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6 Reasons Our Discipleship Strategies Miss the Mark

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If your church is like mine, your mission or vision or purpose probably includes some aspect of the Great Commission. Many of us have even gone a step further and proclaimed that we are in the business of making disciples and we’ll know we are succeeding when we make some amount of more and better disciples. So . . . if we’re all trying to hit the same target, why are so many of our discipleship strategies missing the mark?

Any theories about why our discipleship strategies are off target? I have a few and before you think I believe I have it all together, I’m actually guilty of a few of these myself!

6 Reasons our Discipleship Strategies Miss the Mark

1. We don’t actually have a strategy.

We really have more of a theology of wishful thinking. We spend time planning everything from our weekend services and special events to staff retreats and the updated vacation policy, but we don’t get around to developing a discipleship strategy. In the place of a strategy, we are hopeful. I love this line from Winston Churchill. “However beautiful the strategy, you should occasionally look at the results.” If you don’t like your results, change the strategy. See also, 5 Signs You May Have a Bad Disciple-Making Strategy.

2. We don’t have a viable strategy.

We don’t acknowledge the connection between results and design. We are the definition of insane and often do the same things over and over again, expecting a different result. We’ve never stopped to ask, “What would have to be true for that approach to work?” See also, 5 Signs Your Ministry Design Is Inadequate and Great Question: What Would Have to Be True?

3. We have an outdated strategy.

We do have a strategy, but it’s designed for an entirely different era. Although virtually everything is different (pace of life, attention spans, biblical literacy, etc.), we are using a strategy that was tailor made for inhabitants of the 20th century (or earlier). Ed Stetzer has pointed this out saying, “If the 1950s came back, many churches are ready.” See also, 3 Steps to Take When the Flux Capacitor Fails.

5 Qualities of Great Musicians

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What makes music powerful? What are the qualities of great musicians, that make for engaging and powerful worship? Because it’s obvious that some have it and others don’t. When certain musicians take hold of their instrument, magic happens. Still others who may have more experience or taken lessons longer, don’t have it. Think about it—how many times have you heard someone who’s taken lessons for many years only to find out they weren’t very good? So if lessons aren’t the key, experience isn’t the answer, and time isn’t the x factor—what is it that makes the qualities of great musicians?

Qualities of Great Musicians – Why I Want to Be the Best I Can Be

I’m not discounting the value of lessons, experience and practice time—all of these contribute to what makes a good musician. But I do want to talk about the qualities of great musicians, some more obscure things that make a unique, memorable, powerful, engaging musician. I’m assuming that’s what you want to be, right?

  • I want to be the best musician I can be so that when the Holy Spirit decides to use me, I am ready for anything He wants to do.
  • I want to be the best musician I can be so that when I preach the Gospel on my instrument, it is a worthy accompaniment.
  • I want to be the best musician I can be so that the music I make moves people, inspires others and draws them closer to Jesus.

Are you with me?

5 Qualities of Great Musicians

1. Great Musicians Are Thoughtful

I’m not talking about “thoughtful” in the sense of getting roses for their spouse (although that is super great). I’m talking about being thoughtful of their lives. Powerful musicians think deeply. They are reflective about what they believe in and what moves them to their core. This is then reflected in their playing.

It’s never just mechanics or rapid finger movement on their instrument. It’s an expression from deep within. They think, they believe, they feel, they express. Obviously, this would apply to a Jesus-loving musician as well as a “secular” musician. They express their deep beliefs in their playing. It’s an expression of who they are.

2. Great Musicians Are Aware

You would think that the best musicians zone in and get lost in their own world to create great music. But the truth is, the best musicians are aware of what is going on in the room. They notice who is there, what is happening, and “speak” into the situation, in a sense. For the Christian musician, that is noticing what God is up to in the room and interpreting that through their instrument.

Fostering Community: Group Activities for Children’s Ministry

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Fostering community within your children’s ministry and church is like planting seeds in a garden. With loving care, attention, and welcoming activities, faith flourishes while friendships bloom. While fostering community among kids, parents, and guests, you nurture an environment where everyone learns and grows.

Let’s explore fun, engaging group activities for kids. These children’s community building ideas will cultivate church fellowship for blossoming learners.

Fostering Community: Group Ideas for Kids

Here are 8 suggestions for nurturing a caring, supportive community at your church.

1. Community Outreach Events

Organize events that bring together families from the church and surrounding community. Family movie night, a carnival or festival, and potluck meals are all popular for church fellowship. These events provide opportunities for children to build relationships with peers and families. Plus, they also strengthen bonds of fellowship within the church community.

2. Service Projects

Giving back is perfect for children’s community building and faith growth. Kids can collect canned goods for a food pantry, make cards for nursing home residents, or clean up a local park. Serving others fosters empathy. And it helps children learn to follow Jesus’ example of selflessness.

3. Bible Activities

Nurture your children’s community in faith through interactive learning. For example, form teams and have kids race to different parts of a Bible story. Team members take turns running to a designated spot, where they find part of the story written on a card. They must remember and recite that part of the story before passing the baton to the next teammate. This activity promotes teamwork while reinforcing the importance of knowing and sharing God’s Word.

4. Community Talent Show

Host a talent show so children can showcase their God-given gifts. Whether through singing, dancing, reciting poetry, or performing skits, kids love opportunities to shine and express themselves. A talent show that honors all participants builds children’s confidence in a supportive environment.

5. Outdoor Adventure Day

Invite children and families to spend time outdoors connecting with God’s creation and each other. Host a Field Day with games and a picnic afterward. Older kids might enjoy sprucing up their kidmin area during a workday at church.

Prayer Topics for Youth Ministry: Resources for Leaders, Teens & Parents

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Need prayer topics for youth ministry and parenting? For most youth ministers and parents of teens, the prayer request list is often long. Kids themselves also may have many topics to discuss with God. But what if you’re stuck about what to pray for?

The good news is that even when we come up short, God’s Holy Spirit helps us intercede. (See Romans 8:26-27.) More good news? God listens to and answers every prayer.

Common prayer topics for youth ministry and for people who raise and work with teens are wide-reaching. They include faith growth, health, safety, Godly friends, and future plans. Kids bring to God their pain, doubt, confusion, and grief. Specific prayer requests may focus on needs of family members and friends, plus local and world events.

Of course, prayer is also for thanking and praising God. So remind teens about the gratitude aspect of praying, too.

Prayer Topics for Youth Ministry: 12 Resources

We’ve gathered a dozen resources to help church leaders, parents, and teens pray. Here are topical ideas to use, adapt, and share!

1. Pray Through Scripture

First things first: Basing prayers on Bible verses is always a great approach. Check out all these examples that are ideal for young people.

2. Prayer Tips and Topics

As Dennis and Barbara Rainey write, “God loves what we call the Prayer of the Helpless Parent.”

3. Ways to Pray

This site offers seven suggestions for prayer—one for each day of the week.

4. Interceding for Teens

Next up, these resources are ideal for Christian parents who want to lift up their teens to God.

5. When Teens Rebel

Parents will appreciate these 15 ideas for praying for a rebellious teenager.

6. Follow the Bible’s Lead

If you can’t think of things to pray for, turn to Scripture for sample prayers.

7. Prayers for Teen Girls

Teen girls can use prayer for specific areas. See all these helpful suggestions.

8. Prayers for Teen Boys

These ideas are geared toward young men and their challenges and needs.

FBI Assisting With Investigation Into Mica Miller’s Death; SC Pastor Tried To ‘Raise Her From the Dead’

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The Robeson County Sheriff’s Office shared earlier this week that it has requested the assistance of the United States Attorney’s Office and the Federal Bureau of Investigation (FBI) on the investigation into Mica Miller’s death, which authorities determined to be a suicide.

“The Robeson County Sheriff’s Office has been in contact with the United States Attorney’s Office and Federal Bureau of Investigation in South Carolina since the early stages of the Mica Miller investigation,” the Sheriff’s Office said. “Based on the information gathered during the investigation and jurisdiction reasons, the Sheriff’s Office has requested the assistance of both agencies. No other information will be released at this time.”

Mica (30) was the wife of John-Paul Miller (44), the founding pastor of Solid Rock at Market Common church in Myrtle Beach, South Carolina.

RELATED: SC Pastor Uses Service To Tell Church His Wife Died by Suicide; Family Says She Filed for a No Contact Order and Divorce

On April 28, a day after his wife was found dead at Lumber River State Park in North Carolina, Miller made the shocking announcement at the conclusion of his Sunday sermon that Mica had died by suicide.

“We’re not going to do altar call today,” Miller told the congregation. “Instead, I’m going to have you stand up and I’m going to make an announcement. And after the announcement I’m going to ask that you leave church quietly and don’t talk about the announcement here in the building.”

In the time since Miller made the announcement, Mica’s family and friends have been using social media to question why Mica would have taken her own life and have been disclosing information about the pastor’s character and the couple’s marriage. They even started the hashtag #justiceformica, which has gone viral.

In the days to follow, Miller told The Christian Post that Mica had been diagnosed with “bipolar II, schizophrenic and dependent personality disorder.”

Mica and Miller were married in 2017, when Mica was 21, after an adulterous affair with each other. Miller performed the wedding ceremony for Mica’s first marriage.

RELATED: ‘If I End Up With a Bullet in My Head…It Was [the Pastor]’—Mica Miller’s Siblings Submit Troubling Affidavits

After Mica’s death, it was revealed that she had filed for divorce and had a no contact order against her husband. Less than 48 hours later, investigators said she took her own life.

Last week, Miller’s lawyer released a statement threatening to sue anyone spreading “falsehoods” about Miller, including allegations that he groomed Mica when she was a minor and abused her during their marriage.

Taylor Swift-Themed Services Attract Young People to German Church

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In a historic German city, a historic church initially “built for Gregorian liturgical music” was filled with more modern sounds last Sunday. At Heidelberg’s 600-year-old Church of the Holy Spirit on May 12, more than 1,200 worshipers attended two events billed as “Anti-Hero: Taylor Swift Church Service.”

The U.S. pop star, currently on tour in Europe, wasn’t in the building. But a singer and band performed six of Swift’s hits, and pastors quoted other lyrics in the liturgy and message.

RELATED: ‘Lyrics Matter’—Evangelist Shane Pruitt Sounds the Alarm on Taylor Swift’s New Album

The worship services, which skewed younger and more female than usual, were filled with emotion, dancing, and applause. Behind the band, a rainbow-colored banner welcomed an inclusive list of people to the church, which was built starting in 1398.

Taylor Swift Church Service Encourages ‘Encounter and Exchange’

The Church of the Holy Spirit, which attracts millions of tourists every year, launched a “City Church Rock ’n’ Pop” worship series in 2015. Faced with plummeting church-attendance rates in Germany, Pastor Christof Ellsiepen said faith leaders are “giving space to the questions and issues that occupy the younger generations.”

Next month, the Church of the Holy Spirit is hosting a street dance service and a “Church Battle” dance competition.

Swift’s lyrical expression of Christian beliefs makes her music a good fit for the historic church, according to Pastor Ellsiepen. It “has always been a place of encounter and exchange,” he said, so “a pop-music religious service fits so perfectly.”

Regarding Christian themes in Swift’s songs, Pastor Vincenzo Petracca pointed to racism, gender equality, women’s rights, and the hypocritical prioritization of dogma. Although Petracca said those beliefs cause conservatives to label the singer “anti-Christian,” he appreciates that Swift’s faith “knows doubt and inner conflict.”

“Theologically speaking,” added Petracca, Swift “points to the justness of God. For her, faith and action are inseparable.” The emotional worship service moved the pastor, who described staring into “beaming faces.”

During the performance of “Soon You’ll Get Better”—about the cancer battle of Swift’s mom—Petracca noticed tear-filled eyes in the pews. Then sadness turned to joy and dancing with the upbeat closing number, “Shake It Off!”

Are Taylor Swift’s Lyrics and Shows Anti-Christian?

Taylor Swift, 34, is a self-described Christian who has said believers shouldn’t tolerate any kind of inequality or oppression. Church leaders who’ve referenced her as an example of how to attract enthusiastic attendees have come under fire.

RELATED: ‘Tuesdays With Taylor’ Student Bible Study Connects Taylor Swift Lyrics With Scripture Verses

As ChurchLeaders has reported, Swift’s recent songs and performances have alarmed some Christians, who call her music and messages dangerous.

‘The Chosen,’ Season 4, and ‘Jonathan & Jesus’ Each Receive K-LOVE Fan Award Nominations

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“The Chosen,” Season 4, and the docuseries, “Jonathan & Jesus,” each received a nomination for a K-LOVE Fan Award, The Chosen announced on Monday, May 13. Winners will be announced May 26 at the K-LOVE Fan Awards Weekend in Nashville, Tennessee.

“Exciting news: The Chosen Season 4 has been nominated for a @klovefanawards in the ‘Film Impact’ category,” said The Chosen on X, formerly Twitter. “You get to decide if we take home the title. Vote for us now at http://klovefanawards.com.”

“We’re in good company,” the post continued. “Jonathan & Jesus was also nominated in the ‘TV Impact’ category (you can watch it on @PrimeVideo)!”

RELATED: ‘The Chosen’ Wins K-Love Fan Award; Dallas Jenkins Shares ‘Jesus Is the Only Answer’ in What Appears To Be a Hopeless World

‘The Chosen,’ Season 4, Nominated With ‘Sound of Freedom,’ ‘The Blind’

The K-LOVE Fan Awards is a fan voted awards show that aims to “create a fan experience that celebrates and promotes artists, athletes, authors and entertainers who, with excellence, engage and impact popular culture for Jesus Christ.”

This year’s show will take place at the Grand Ole Opry. Nominees include Christian artists and groups, worship songs, books, and podcasts. Fans can vote for their favorite nominees here.

Last year, the finale of Season 3 of “The Chosen” won the K-LOVE Fan Award for Film & Television Impact. This year, that category has been split into two in order to give “more faith-based visual media titles the opportunity to shine.”

“The Chosen,” Season 4, was nominated in the Film Impact category. The other nominees in that category are “After Death,” “Big George Foreman,” “Journey to Bethlehem,” “Ordinary Angels,” “Sound of Freedom,” “The Blind,” and “The Shift.”

Jonathan & Jesus” is a docuseries that explores the growth of “The Chosen” following Season 2 and which focuses on what it is like for actor Jonathan Roumie to play the role of Jesus. At times Roumie has found the experience to be overwhelming, particularly as he has encountered fans who respond to him as though he were actually Jesus. However, the actor also sees playing the part as a gift.

“There’s definitely a responsibility,” Roumie told a tour guide while visiting Notre Dame, “but I also feel it’s a joy for me to get to do my job as an actor and get to play the person that has the most meaning in my life, the person that I love beyond anything or anyone.”

Liberty University Commencement Ceremony Features Tim Scott, TobyMac, Willie Robertson, and Mike Pompeo

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Liberty University in Lynchburg, Virginia, held its 2024 commencement ceremony on Friday (May 10). The ceremony featured Christian music star TobyMac, former Secretary of State Mike Pompeo, U.S. Senator Tim Scott, and reality television star Willie Robertson. 

This was the first commencement ceremony held under the leadership of new university President Dondi E. Costin. Jonathan Falwell, who is the son of Liberty University founder Jerry Falwell Sr. and serves as the university’s chancellor, praised Costin during the ceremony, saying that Costin “had a pretty good freshman year.”

Costin assumed leadership at Liberty during a tumultuous season for the university. Jerry Falwell Jr., the university’s former president, resigned in 2020 amid questions of his fitness for leadership and scandalous reports of an affair between his wife, Becky, and then-business partner Giancarlo Granda.

Liberty University has also endured several legal battles resulting from allegations that it failed to protect students from sexual assault and mishandled sexual assault claims. Earlier this year, the school agreed to pay a historic $14 million fine to the United States Department of Education for violations of campus safety law regarding the prevention of and response to sexual abuse. 

Despite these controversies, Liberty University remains one of the largest and most influential Christian universities in the nation, honoring roughly 29,000 graduates on Friday. 

In a prerecorded message, TobyMac said that attending Liberty “changed the design” of his life. 

“Everything I thought I was gonna do got just wiped off the map, and God redirected me, right here on this campus,” TobyMac said. He went on to recount how he met Michael Tait and Kevin Max while attending Liberty. The trio went on to form the Christian band DC Talk.

TobyMac added, “It all began here—the dream that we could do music.”

“I would say to students here, ‘Wait for God to open doors,’” he said. “Wait for God to open the doors and tell him that you’ll just step through them when he opens them—and be willing to be a servant.” 

During his address, Mike Pompeo congratulated graduates and emphasized the importance of military service. 

“Liberty and faith are sacred things and they are worth being defended,” Pompeo said. “And throughout now 250 years of American history, our nation has always depended on the willingness of incredible young men and women and their families to sacrifice for it, to fight for it, and even to give their lives for it.”

Pompeo went on to say that “over 40,000 Liberty students are part of our military community.” He also said that 20% of all military chaplains are graduates of Liberty and that 2,000 of the 2024 Liberty graduates are on active duty.

Pompeo said that Liberty’s strong ties to the military is “logical; it makes sense.” He added, “This university takes pride in its support of our military heroes.”

RELATED: Liberty University Board of Trustees Appoints Chancellor and President

Later in the ceremony, Liberty University awarded Senator Tim Scott with an honorary doctorate of humanities, after which Scott delivered remarks to graduates. 

Far-Right Christians Blame Madonna’s ‘Satanic’ Concert for Floods in Southern Brazil

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Madonna performs in the final show of her The Celebration Tour, on Copacabana Beach in Rio de Janeiro, Brazil, Saturday, May 4, 2024. (AP Photo/Silvia Izquierdo)

SÃO PAULO, Brazil (RNS) — Conservative Christians are accusing the pop star Madonna, who gave a free concert on Rio de Janeiro’s Copacabana Beach May 4, of including satanic rituals in the show, with catastrophic consequences for Brazil.

The concert, the last stop on Madonna’s The Celebration Tour, drew more than 1.6 million Brazilians and fans from neighboring countries and was aired in its entirety on Rede Globo, the national TV network.

Besides a diverse cast and some sexual play that LGBTQ+ Brazilians and other minorities said spotlighted their communities, the show projected images of Brazilian human rights icons, including Marina Silva, an advocate for rainforest preservation and Brazil’s minister for the environment, and Marielle Franco, an activist and politician who was assassinated in 2018.

Evangelical Christian pastors and digital influencers with ties to former President Jair Bolsonaro have attacked the concert and posted dozens of videos on social media with analysis pointing out purported diabolical behavior and attacks on the Christian faith. They have connected the concert’s licentiousness with unprecedented floods that have devastated cities in Rio Grande do Sul state and killed 147 people.

RELATED: Brazilian evangelical Christians disrupt pre-Lenten partying with ‘Gospel Carnival’

A video by motivational speaker Pablo Marçal, who combines career insights with Christian ideas, said Rede Globo, a target of the Brazilian far-right in Brazil for its criticism of Bolsonaro during his time as president, said showing “that pornographer” during the flooding “disrespected the Brazilian people that were drowning and dying.”

Marçal said that juxtaposing the two was equivalent to “making offerings with the corpses from Rio Grande do Sul. Anyone with a basic spiritual understanding knows what happened,” Marçal said in the video.

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Madonna performs in the final show of her The Celebration Tour, on Copacabana Beach in Rio de Janeiro, Brazil, Saturday, May 4, 2024. (AP Photo/Bruna Prado)

Baptist Pastor Aloizio Penido, a prominent Christian leader from the city of Juiz de Fora, told Religion News Service that the concert was “an insult to God,” and that the images drew an “association with the worst possible segment in society.” He pointed to a picture of Che Guevara and “other anti-Christian leaders.”

Former Trump Official Elizabeth Neumann Wants To Combat Christian Extremism

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(RNS) — As Elizabeth Neumann watched the events of Jan. 6 unfold, the former assistant secretary for threat prevention and security policy in the Office of Strategy, Policy, and Plans at the Department of Homeland Security was horrified. Reared in conservative Christian communities, she found herself deeply disturbed by the violence, but also the preponderance of Christian flags waved by insurrectionists and the prayers some shouted as they attacked the U.S. Capitol.

“You had this intermixing of Christian ideas, symbols and Scriptures, somehow justifying this violence that happened on Jan. 6,” Neumann said in a recent interview.

Months before, Neumann had resigned from the Trump administration, claiming the then-president was dismissive of domestic terrorist threats. In the years since, she has grown increasingly convinced that conservative Christians are being exploited not just by politicians, but also by extremist groups, giving rise to a dangerous form of faith-infused radicalism.

In a new book, “Kingdom of Rage: The Rise of Christian Extremism and the Path Back to Peace,” Neumann chronicles this exploitation and offers ways to prevent further radicalization. She recently spoke with RNS to discuss her findings and share where she finds hope for the future.

This interview has been edited for length and clarity.

What drove you to write this book?

It actually came out of an interview that I gave to POLITICO in February 2021, a month after Jan. 6. They asked about what we saw on Jan. 6 from the Christian community. A cross on Capitol grounds. People praying over bullhorns in the Senate gallery. Placards with different Bible verses. In December, before Jan. 6, you had the Jericho March, where they tried to play out the Israelites marching around Jericho and praying over Washington that we’re going to ‘defeat the evil.’

On Jan. 6, you felt your community had completed a “rage-filled metamorphosis into violent extremists.” Terms like radicalization and extremism are common in your work, but can you say more about your choice of words?

Somewhere in the POLITICO interview, I labeled it Christian extremism. I hadn’t given much thought to that label, but I definitely felt as if we had Christians present who were demonstrating extremist activity and belief.

I spend some time introducing the reader to the way the counterterrorism community views extremism. I offer a definition of extremism and radicalization and then try to help people understand what the evidence shows us about why somebody radicalizes.

If somebody says, ‘This is the most consequential election of our lifetime. If Donald Trump doesn’t win, then the country’s gonna go to hell. So, therefore, I’m going to go vote for Donald Trump,’ that is not extremism. The premise is maybe not healthy, spiritually or psychologically, but it’s not extremism. But if somebody’s ‘therefore’ is, ‘I’m gonna go monitor polling places wearing my military fatigues and carrying my AR-15, just to make sure no funny business happens,’ you’re moving into intimidation and harassment and also into something that’s illegal. That’s the difference.

You note in the book that white nationalism and Christian nationalism movements have taken advantage of Christian communities. How did we end up here?

Some are coming from legitimate places of fear and grievance. The sexual ethic in this country has changed drastically in the last 10 years. Obergefell v. Hodges (the Supreme Court decision establishing marriage for same-sex partners) is a key moment. The law of the land used to adhere to a traditional biblical sexual ethic and it kind of changed overnight. We’re still catching up as a community to try to understand what that means.

In that great uncertainty, we can become really vulnerable to extremists. Extremists are really good at painting black and white pictures, and they offer this certainty that comes from some form of hostile action.

As the Christian community identifies itself with that political right, they’re also intermingling with extremists. That confluence is where there’s great danger. Most people are not going to go be violent extremists, but if we want to reduce the amount of violence in the country, we need to reduce the exposure to extremism.

Tornado Rips Steeple off Pennsylvania Church During Worship Service

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The Rev. Ken Barner stands next to the tornado-damaged steeple of Crossroads Ministries Church in the parking lot, Monday, May 13, 2024, in Finleyville, Penn. (RNS photo/Kathryn Post)

FINLEYVILLE, Pennsylvania (RNS) — At first, the Rev. Ken Barner thought it was the sound system.

Tucked in a back room just behind the sanctuary of Crossroads Ministries, Barner was preparing to enter the stage for the evening service on Saturday (May 11), when he heard what sounded like a freight train. Then the lights flickered and Barner realized the noise was coming from outside.

“I’m thinking, we’re gonna lose this building,” said Barner in an interview on the steps of the church Monday morning.

RELATED: ‘Hallelujah Territory’—Oklahoma Baptist University Sustains Severe Tornado Damage But No Injuries

His wife Rhonda was singing “The God Who Stays,” a contemporary Christian hit by Matthew West, when Barner and other church leaders snapped into action, ushering the nearly 100 congregants down the stairs to the basement. Luke McClain, pastor of ministry development, was hit with shards of glass as two sanctuary windows blew out, but no one was seriously injured.

A tornado pulled the roof off a section of Crossroads Ministries church in Finleyville, Penn., on Saturday evening, May 11, 2024. (Photo courtesy Crossroads Ministries)

A tornado pulled the roof off a section of Crossroads Ministries Church in Finleyville, Penn., on Saturday evening, May 11, 2024. (Photo courtesy Crossroads Ministries)

It wasn’t until the group emerged from the basement roughly 30 minutes later that they discovered a tornado had blown off their church’s steeple, flinging it into the parking lot where it had smashed several cars.

Located just off a main road in Finleyville, a suburb of Pittsburgh, Crossroads Ministries is a nondenominational Protestant church that meets in a brick building built in 1972. It typically draws between 500-600 people across its three weekend services, according to the pastors. On Saturday, infants, 90-somethings and a few first-time visitors were all part of the roughly 100 people in attendance.

“It’s a true cross-section of Pittsburgh,” said Barner, who has been on staff since 1990 and became senior pastor in 2015. “We’re Yinzers. It’s Steeler country here.”

The pastor said there was no warning that the church was in the path of a tornado — while he was aware of storms predicted to land farther north, in Finleyville, sports games, birthday parties and church events went on as usual, Barner said, until the storm blew through.

“The job of the pastor is to lead, feed, guide and protect his congregation. And at times, we have to do that physically,” said Barner. “All I could think about was, let’s get everybody to safety.”

Hunkered in the basement hallway, Barner led the congregants in prayer and quoted Psalm 46 as they waited for the storm to pass. “The Lord is our refuge and strength, a very present help in times of trouble,” he recounted to RNS.

Soon, personnel from emergency medical services and the local fire department were on the scene. Fearing that the entire building would collapse, they led congregants into the adjacent building, which holds the school’s gymnasium, to assess potential injuries. Aside from minor bruises and cuts, everyone was unscathed.

How To Distinguish Between a Boss and a Leader

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Can you distinguish between a boss and a leader?

Better Question: Are You a Boss or a Leader?

Frankly, I hate the term boss. Whenever someone refers to me as their boss I almost feel like I’m doing something wrong as a leader. I want to ask forgiveness for making me think I’m the boss.

There Are so Many Differences in a Boss and a Leader.

A boss seems to have all the answers, even if they really don’t.
A leader solicits input, leads a collaborative effort, to arrive at the right answer.

A boss tells people what to do.
A leader enlists the support of others.

A boss can be intimidating—if only by title.
A leader may challenge people, but should be encouraging—even during correction.

A boss dictates their own way.
A leader delegates the way to others.

A boss demands results.
A leader inspires others to succeed.

A boss controls through systems and processes.
A leader spurs ideas, creativity, and ingenuity.

A boss manages closely guarded policies.
A leader enables change, adapting policies as needed.

There is only one boss in any organization.
The best organizations have many leaders.

People follow a leader willingly. You have to pay someone to follow a boss.

In fairness, there are times even the best leaders have to be the boss. Even the “bad guy” boss—at least in other people’s perception. Being a leader doesn’t mean you allow poor quality of work to prevail. There are times a leader has to micromanage. We need good systems and processes.

But whenever possible, I much prefer to be a leader.

This article originally appeared here and is used by permission. 

Pastors and the Paradox of Being Resented and Revered

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We are reading through the book of Acts as a life group. In Acts 14 we see a glaring paradox in the lives of apostles Paul and Barnabas. They were despised by some. “The unbelieving Jews stirred up the Gentiles and poisoned their minds against the brothers.” And “an attempt was made to mistreat and stone them.”

And yet others viewed Paul and Barnabas “as gods who came down in human form,” namely as “Zeus and Hermes.” Friend in my life group asked, “Which response do you feel like happens to you as a pastor?” I responded, “By God’s mercy, I have not experienced either response to the extreme that Paul and Barnabas experienced. No one has attempted to worship me or stone me.”

Most of us in ministry leadership won’t experience the paradox to the extreme that Paul and Barnabas endured, but we will live through the dangers of being revered and the pain of being resented. I thought more about their question and about the passage we read. Here are three truths about the paradox of being resented and revered.

1. They tend to go together.

When you read through the book of Acts you see persecution against the Church and the Church thriving. The persecution and the beautiful work of God happen simultaneously and the apostles endure the extremes of persecution and unhealthy respect and admiration. In my life the two extremes have been muted considerably. I won’t fear for my life the next time I preach and no one has ever compared me to a Greek god — and I am thankful for both. But I have seen that seasons of God doing amazing things in my midst are often accompanied by seasons of trials and struggles.

2. Being revered is infinitely more dangerous than being resented.

I thought about which is more dangerous for the ministry leader — being resented or being revered. It is far better to be despised than deified. Paul and Barnabas clearly felt being revered was more dangerous than being revered because they tore their robes and stopped the people from treating them with awe and worship. They immediately took the spotlight off themselves and focused the people on Jesus. While we should want people to respect the role of pastor, we should never want an unhealthy admiration or an unchecked loyalty. It will destroy the people and us. We are “people just like you,” people who are frail, people in need of repentance, people who get things wrong at times, people who will disappoint.

3. When despised, keep serving, leading, and preaching.

While Paul and Barnabas stopped people from revering them, they did not stop preaching when people resented them. They continued to preach the gospel (verse 7). The application for us is clear; we should call a time-out if we are treated as gods, but we should continue if we are treated poorly.

This article originally appeared here, and is used by permission.

12 Reasons People Leave a Local Church

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Over the years of my ministry, I’ve talked to many people who chose to leave a church even though they still lived in the same area. Here are some of the primary reasons given for leaving (without commentary on the validity of each one):

  1. Relationship conflict. Somebody got mad at somebody else, and one (or both) of them decided to find another church.
  2. Weak preaching. A congregation will put up with a lot of poor leadership, but many—especially young people—will not long sit under poor preaching.
  3. Authoritarian leadership. Some leaders do not permit opposing views, and they expect everyone to follow in line. In turn, some members simply don’t stay under that leadership style.
  4. Poor children’s or students’ programming. Even though it’s not good, it’s one thing for adults to have little opportunities for growth; it’s another matter completely when our church provides little for our children and young people.
  5. Neglected pastoral care. Right or wrong, some church members give their pastors only one shot at pastoral care. If the pastor somehow neglects a need, members start looking elsewhere.
  6. Personal sin. Sometimes it’s easier to leave a church than to sit under preaching that convicts week after week after week…which also means it’s apparently easier to leave than it is to repent.
  7. Burnout. Members who are really faithful to a local church at times overcommit themselves based on the needs of the church. Few people are willing to admit they’re just worn out, so some will simply leave instead.
  8. No connectedness. Lonely church members—regardless of whether they’re lonely because the church is unfriendly or because they choose not to get involved—don’t usually commit for the long haul in a church.
  9. Congregational strife. Even if you’re not in the middle of the battle, constant conflict wears out even the best church members.
  10. Theological disagreement. Sometimes this difference is over actual theological beliefs, and sometimes it’s over moral right and wrong.
  11. Political positions. Granted, this reason is often more apparent during campaign seasons, but it happens.
  12. Perceived irrelevance. Members who think the preaching and teaching do not speak to the reality of their day-to-day lives will often seek that kind of teaching elsewhere.

This article about why people leave a church originally appeared here.

Digital Presence That Defies the Ordinary

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When I think about the church’s digital presence, my mind returns to the same principles that guided the building committee years ago. Just as with church architecture, I think about what it means to dignify the ordinary in a digital setting. What does it mean to be a prism of God’s light on social media? In what ways do the “doors” of our digital presence point people to the cross?

I love my church’s physical building. Perhaps absence is indeed making the heart grow fonder because I’ve found myself thinking a lot about that building lately. In this time of isolation—as I’m stuck more-or-less inside the walls of my own house—I really miss my church and what the building evokes. Let me tell you a little bit about it.

First, I love the architectural design concept. A building facilitates activity, but it also communicates the values and vision of its users. Believing this, the building committee years ago adopted the concept of “dignifying the ordinary.” This concept was expressed in the building’s layout—the worship space evokes a town square, where all people can gather—as well as in its construction—simple, common materials come together with grace and care to glorify God and serve his people.

Second, I love its brightness. Our church’s mission statement includes the phrase that we are “a prism for God’s light.” The building makes tangible this charge to be a prism of God’s light by its many large windows and translucent dome above the worship space. Entering the church indeed feels like walking into the light.

Finally, and most importantly, I love that it points me to the cross. The entire complex follows a circular pattern. At the building’s center is a structural, steel “tree” with a cross at the top. The tree is beautiful, but its presence isn’t merely aesthetic. It’s actually integral to the structure of the building. Remove that cross and the church building would literally fall apart. Even more, because of the circular pattern of the building, the cross remains always at the center. All entrances direct you toward the cross.

Applications in a digital setting

The dynamic nature of digital media—and the speed with which change occurs—provide unique challenges to answering these questions. I can rebuild a website far more quickly and cheaply than I can rebuild our church building. That makes my work in digital communications particularly prone to dissatisfaction, envy, perfectionism, and mimicry—what I refer to in another article as “the chase.”

9 Tools for Leading a Life-Changing Bible Study

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I’m not much of a handyman. When something breaks at our house, my first instinct is to call in a professional who knows what he’s doing. What I have discovered (several hundreds of dollars in service bills later) is that a lot of the time, the only thing stopping me from doing the repair job myself is having the right tools. The correct wrench and socket set can save a lot of pain, time and money down the road. The same principle is true when it comes to leading a successful Bible study with your small group. Having the right tools available can open a conversation around God’s Word that will eventually lead to discipleship. You don’t need seminary training to lead a life-changing Bible study. All you need is some planning and a few tools.

9 Tools for Leading a Life-Changing Bible Study

Pre-Meeting

The first thing a group leader needs to do is plan ahead. Even if the Bible study is pre-written, you need to know where the finish line of the discussion should be so the members in the group can get there together. Otherwise, you will get off course and spend the night chasing conversation rabbit trails.

Know the material and always bring the discussion back to the center of God’s Word.

Bonfire Ideas for Youth Group: Ignite Faith, Fellowship & Friendships

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Bonfire ideas for youth group extend beyond goofy songs and gooey snacks. And bonfires or campfires are more than just flames crackling at night. They offer fantastic opportunities for faith growth, connection, and laughter.

Organizing a bonfire for students can spark memories and deepen bonds. With summer around the corner, plan now to host a special bonfire event. Round up volunteers to help with the actual fire. Also ask some people to lead activities and bring snacks. Be sure to follow safety guidelines and set clear rules for participants.

Next let’s explore exciting bonfire ideas for youth group. They’ll surely heat up conversations among teens!

7 Bonfire Ideas for Youth Group

Here are 7 scintillating suggestions for building community around bonfires. If that’s not an option, use a fire pit instead!

1. Fan the Flames Worship Night

Hold an evening of worship under the stars. Begin by setting up blankets or chairs in a circle. Then lead group members in acoustic worship songs accompanied by guitar. Share testimonies and reflections too. That creates a sacred space for spiritual connection and renewal.

2. Prayer & Reflection Time

Use the tranquil ambiance to create space for conversations with God. First invite youth to share prayer requests. Then spend time in silent prayer, or lead kids in a guided prayer. Another option? Encourage students to journal by firelight as they connect with God amid nature.

3. Discussion Starters for Around the Campfire

Dark, peaceful settings often lead to deeper sharing. Use that opportunity to encourage kids to open up about serious and less-serious topics. For Bible-based conversation starters, check out this helpful list.

4. Story Time!

Gather around the bonfire for a storytelling session. Encourage teens to share childhood highlights, funny anecdotes, or faith insights. The crackling flames and darkness make for captivating storytelling…and a captive audience. Pro Tip: Bring teen-friendly tales to share or read, too!

Dog the Bounty Hunter Used To ‘Beat Them Down.’ Now, He’s ‘Going After Souls’

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Duane Chapman, better known to most as “Dog the Bounty Hunter,” has released a book titled “Nine Lives and Counting: A Bounty Hunter’s Journey to Faith, Hope, and Redemption.” In it, he recounts how God has “rescued, saved, and redeemed” him despite his mistakes.

“This book is about my faith in God and my walk with God,” Chapman told ChurchLeaders.

In the book, Chapman explains how “through the turmoil and the things I’ve been through…God has rescued, saved, and redeemed me.”

“The one thing I have said is after someone reads this book, and they don’t believe in God, good luck to you,” Chapman added. “[My life] is incredible miracle after miracle…It’s not luck. It is miracles from G-O-D.”

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Chapman was raised in the church from a young age but later made decisions that resulted in him being convicted of third degree murder. He shared that while serving his time in jail, he “came back to God” but still wasn’t completely dedicated.

That all changed after his wife, Beth, died of cancer in 2019 and he made a “deal with God,” asking God to bring him a wife. “I can’t find my own car coming out of Target,” Chapman joked.

When he was at one of the lowest point in his life, Chapman cried out, “God, please bring me my Eve.”

Not long after his plea, Chapman met his now-wife, Francie, while getting his driveway fixed. When they talked on the phone, Francie, not knowing who Chapman was due to the fact that she doesn’t watch much television, told him that she had recently lost her husband to cancer and was running his business. Chapman immediately broke down in tears.

An emotional Chapman went on to tell ChurchLeaders that one of Francie’s friends told her, “You’re going to meet Dog the Bounty Hunter and you’re going to help change lives for the world together.”

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A year-and-a-half later, Chapman and Francie got married.

Why Should Students Consider a Christian College?

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The range of religious colleges in the United States is vast, from small Bible schools that prepare graduates for ministry to elite research institutions that have shed most of their founding Christian heritage. Some liberal arts colleges are still “church-related” and require a religion class or two, but they live out their Christian mission and values with religiously diverse faculty teaching religiously diverse students.

Then there are “Christian colleges” like the one where I work—Bethel University. These schools are academically rigorous and send their graduates out into a wide variety of careers, but they remain intentionally Christ-centered. While some have a “faith screen” for students and others don’t, they all require Bible and theology courses, seek to integrate faith and learning in all fields of study, and hire only committed Christians as faculty.

I’d still recommend that Christian high school students consider other kinds of institutions—including state schools—which have their own strengths. But here’s why all Christian teenagers should consider a Christian college as part of their search.

1. Christian Colleges Help Young Adults To Make Their Faith Their Own.

While it offers opportunities for worship, prayer, fellowship, and ministry on campus and off, the Christian college is not a church. While it confesses biblical truths and pursues a Christ-centered mission, the Christian college’s goal is not to indoctrinate students, but to help them to make their faith their own.

Of course, many of our students come from Christian families and grew up going to church. They build on those experiences when they come to college. But authentic Christian faith must be chosen, not inherited or imitated. So the Christian college has to be a space where young adults come to know Jesus more fully, as the way, the truth, and the life (John 14:6), and decide for themselves to follow him. Our faculty have already made that choice and confess Jesus as Lord, but it’s essential that we help our students encounter multiple points of view, as they seek their own answers to questions of faith, truth, justice, identity, and purpose.

2. Christian Colleges Relate Faith to Learning—Of All Kinds.

Of course, a key part of that exploration takes place in Bible and theology courses and in the work of campus ministry. But distinctively, Christian colleges seek to integrate faith into learning in every field of study. Mentored by spiritually mature faculty, students ask what difference their faith makes to the study of everything from biology to business, English to engineering, and healthcare to history.

In my courses, for example, students use the tools of history to better understand the causes, course, and consequences of 20th century wars. But we also ask what it means for followers of the Prince of Peace to take part in violent conflict: whether war can be just, the role of the church in relationship to a warring state, how we can love our enemies, and how we can build peace into something more than the temporary absence of strife. Meanwhile, students in the art studio one floor down are learning firsthand what it means to be made in the image of a Creator God (Gen. 1:26-27), while those taking a social work course one building over are considering how the same verses compel Christians to protect the dignity of the impoverished and the rights of the oppressed.

WATCH: Greg Laurie’s Wife, Cathe, Tells Moms To ‘Check Out From What Fuels Your Mommy Guilt’

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With decades of ministry experience, Cathe Laurie shared encouragement to each mom at Harvest Christian Fellowship on Mother’s Day. She and her husband, Greg Laurie, have two sons—Jonathan, who serves on staff at Harvest, and Christopher, who lost his life nearly 16 years ago.

“Give your pride-filled ego a timeout,” offered Cathe.

Greg Laurie Posted Cathe Laurie’s Thoughts on Mother’s Day

With her son, Pastor Jonathan, looking on, Cathe took to the platform of Harvest Christian Fellowship to address the moms in church on Mother’s Day.

“Who doesn’t aspire to be a good mom?” asked Cathe Laurie.

She recognized that the end goal could look different depending on what mothers read. Moms can focus on ultra-nutritious and organic food, academics, sports achievements, or even brand-name and coordinated clothing.

“Whatever circles you happen to fill your heart with—those are going to be the ones that are going to tell you how to be a good mom,” Cathe explained.

Beneath all of the various approaches to motherhood, there seems to be an underlying question all moms are asking themselves.

“What if I fail?” Cathe asked.

Moms second-guess themselves constantly, asking questions like, “Am I doing this right?,” or, “Am I doing enough?”

Cathe offered encouragement to every mom, saying, “Jesus is enough.” She continued, “None of us is ever going to do it perfectly. There’s only one perfect person who’s ever lived and will ever live—and that is Jesus.”

“You take those ‘mommy fails’ to the foot of the cross, to our Savior who is not only able to give us eternal life but to give us that guilt-lifting, joy-fueling grace that only Christ promises,” Cathe said. She went on to give moms a few things to do.

Referring to Jeremiah 29:11, she first encouraged each mother to remember that the same God who began the good work and called them to motherhood will “complete what he has promised.”

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