

When discontent becomes too pervasive, it can stop you from finishing projects you started because you become discontent with…well even the solution you should still be working on.

Serial discontent will make you start things you never finish. And that’s a problem for everyone.

6. Makes You Arrogant

If I let discontent get too much real estate in my life, it shows up as arrogance.

Nothing’s ever good enough.

I’m always right.

We need to do more…now.

Arrogance is only attractive to the arrogant.

7. Disables Hope

We leaders are dealers in hope. Hope is such a rare commodity.

When discontent becomes toxic, your future becomes about what’s wrong, not about what’s right.

Unhealthy discontent disables hope, and hope is the greatest motivator your team has.

What Do You See?

When any of these things start to happen, I consider it a warning sign that my discontent is moving from a place where it drives me to a place where it might harm myself or others.

What other warning signs do you see that the discontent that drives you is starting to destroy you?

How have you seen discontent hurt you or people you care about?

This article originally appeared here.

Why Too Much Comfort Is Dangerous

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When winter comes, I have a love-hate relationship with the indoors. Baby it’s cold outside. But I know that if I sit around the fireplace too long, claustrophobia will set in.

God had to call me out from the comfort of a world I could control before I could hear his call to walk in the mystery of sonship.

I spent five years dying before I began to learn how to live. I was fired from the organization I helped start, Karen was pregnant with Leah, and we had no insurance.

I could have missed the plot and seen myself as a victim. But God was taking me through a process as old as mankind. It began with Adam having to leave a place of comfort – out of the garden.

We need it 

It’s a process that’s universal. Every adolescent boy needs to be initiated from the carefree world of childhood into the rough-and-tumble world of men. They have to go out to go in. One reason for our current crisis of masculinity is our fear of the pain of initiation.

We need to leave the place of comfort and join God on a journey. We need a shift of relationships, a shift of perceptions, a shift of loyalties. It doesn’t happen naturally; it has to be forced. The red pill has to be swallowed, the pain of transformation endured.

Boys love the comfort of a mother, but as they get older, their development requires proximity to the hard edges of a father if ever they are to venture out into the dangerous places that need their courage.

This tension begins with God the Father; it’s a gift that he gives to his children. God is an inside guy who lives in the wild places outside. Inside his kingdom is life everlasting. There’s a perpetual party going on just inside the gates.

An invitation to join him

He has extended us an invitation to join him inside. It’s a place of celebration and comfort (check out Matt. 22). We get to hang out with the poor in spirit there – those shunted to the side by a society that is moving too fast.

The problem is that you have to leave your place to get to his. And that’s dangerous. Leaving the place of comfort for an unknown land feels dangerous. But, if we are to be made dangerous to the enemy, we must experience danger.

Like the children of Israel, you have to go out to go in.

Whenever God has looked for a leader to bring his people back, he always takes that leader out before he brings him in.

Abraham had to go out from Ur.

Moses spent the best years of his life in the wilderness.

Joseph had to go out from his family.

Paul had to go out to Arabia.

Even Jesus had to go out, leaving his father’s side to bring us in.

When Jesus wanted to bring his disciples in, he had to call them out.

And always when he ran across someone who wanted to know the price of admission to come in, Jesus’ response was that they had to go out to go in. The rich young ruler had to sell his belongings and leave his easy lifestyle. Whatever the things that represented a current comfort zone, they had to stay behind.

Too much comfort is dangerous

We live in a nation of uninitiated Christians raised in a land of comfort. “Let me go and bury my father,” we say. “Let me be a revolutionary on the cheap. Let me keep a foot in both camps.”

But Jesus didn’t give margin for that. Too much comfort is dangerous. He left the bet-hedgers and half-steppers behind. His method was to kill your old self before he gave you a new self. Death had to come before life.

There’s no reversing the order, no escaping the desert. The ego props and security blankets have to go. Part way out is not an option. “Put off the old self,” we’re told.

The old self carries with it the baggage of limited resources, limited possibilities, and a limited worldview.

To enter an expansive place like that you’ve got to leave the land of small closets and empty wallets behind. These have no place in a kingdom without limits.

Maybe you’ve been inside too long. God is always preparing a journey out for us. He loves to whisper to us about it if we’ll listen. The message is, “There’s more for you. You were not made for this place. Come away with me and let me reveal my kingdom to you.”

Getting there will cost you and feel dangerous, but how dangerous is it to live in fear? I want to listen to that whisper and risk my comfortable ways to find the treasure that is his kingdom. How about you?

This article originally appeared here.

How to Shepherd Your Family through Ministry Turmoil

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There is a principle about serving in vocational ministry that is as true as the existence of gravity. Ministry is… (church drum roll please)… hard!

This doesn’t mean that the difficulty of ministry is never co-mingled with seasons of comfort and joy, but continually interacting with human sinfulness and crucifying one’s own sinfulness at the same time is not for the faint of heart. There is also a specific group of people within the church that deals with the hard seasons of a pastor’s ministry in a unique way, and that is the pastor’s family.

The potentially harmful impact of ministry upon one’s family should concern every pastor, and the following video discussion among three pastors offers timely wisdom in helping families navigate the hard seasons of church life. In the video published by The Gospel Coalition, pastors Vermon Pierre, Mike Bullmore, and Ryan Kelly discuss this issue. Each pastor is unique in his season of ministry as well as the makeup of his family.

What are these principles to remember as pastors guide their families through ministry turmoil?

• Openly acknowledge the season of turmoil.

• Think through what information to share in terms of age appropriateness.

• Discern what is helpful or unhelpful to share with your spouse.

• Be intentional about shepherding your family and allowing them to see your dependence on the Lord. Show godliness under fire.

• Protect an attitude of warmth and love toward the church.

• Maintain the home as a place of solace and rest for your children.

• Remind your family to not be surprised at hard times and that the church is the Lord’s, not yours.

In a Culture Wary of Fake News, ‘The Case for Christ’ Rings True

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The Case for Christ movie is doing very well in the box office—so well it is expanding to 500 more screens in time for Easter weekend.

Something about the plot is resonating with American audiences, something about searching for truth in an objective way and finding not only validity in the claims of Christ and his followers, but also salvation for the seeker. This is the stuff of great movies—and the timing could not be more perfect. After an election year that saw the astronomical rise of fake news, among other nefarious activity even the American church could not disentangle itself from, the country is ready for some objective truth.

According to the movie’s website, it has received an A+ rating from CinemaScore—an accomplishment only two movies a year, on average, achieve. Additionally, it received an 83 percent approval rating on Rotten Tomatoes (quite the feat if you are familiar with that site).

This is rare success considering the movie not only has a Christian theme, but was also produced by a Christian filmmaking company. Other movies, such as the well-received Silence, may boast a Christian theme, but were produced by secular companies with mostly non-Christian producers and actors. Compared to other Christian-themed, Christian-produced films like The Resurrection of Gavin Stone, which has only grossed $2.3 million since its release in February, The Case for Christ is doing much better at $4 million after less than a week at the box office.

Lee Strobel, the author of The Case for Christ book that inspires the movie, says the plot speaks to a “post-truth” culture. In an interview with Christian Post, Strobel shares:

“We are living in a post-truth era, where people are searching for solid ground, they’re looking for something to say this is true, I can rely on this. Christianity claims to be true. It says it’s not wishful thinking or make-believe or legends or mythology, but it’s based on actual historical evidence. And I think these days young people especially are looking for something solid like that to put their trust in.”

The plot of the movie shares Strobel’s personal story as an atheist journalist searching for the truth about Jesus after his wife becomes a Christian. Strobel’s character, played by Mike Vogel, interviews expert after expert about the resurrection of Christ and the credibility of Scripture. The plot also addresses the tension of trying to make a marriage work when the two parties have differing beliefs.

In the interview, Strobel sounds more like an evangelist trying to help young people, especially, reach their skeptical peers who are tired of hearing rote lines from the church and are searching for truth and genuine relationship. “I think in this culture we, as Christians, should probably do more listening than talking,” he advises. “Emphasize valuing people, having no strings attached relationships through where we can have an honest discussion about what we believe and why we believe it.”

Strobel’s hope is that atheists will see the film and honestly consider the evidence.

This Easter weekend, 500 additional theaters will be showing the film. According to Strobel, “the Gospel message is crystal clear in this film.” May the people who go to see it this weekend come to know the truth about Christ and his resurrection.

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