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Texas Church Fires Pastor Charged With Internet Crimes Against Children

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After its longtime pastor was arrested last week for allegedly distributing child sex abuse materials, a Texas church immediately removed him from office. Texas Pastor Bruce Hollen, 63, was arrested on May 8 and has been charged with possession with intent to promote child pornography. In court Friday, his bond was set at $30,000. Hollen is currently being held in the Montgomery County Jail.

Editor’s note: This article refers to child sex abuse materials, which some readers might find triggering and/or disturbing.

Hollen’s arrest stemmed from an investigation conducted by a county task force on internet crimes against children. In court documents, authorities said they obtained photographs of girls between the ages of 9 and 12 who were unclothed from the waist down. Some of the photos depicted girls who were participating in sex acts.

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Texas law defines “promotion” of child pornography as knowingly or intentionally possessing material that visually depicts minors—those younger than 18 at the time the images were created—and that depicts the children engaging in sexual conduct.

Church Responds to Allegations Against Pastor

According to Hollen’s personal Facebook page, he has been a pastor at Calvary Chapel of The Woodlands since July 2000. The Woodlands is located about 30 miles north of Houston.

Photos of Hollen and his wife have been removed from the church’s website. Some videos of Hollen conducting worship services have also been deleted.

When a local TV station went to Hollen’s house seeking comment, no one opened the door. Last week, a church representative told ABC13 that leaders were working to keep the church running and “don’t have all of the information.”

The link to Calvary Chapel’s website homepage now goes directly to the following statement:

The board of Calvary Chapel of The Woodlands has discussed the allegations against Pastor Bruce Hollen and has unanimously decided effective immediately that as of 5/8/2024, Bruce Hollen is stripped of his role as lead pastor of Calvary Chapel of The Woodlands. The board hereby has determined that Bruce Hollen no longer has authority, authorization, or permission to conduct any business on behalf of Calvary Chapel of The Woodlands. He may not hold himself out as a leader in any capacity for the church, and he may not speak on behalf of the church in any capacity.

Church Meets at a Local Public School

Calvary Chapel of The Woodlands meets in the auditorium of McCullough Junior High School, a local public school. District officials said because the church services take place on Sundays, none of its students are present in the facility.

The church’s meeting location sparked renewed concerns on social media about the separation of church and state.

Parishioners Confront Teen With Rifle Outside of Communion Service for 60 Children

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A teenage suspect carrying a rifle was apprehended shortly after attempting to enter the backdoor of St. Mary Magdalen Catholic Church in Abbeville, Louisiana, during a First Communion service on Saturday (May 11).

Around 60 children were inside the church waiting to receive their First Communion. The incident was captured on the church’s livestream, a video which has since been taken down from social media. 

Before the video was taken down, it was captured by several local media outlets, including KADN. In it, Fr. Nicholas G. Dupré can be seen leading the Mass before someone approaches him to whisper something in his ear. 

Dupré then asks everyone to be seated, and several individuals can be seen conversing and looking toward the back of the room. A few moments later, Dupré can be seen leading a Hail Mary prayer as police officers enter the room.

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A few moments after that, panic appears to erupt in the crowd. As people begin to evacuate, a voice can be heard assuring them that the teen “is in custody.” 

Abbeville Chief of Police Mike Hardy said in a statement on Facebook that officers arrived at the church around 10:35 a.m. on Saturday after receiving a call about “a suspicious person with a gun.”

“The person was confronted by parishioners and escorted outside. Upon arrival, Officers arrested the suspect and placed him in custody,” Hardy said. “Officers with the Abbeville Police Department and Vermilion Parish Sheriff’s Office made a sweep through the church to ensure there was no additional threat and confirmed that no one was injured.”

The suspect, who is a 16-year-old white male, was questioned by investigators with a parent present. He was then transported to the Abbeville General Hospital Behavioral Unit to be evaluated. 

Following the incident, Mary Magdalen Catholic Church also released a statement, saying, “This morning, our First Communion ceremony was interrupted when a suspicious person opened the back door.”

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“This understandably caused panic,” the statement went on to say. “While we realize this was a frightening experience for those in attendance, we are incredibly grateful to both parishioners and police officers for acting quickly to ensure the safety of all.”

Why Matt Chandler Believes the Mark of the Beast ‘Is Active Even Now’

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Matt Chandler, lead pastor at The Village Church in Flower Mound, Texas, took time this week to share his views on the “mark of the beast,” which is mentioned in the Bible in Revelation 13. Despite what some believe, Chandler does not believe the mark is some type of advanced technology.

 

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Matt Chandler Explains the Mark of the Beast

Revelation 13 describes a beast coming out of the earth followed by a second beast coming out of the sea. The second beast performs miraculous signs, makes people worship the first beast, and causes those who refuse to worship the first beast to be killed. Verses 16-18 say:

It also forced all people, great and small, rich and poor, free and slave, to receive a mark on their right hands or on their foreheads, so that they could not buy or sell unless they had the mark, which is the name of the beast or the number of its name. This calls for wisdom. Let the person who has insight calculate the number of the beast, for it is the number of a man. That number is 666.

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Chandler said that if people are close to his age, they’re familiar with the idea that the mark of the beast could be a credit card, a phone, or a chip embedded in people’s hands. However, the pastor said that to think the mark of the beast is one of these types of technology is “to miss the point that’s being made” in Revelation.

“The perfect number is number seven, and so if seven is complete, six is incomplete,” said Chandler. “We also know that the number three means complete. And so 666, the mark of the beast, is really to show that the work of the enemy is completely—three sixes—incomplete. And so this is, really, what the enemy produces: complete incompleteness.”

The mark of the beast “is not Elon Musk putting something in our brains or something like that,” Chandler said. Rather, the number 666 on people’s foreheads symbolizes “ideological belief,” and the number on people’s hands depicts “the practice of that ideological belief.”

Chandler believes the mark of the beast is currently being lived out in our society. “I think the way you’re even seeing this today,” he said, “is there are certain, especially in the business community now, ideological beliefs you must have in order to participate in the economy. And I think we’re going to see this get worse.” 

“That means I believe the mark of the beast is active even now in this moment of history that we’re in,” he concluded.

Amy Trout: Addressing Our Mental Health Crisis

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How can your local church help effectively address mental health issues in your community? In this week’s conversation on FrontStage BackStage, host Jason Daye is joined by Dr. Amy Trout. Amy is a psychologist who’s the founder and director of a private practice, Cornerstone Consultants. She also serves as the chief education officer at Counterpoise. She’s the co-author of a new book titled “Beyond the Clinical Hour.” Together, Amy and Jason look at the breadth of the current mental health crisis. Amy also shares some creative ways that the local church can partner with professional counselors to help address the mental health issues in your local community.

FrontStage BackStage Podcast With Amy Trout

View the entire podcast here.

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7 Essential Requirements for All Good Leaders

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If you were to assess your personal leadership ability, how would you assess yourself today?

Over 40 years in church leadership (with continual learning), has taught me that I know less about leadership than I think I do, which only deepens my commitment to keep learning and practicing leadership.

It’s similar to my walk with God, the more I know him, the more I realize I’ve only scratched the surface of this profound and intimate relationship. And I’m fired up to know Jesus more and walk with him more closely.

The same is true with leadership. We become better leaders but culture changes, COVID happens, global political and economic patterns change, etc., and all this impacts how we interpret the leadership principles we know and put them into practice. How are you growing?

Leadership is not a linear or black and white process. It’s nuanced, artful, and ever-changing. The core principles may remain the same, but how we practice them evolves. It’s our responsibility to continue to learn and grow.

7 Essential Requirements for All Good Leaders

What are the big picture essential requirements of our leadership in general? Which ones are you strong in, which ones need improvement?

1. A Growing Sense of Self-Awareness

If it’s true that culture changes, we grow and learn, fail and succeed, and relationships either improve or decline, then it’s also true that self-awareness is not a point-in-time arrival, but a continuing process.

Our most foundational self, made in the image of God, created on purpose for a purpose remains consistent. Yet, the process of personal maturation combined with the changing world around us impacts how we see ourselves in relationship with others. We must keep growing in our sense of self-awareness.

There is also the element of faith that makes it possible for our flaws to be redeemed and made useful for the sake of loving people and leading them well.

  • How do you see yourself today compared to a year ago?
  • How do you perceive others see and relate to you compared to a year ago?

2. An Eagerness To Practice Leadership

I enjoy playing guitar but I don’t practice so I don’t get better. I’ve become more of a guitar collector than player.

We can collect leadership knowledge but without putting it to practice, we don’t become a better leader.

When it comes to becoming a good guitar player, you have to practice what you can’t do until you can. Like a really difficult chord, that you just can’t play. You work on it and work on it until you can.

As leaders, it’s important that we identify our specific leadership gap(s), and related skills we do not yet possess, so we can practice them in real ministry until we can.

Otherwise, we’re in danger of doing the same things in the same ways, over and over again. We don’t make progress, we just get tired.

  • What specific leadership growth gap and related skills are you working on?
  • Do you have a coach to help you?

3. A Heathy Desire To Learn From Mistakes

All leaders make mistakes. When you are out in front and taking new territory, missteps are part of the journey. If you aren’t making mistakes you probably aren’t truly leading.

No one wants to make mistakes, that would be a strange desire, but it’s a healthy desire to learn from your mistakes. What are you learning so far this year?

A healthy staff culture that embraces leadership development gives permission to make mistakes. Maybe lots of mistakes and even a big one or two. But they don’t give permission to make the same mistake twice. Do you know why?

Because repeating mistakes indicates you are not learning from your mistakes and that changes the game entirely.

  • What was the most recent leadership mistake you made?
  • What did you learn from this mistake?

4. A True Willingness To Take Risks

No church plant ever became a thriving local church without the leader(s) taking risks. And when risk-taking stops, that often signals the potential decline of any church.

Taking wise risks includes a combination of prudence and courage. Good judgment and discernment are needed along with stepping into the unknown without all the answers.

That’s the definition of a good risk isn’t it? You did your homework, talked with God, sought wise counsel, but in the end, we can’t guarantee the results, but we still must take responsibility for the results. That is the essence of leadership—repeated again and again.

Risks vary greatly from a building project where the church’s financial health is on the line, to a difficult conversation where a relationship is at stake, but they all matter.

How To Be Creative on a Deadline

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Creativity takes far more courage than most people realize. After decades working as a creative professional, I’m convinced that the fear of being able to deliver great ideas on a deadline is one of the greatest challenges when it comes to producing creative work.

There’s been plenty of books written on creativity and innovation, but very few on the battles we often fight to be creative in the first place. Wherever you are or whatever you do, creative change is going to ruffle a few feathers. Perhaps more accurately, it’s going to drive some folks absolutely nuts. That’s why creative courage is in such short supply today. Advertising legend George Lois said, “In professional work – certainly in the arts and graphics – 99% of people have zero courage. They blow with the wind.”

George is right. Innovators shake things up and that creates criticism, push-back, and in many cases, when your critics are in charge, you could lose your job or have your reputation tarnished. That’s why the few who do stand fast are creative heroes.

In an issue of Fast Company magazine, photographer Platon (who’s made a career photographing world leaders) told a remarkable story:

I once photographed the civil-rights heroes of our time, including one of the Greensboro Four, who did the original sit-in. I asked him “How did you do that?” It broke all the rules to walk into the Woolworth’s and sit at the counter. He said, “Don’t wait for the masses to start a revolution.”

When it comes to making creative change happen in your world, stick to your guns. Do what you have to do. Don’t wait for the masses to start a revolution.

And most important, don’t let fear of delivering great ideas rob you of a creative life.

That’s exactly why I wrote my book: “Ideas on a Deadline: How to Be Creative When the Clock is Ticking,” published by the Inspire Collective. It’s designed to be the definitive book for creative people who have to deliver breakthrough ideas on demand. One of the most destructive myths about creativity is the idea that we need to wait for inspiration. But as artist Chuck Close said, “Inspiration is for amateurs—the rest of us just show up and get to work.” Whether you’re a creative professional like a designer, writer, musician, or filmmaker, or an executive, engineer, teacher or salesperson, this book will show you how to “prime the pump” of your creativity, overcome the blocks, and deliver great ideas when you need them the most.

It’s time for you to overcome your fear and start leading a creative (and courageous) life.

This article originally appeared here and is used by permission.

10 Big Things Jesus Said That We Keep Forgetting

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“Why do you call me ‘Lord, Lord,’ and do not the things I tell you” (Luke 6:46).

“If you know these things, blessed are you if you do them” (John 13:17).

I apologize for the title. Everything our Lord said was “big.”  It’s just that some of His statements in particular seem to have been muted in recent years.  See what you think.

10 Big Things Jesus Said That We Keep Forgetting

1. We keep forgetting the second commandment is a command.

We want our religion to be private, just “me and the Lord.”

Jesus refuses to play that game. After being asked to identify the “greatest” command, He said, “And the second is like unto it. Thou shalt love thy neighbor as thyself” (Matthew 22:39). We must note that this is a command, not an option, an opinion, a wish, a Facebook “like,” or a good idea. To love one’s neighbor strongly is a key component of the kind of witness Jesus envisioned His people extending to the world.

So, why don’t we obey it? Answer: We have found it inconvenient, difficult, and demanding. When we love people–truly care for them to the point that they know it–they might need us and that would interfere with our schedule. It’s much easier to love the lovely, to care for the appreciative, to give to the deserving, and to reach out to those who need little or nothing.

2. We keep forgetting two things about His command to feed the hungry, clothe the needy, visit the sick, etc., in Matthew 25.

First, we forget that this is a command and is not optional, something the Lord hopes we might find time to do along life’s way while attending to more important matters. Jesus honestly expects His people to do this.  I’m happy to report many churches are taking this seriously, and are involving their people in strong ministries to the down and out, the voiceless, the forgotten.

Secondly, when we do these things “unto the least of these my brethren,”  He takes it personally. We are to do good to everyone, but brothers and sisters in Christ have first dibs on our assistance. Paul said, “As we have opportunity, let us do good to all, especially to those who are of the household of faith” (Galatians 6:10).

A side note: Nowhere–underscore that–nowhere! does the Bible tell the church to take care of all the poor of the world.  I hear people say that the government would not have to get involved in welfare if the church did its duty. (Imagine Jesus telling the handful of disciples in Jerusalem they were to go into all the world and meet the physical needs of the billions. He did not do this. Let us give thanks.)

3. We forget that loving people and loving the Lord is all about action, not emotion.

When our Lord told us to “love your enemies” in Luke 6:27ff, He immediately explained that what He’s calling for is action. We are to do good, bless, pray, give, etc. Throughout the Upper Room discourse (John 13-16), Jesus emphasized that whoever loves Him keeps His commands.  Words are important, of course, and emotions can be, too. But nothing packs more punch than actions, the works we do. The Lord said, “Whoever hears these words of mine and does them is like one who builds his house on a rock” (Matthew 7:24).

Bible Memorization – Explore the 12 Vital Bible Verses Every Leader Needs to Memorize

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The Psalmist said, “I have hidden your word in my heart so I might not sin against you.” God’s Word can be a protection for our heart and soul. It can teach us, convict us and challenge us. The same is true for leaders. The best leadership book is the Bible. If you want to be a great, biblical leader, you should consider Bible memorization.

12 Bible Verses Every Leader Should Have Memorized

  1. Luke 6:31 Do to others as you would like them to do to you.

2. Philippians 2:3 Don’t be selfish; don’t try to impress others. Be humble, thinking of others as better than yourselves.

3. Proverbs 4:23 Guard your heart above all else, for it determines the course of your life.

4. Exodus 18:21 But select capable men from all the people—men who fear God, trustworthy men who hate dishonest gain—and appoint them as officials over thousands, hundreds, fifties and tens.

5. Psalm 78:72 With upright heart he shepherded them and guided them with his skillful hand.

8 Blessings of Studying Your Bible

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Between the “already” of your conversion and the “not yet” of your final home going, few things are more important in the Christian life than a practical and functional level of biblical literacy. One of the Father’s most important gifts to his children in the here and now is the gift of his Word. Without studying your Bible you simply won’t be what God has called you to be and consistently do what God has commanded you to do. Studying your Bible gives the ability to draw wisdom and insight out of the pages of his amazing Book.

But I have a confession to make. It’s embarrassing and humbling, but I’m willing to make it publicly: I’m not always excited about reading and studying the Bible. I know I’m not alone. For distracted sinners like us, studying the Bible can sometimes feel burdensome, difficult, confusing and unexciting.

So today, in an effort to remind myself and you to persevere, I want to consider eight life-giving and heart-changing blessings that only ever come from studying your Bible. Then, I want to recommend an unbelievable resource that will open the door to a brand-new way of studying your Bible.

8 Blessings of Studying Your Bible

1. God Consciousness

Beginning with the first four words of the Bible—“In the beginning, God…”—the existence, character and plan of God are splashed across every single page of Scripture. And since we’re created for him, made to love and serve him, designed to walk in close communion with him, and called to do all that we think, say and do in reference to him, there are few things more important to us than Scripture, because that’s where we find God.

Regular study of the Bible causes everything in your life and mine to be driven by God-consciousness, and consistent study of the Word of God rescues us from a God-amnesia that’s a constant danger to every sinner. Without actively digging into the pages of Scripture, we’re at risk of forgetting, at a practical level, that God exists.

2. Self-Awareness

Second only to a life-shaping knowledge of God is a heart-humbling knowledge of self. But since sin is deceitful, we all must abandon the notion that no one knows us better than we know ourselves. As long as sin remains, there will be pockets of spiritual blindness in all of us.

Knowing the blinding power of sin, God blessed us with the mirror that is his Word (James 1:22-25). Looking into it intently will give you an accurate knowledge of yourself and a clear picture of the depth of your need for the grace not only of the Word of God, but of the God of the Word.

The 7-Minute Worship Team Check-In

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Band rehearsals are not usually super fun. Many times they are in the early hour or after a long day. The worship team and tech teams are all arriving with a variety of emotions, experiences and energy levels. Yes, your job as a worship leader is to get the band on track musically, but there is actually something more important that should PRECEDE music making.

Before your next worship team ehearsal do this one thing and it will transform the culture of your volunteer worship ministry.

As the leader, arrive earlier than everyone else. Do everything administratively and technically possible to make the stage ready (print charts, check audio lines, etc.). Musicians will arrive and get set up. Once you and your bandmates have monitors solid and are ready to rehearse…

STOP EVERYTHING AND DO THIS… 

Invite ALL the musicians into a circle. The drummer will have to come out of their cage and some might have to surrender their instruments. Invite the tech team down to the circle. Make sure everyone is looking at each other. (NOTE: At this point, there will be a little voice inside you SCREAMING that you don’t have time for this touchy-feely relational thing. Ignore that voice.) 

Quality Disciples Grow From Quality Bible Teaching

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As a small group leader, I take great comfort in knowing that in order to make quality disciples I do not have to hit home runs with every group discussion I lead or lesson I teach. I do, however, need to hit singles regularly. If people are not hearing something meaningful and applicable to them, you will probably not keep them for the long haul. The discussion and Bible study time does not have to be the greatest ever, but it must meet felt needs.

Quality Disciples Grow From Quality Bible Teaching

In many small groups—including one of the ones I am in now—the Bible teaching is done by way of video. This is fine. Perhaps not quite as good as good live Bible teaching, but better than poor live teaching!

If someone is not doing an effective job with the teaching portion, no amount of outreach will be enough to grow a thriving group and quality disciples will not be made. We need quality Bible teaching to make quality disciples.

5 Results Every Pastor and Church Desires From a Building Project

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No matter what size of building project, what the scope of work, or what the budgetary constraints, every renovation, expansion, or new construction project has challenges and potential pitfalls.  The responsibility of your building partner is to help you navigate all the hurdles, obstacles, and challenges with as little interruption to your main focus – ministry – as possible.  A building partner who understands this responsibility and takes it seriously, will deliver a project that meets or exceeds these 5 criteria.

Finish Your Building Project At or Under Budget

The first and foremost desire for every project is to stay within the budget.  According to a recent study, only 31% of projects were completed within 10% of their original budget and less than 1% were completed on budget.  That statistic is staggering and can be devastating to a ministry.  Other studies show that many leaders leave within 2 years of completing a building project due to cost overruns.  

The first important component is taking the right steps in the right order.  Too many times churches skip the first two or three critical steps and dive into designing their dream building.  This is a sure path to a project that will never make it to construction or, if begun, will end up well over the budgetary expectations.  

Another critical element is to ensure you are getting accurate construction costs during the design process.  Generalized square foot estimates of building costs will lead to underestimating the real cost of the entire project.  Price per square foot often does not account for the uniqueness of your project.  The site work from one project to another can vary by hundreds of thousands of dollars.  Your choice of interior and exterior finishes like tile over sealed concrete or stonework verses metal panel have significant impact to the cost of your building.  If an average square foot price is used, you may discover too late in the process that you are significantly over the dollars you have to spend. 

To ensure your project finishes on budget, engage a partner who clearly understands the right steps and helps you complete them prior to beginning design.  In addition, you need accurate pricing on every element of the project that is updated consistently as design decisions are made throughout the complete design process.  

A Building Project Design That Facilitates Your Ministry

No two ministries are the same, therefore when you engage a partner to help you design and build a facility, their first questions should be about your ministry, not about the building!  Nothing is more disappointing or costs leadership equity more than spending months or years planning, raising funds, and building a new facility that does not truly facilitate your ministry.  Designing facilities for ministry is unique.  It requires a team that understands much more than architectural design or construction, they must understand ministry.  The right questions during the design process are not simply, “how many seats?” or “How many children attend?” but ministry focused questions like “Pastor how are you comfortable teaching?” or “What curriculum do you use in your children’s ministry?” or “What are the 3-4 most important things you want to communicate during your weekend experiences?”  A design that flows from a clear understanding of “who” you are and the “how” you do ministry is the only way to ensure the results of your project will facilitate your ministry once it is complete.  You do not want to be in a position of needing a remodel after your first two weeks of service in your new building!

Minimal Impact to Ongoing Ministries

Nothing is more exciting, yet over time, more burdensome than a campus or facility that is under construction.  A ministry focused building partner understands that church happens every weekend.  As a former pastor, I get it that Sunday comes around once a week!  Your facility must be ready for guests, families, and a host of volunteers every weekend.  A building partner who understands the importance of your weekly ministry events – and even the unexpected events like funerals, should plan with your team how you will work together to provide a safe and workable facility during construction so ministry can continue.  This includes specific provisions in contracts, sub-contracts, etc. that address this need from the beginning and carries it out throughout construction.

Does Not Overburden Church Staff

A very common issue that can negatively impact or even destroy ministries is when the pastoral staff become distracted, embedded, or even consumed by a construction project.  By placing their focus and energy on the project, pastors can become wearied from the extra burden and often time end up neglecting their pastoral calling through this season.  God called pastors to shepherd, pastor, and lead the flock.  Thom Rainer notes that burnout and forsaken ministry are two major factors that lead to pastors leaving their ministry after a building project.  When you have the right partner walking with you, you should be able to trust the gifting and calling of your partner to let them lead and manage the project.  They should communicate with you to help you track the progress and ensure the project is remaining on vision, but not become a distraction to your ministry.  When the relationship with your builder and your pastoral staff is built on trust and transparency, this will allow your pastoral staff to fulfill their calling with peace of mind.  A pastor we are partnered with recently introduced me as his “building pastor”.  He spoke of how he felt shepherded through the entire design and building process and never lost a night of sleep throughout.

Changed Lives!

Consider every story in the Bible when God ordered His people to build.  The tabernacle, the Temple, the rebuilding of Jerusalem walls each of these events invited and involved people!  Of course, we all expect the completed building to enable the church to reach more people, disciple more effectively, or create space for new ministry opportunities which all result in changed lives.  

However, if the entire process is managed correctly, the journey from vision to occupancy of any ministry facility project should result in changed lives along the way.  The church should raise better stewards through a spiritually focused generosity campaign process.  The gifts and talents of church members can be utilized and stretched to create new leaders while serving on teams during the visioning, design, and construction process.  

But let’s not miss the ultimate opportunity to share the love of Christ to the mission field of workers God will bring to your campus during the months of construction.  You can pray for them in advance, show kindness to them day to day, and even go the extra mile by providing lunches, snacks, or cold drinks.  For many of the workers, this may be the first time they have ever been to a church facility.  Pastors should train and prepare their congregation to make the most of these moments.  If these men and women are treated differently on your project than any other they have ever been a part of, it will give Holy Spirit an opportunity to open the door to their heart.

Having the right partner to walk the entire journey with you that understands how to help you facilitate these results, and has a verifiable proven record of consistently delivering them, will lead to a successful project that Glorifies God and empowers your ministry.  

The Mark of a Political Christian

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There is to be one defining mark of a political Christian.

In the biography of Jesus written by John, we have the poignant final words and prayers of Jesus to and for his disciples before his death on the cross. It is considered by many to be among the most moving sections of the New Testament.

So what occupied Jesus during the moments before his death?

Not surprisingly, he wanted the world to know that his death was a sacrificial one—that he was laying down His life for theirs, paying the price for their sins, offering that death as a gift so that they could receive forgiveness and then enter into a full, intimate relationship with God the Father.

But how would that happen?

How would people know, beyond a doubt, that what Jesus was offering really was from God? That Jesus himself was God the Son in human form, come to planet Earth to show the way? How would it be authenticated in a way that would be unmistakable and would force people to reckon with it? What would be the unanswerable argument in His favor?

He told them: “This is my commandment: Love each other in the same way I have loved you” (John 15:12, NLT). And then He followed that with a prayer:

I’m praying not only for them
But also for those who will believe in me
Because of them and their witness about me.
The goal is for all of them to become one heart and mind-
Just as you, Father, are in me and I in you,
So they might be one heart and mind with us.
Then the world might believe that you, in fact, sent me.
(John 17:20-21, Msg)

The observable love between those who called themselves his followers was everything.

Why?

Jesus said it would be this unity, and this unity alone, that would arrest the world’s attention and confirm that he was from the Father.

There has been so much written about the growth of the early church—sociologists have studied it extensively. The explosion of faith in Christ in such numbers and speed that in only a blink of history, the Roman Empire had officially turned from paganism to Christianity. We look for formulas and programs, services and processes. The simple truth is that they fleshed out the challenge and prayer of Jesus.

As the second-century writer Tertullian observed, the awed pagan reaction to the Christian communal life was, “See how they love one another.”

So, what is the mark of a political Christian? It’s the mark of the Christian, which is love.

Loving unity in the Bible doesn’t mean uniformity, where everyone looks and thinks alike. And the biblical idea is certainly not to be confused with unanimity, which is complete agreement about every petty issue across the board. Christians can have robust political disagreements.

By unity, the Bible means first and foremost a oneness of heart—a relational unity.

Father’s Day Church Ideas: 12 Meaningful Activities to Honor Men

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Need fresh Father’s Day church ideas for your children’s ministry? Then check out the 12 suggestions we’ve collected below. All these messages, Bible lessons, crafts, and gifts will help you celebrate amazing dads and men.

Kids love to celebrate special people in their lives. And those special people love to feel appreciated! So plan now to make the day special with these meaningful Father’s Day church ideas:

Father’s Day Church Ideas: Bible Lessons

Here are a dozen delightful ways to express love and appreciation to fathers and father-figures.

1. My Father, the Encourager 

Use this children’s message to focus on fathers and other men who encourage kids.

2. Preschool Sunday School Lesson 

Next, try this great preschool Sunday School lesson with little learners.

3. Elementary Sunday School Lesson

Use this lesson in elementary classes to help students appreciate and honor their fathers.

4. Preteen Sunday School Lesson

Use this free Sunday school lesson with preteens to help them honor their fathers. This lesson is based on 2 Timothy 1:1-7.

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5. 3 Great Ways to Celebrate Father’s Day

Help boys in your ministry cultivate positive relationships with their fathers or special men in their lives.

6. Father’s Day Picnic

Invite all families (even those without fathers) to a special picnic on your church lawn or at a nearby park.

7. Father’s Day Tribute

On Father’s Day, we can celebrate our heavenly and earthly fathers. Try this tribute to make the day extra-memorable!

8. Father’s Day Fun

These four fun ideas are sure to make dads in your church feel special.

SC Pastor Addresses Rumors About Mica Miller, Threatens Lawsuits

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Two days after the Robeson County Sheriff’s Office released a statement regarding Mica Miller’s death, South Carolina Pastor John-Paul Miller has broken his silence through his attorney, Russell B. Long, and is refuting claims that he “groomed” his wife.

Miller made the shocking announcement that his wife had died by suicide on April 27 at the conclusion of his Solid Rock at Market Common Sunday sermon. Since then, friends and family have been questioning why Mica would have taken her own life and have been disclosing information regarding Miller’s character and the couple’s marriage.

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Shortly after making the announcement, Miller told The Christian Post that Mica had been diagnosed with “bipolar II, schizophrenic and dependent personality disorder.”

He also said that he and Mica got married in 2017, when Mica was 21, after an adulterous affair with each other. Both she and he were married to other people at the time of their affair, and they both got divorced so they could marry each other.

The couple first met when Mica was a 14-year-old in the church’s youth group; Miller is 14 years older than Mica. Mica’s friends and family said Mica told them she was groomed by Miller when she was young.

After the North Carolina Medical Examiner’s office determined that Mica died by suicide earlier this week (May 6), the Robeson County Sheriff’s Office released a detailed statement also stating that Mica died by suicide.

Miller is now addressing rumors about himself through his lawyer.

“Following the untimely death of Mica Miller, unfounded rumors and false accusations began circulating on social media and in various media outlets, suggesting Pastor Miller’s involvement in her demise,” Miller’s attorney said. “This created a buzz, causing local and national media outlets to be proliferating these falsehoods, on a mammoth proportion. Our client refutes any report that suggests he ever abused his wife.”

RELATED: SC Pastor Says Deceased Wife Had Been Diagnosed ‘Bipolar II, Schizophrenic and Dependent Personality Disorder’

Last Thursday (May 2), Mica’s brother, Nathaniel Francis, and Mica’s sister, Sierra Francis, submitted sworn affidavits to a South Carolina probate court regarding their sister’s estate. In it, Mica’s sister claimed that Mica “expressed abuse and violence against her by her husband.”

Mica’s sister also claimed that Mica was gathering divorce evidence to “support her claims against” her husband’s “abuse, character, his paramours, and associates he paid off or blackmailed.”

‘Hero’ Deacon Who Tackled Church Gunman Says He ‘Had To Do Something’

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L: Brandon Polite aims a gun at Pastor Glenn Germany. R: Clarence McCallister tackles Polite. Screengrabs from Facebook / @Glenn Germany

The church leader who tackled a gunman attempting to shoot Pennsylvania Pastor Glenn Germany in the middle of Sunday service May 5 said he knew he “had to do something.” Deacon Clarence McCallister was behind the camera, capturing Germany’s sermon on livestream, when 26-year-old Bernard Polite stepped in front of the stage, aiming a gun at the pastor.

“My pastor’s life was in danger. I had to do something,” McCallister told Fox News Digital. The shocking incident took place at Jesus’ Dwelling Place Church in North Braddock.

Those present say that Polite’s gun misfired. When Polite accosted the pastor, Germany flinched and took refuge behind the pulpit while McCallister ran from behind the camera, tackling Polite. With the help of Germany and another congregant, McCallister subdued the gunman and took his firearm. 

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“I heard it click, and I thought, ‘Oh, my God, thank God that gun jammed,’” McCallister said. “[Germany] ducked down, and the guy’s going after him. That’s when I leaped up out of that chair and went after the guy. I put his arms to his sides so he couldn’t move, turned him around and sat him down.”

Deacon Clarence McCallister Labeled a ‘Hero’

On the afternoon of Sunday, May 5, Pastor Glenn Germany was preaching from 1 Peter 1:3, which says, “Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ! In his great mercy he has given us new birth into a living hope through the resurrection of Jesus Christ from the dead.” 

This passage, said Germany, shows that believers should rejoice and praise God out of gratitude for his “abundant mercy.” As the pastor continued to expound on the text, explaining that Christians are called out of darkness into light, Polite stepped in front of Germany and pointed a gun at him.

Congregants expressed shock as Clarence McCallister and the other two men subdued the gunman. In the footage of the incident, McCallister can be heard asking someone to call the police. 

Afterward, Germany said, “I’m thankful to God that I’m still here because [Polite] definitely pulled the trigger.” The pastor called McCallister a “hero.”

Reports indicate that Polite’s mental health was suffering. “He said that he was possessed by spirits,” said Germany. “He said that it was spirits that was talking to him. It was spirits that told him to come and shoot inside the church.”

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“He was in the church for a while,” said McCallister. “He could have killed anybody, but the voice that he heard told him to kill the pastor.”

Cuba Gooding Jr Appears in Christian Film ‘Firing Squad,’ Breaks Silence About Diddy Lawsuit

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Academy Award-winning actor Cuba Gooding Jr. has broken his silence about being named as a co-defendant in a lawsuit against Sean “Diddy” Combs.

In February, Rodney “Lil Rod” Jones, a former music producer for Combs, filed a lawsuit in which he claimed that Combs sexually assaulted him on numerous occasions, among other serious allegations. That same month, two of Combs’ properties were raided by federal investigators. 

Gooding was added as a co-defendant in the suit in March, with Jones accusing Gooding of sexually assaulting and groping him while onboard Combs’ yacht. 

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Gooding will appear alongside Kevin Sorbo in the faith-based film “Firing Squad,” a movie inspired by the true story of three Christians who faced execution by firing squad in a developing nation. The film is set to be released on Aug. 2. 

“I start off every morning and I go to bed every night with the same prayer,” Gooding told The Christian Post last week. “Thy will be done. God’s will be done in my life.”

“A lot of times I’ve been in situations and scenarios that I know are dark,” he continued. “And I go, ‘I don’t know why I’m here and why I’m doing what I’m doing, but I know it’s God’s will.’”

During an appearance on the “PBD Podcast this week, Gooding spoke specifically about being named in the lawsuit against Combs. 

Referencing the FBI raid of Comb’s properties, Gooding told host Patrick Bet-David, “That’s the craziest thing I’d ever [seen].”

“And then, hey, how about me? I wake up in the morning; I turn on the ‘Today Show’ and…‘Cuba Gooding Jr.,’” Gooding continued. “And I was like, ‘Excuse me! Pull me into this?’”

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“I think whatever [Combs] is dealing with, he’s on his journey, man,” Gooding said. “I think God has got him on a path, where I can’t imagine that he’s stupid enough to do whatever he’s doing and keep it on his premises.”

Haitian Aid Workers Worry American Christians Donors Could Worsen Crisis

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Women and malnourished children wait their turn to be weighed by health personnel at La Paix University Hospital, in Port-au-Prince, Haiti, May 8, 2024. (AP Photo/Ramon Espinosa)

(RNS) — As the security crisis in Haiti continues, the humanitarian aid group Haiti Family Care Network is urging U.S. Christian donors to refrain from worsening the situation by donating to orphanages and to redirect their efforts instead toward initiatives helping parents support their children.

“There are actually better ways to care for the needs of children than building and supporting orphanages,” said Heather Nozea, chair of the network, which is part of Better Care Network, based in Guatemala.

In 2021, five humanitarian organizations created Haiti Family Care Network to change how relief for children works in the impoverished, often chaotically led nation. In 2011, the year after a 7.1 magnitude earthquake killed some 300,000, mostly around the capital, Port-au-Prince, orphanages proliferated from about 300 to 754, despite their failures to provide appropriate care for children.

“Everyone assumed that the best way to respond was by building and supporting new orphanages and it became a solution to problems without actually addressing the real problem,” said Nozea, who has worked in Haiti for eight years for Rapha International, an organization that fights human trafficking.

In many cases, parents placed their children in orphanages to guarantee they would receive consistent meals, health care and education. In some instances, children have been separated from their families simply to fill voids in orphanages, ensuring that the orphanage industry would continue to grow.

“More than 80% of them, they have families they can be connected to, so we prefer to call them residential care centers,” said Frédérique Jean-Baptiste, a child protection program manager for Catholic Relief Services based in Port-au-Prince.

The creation of these privately run agencies was made possible in large part by international donations, mostly from American Christians. According to a Lumos report, Americans donated $1.4 billion in the months after the earthquake, the bulk of it from faith-based groups. American Catholics alone were responsible for some $85 million of the total.

A 2017 report by IBESR, the Haitian adoption authority, revealed that only 30 of the 754 orphanages in Port-au-Prince met minimum standards of care. The report said the vast majority presented a risk for children and recommended their immediate closure.

Jean-Baptiste said cases of physical and verbal abuse are frequent in the orphanages. The Lumos report also draws attention to the suffering endured by children with disabilities.

A childhood in an orphanage has long-lasting effects on young people’s development, said Nozea, noting that, with many rules and daily structure, children are not given a chance to develop independence. Sometimes residents’ cognitive and personal development is slowed. Once they leave the orphanages to pursue life on their own, many of the young adults who grew up in orphanages show a lack of emotional, social and life skills.

Nozea said she has seen young adults unable to look after themselves and manage money. “The biggest populations that I’ve seen struggle in Haiti are young adults coming out of orphanages, who haven’t learned the life skills that a child naturally learns as they grow up in a family,” she said.

Armed gangs now control 80% of the capital through acts of terror, regularly resorting to physical and sexual violence and to kidnappings. Since January, 35,000 people have been displaced due to gang violence, and 1,500 have died.

A person lifts a sheet to look at the identity of a body lying on the ground after an overnight shooting in the Petion Ville neighborhood of Port-au-Prince, Haiti, Monday, March 18, 2024. (AP Photo/Odelyn Joseph)

A person lifts a sheet to look at the identity of a body lying on the ground after an overnight shooting in the Petion Ville neighborhood of Port-au-Prince, Haiti, March 18, 2024. (AP Photo/Odelyn Joseph)

This crisis has put additional strain on families’ capacities to provide for their children, and humanitarian workers share renewed fears that the 2010 scenario will repeat itself and more children will end up in orphanages.

Union Theological Seminary Votes To Divest From Companies Profiting From Gaza War

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Smoke and explosions rise inside the Gaza Strip, as seen from southern Israel, March 17, 2024. (AP Photo/Ariel Schalit)

NEW YORK (RNS) — Union Theological Seminary’s board of trustees voted Thursday (May 9) to divest from all companies profiting off the war in Gaza.

Union, a private, ecumenical school, shares a graduate studies program with Columbia University but is independent and maintains a separate, $127 million endowment, is the first U.S. institute of higher education known to divest from the war in Gaza.

“We do it with humility and we do it with a sense of moral conviction,” said Union’s president, the Rev. Serene Jones.

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In November, Union’s board of trustees, which includes Jones, hired Cambridge Associates, a private investment management company, to review the seminary’s investment portfolio to identify companies that are financially invested in the war in Gaza.

The board will now transition to selling its shares of the identified companies. “We have a very good investment committee who are completely, at a moral level, committed to seeing this through,” Jones said.

In a statement after the trustees had approved the measure, they said, “With respect to companies that are profiting from the present war in Palestine, we continue to
hold these standards high and have taken steps to identify all investments, both domestic and
global, that support and profit from the present killing of innocent civilians in Palestine.”

Chris Marsicano, an assistant professor of educational studies and public policy at Davidson College, cautioned that divesting could take months, or even years, explaining that a single investment group can be invested in thousands of companies at one time. Additionally, the hedge funds that manage university endowments are constantly buying and selling shares and changing their investment strategy for the financial benefit of the institution, which makes an investigation difficult.

Brown Memorial Tower at Union Theological Seminary in New York. (Photo by Chris06/Wikimedia/Creative Commons)

Brown Memorial Tower at Union Theological Seminary in New York. (Photo by Chris06/Wikimedia/Creative Commons)

As a seminary, Union already screens its investments based on social and environmental principles. “We don’t invest in any armaments or weapons,” Jones said. “It’s a small thing, but symbolically it’s an important step to take.”

“Although our investments in the war in Palestine are small because our previous, strong anti-armament screens are robust,” the trustees’ statement said, “we hope that our action today will bring needed pressure to bear to stop the killing and find a peaceful future for all.”

At Trinity College in Ireland, the school’s administration recently released a statement promising to “endeavour to divest” from Israeli companies after a five-day encampment led by student protesters caused conflict on campus. Student protesters in Ireland considered it only a partial victory as the university clarifies that divestment “will be considered by a task force as a first step.”

Calls for divestment have been a major demand of students participating in sit-ins and encampments at more than 100 colleges around the U.S. in protest of Israel’s response to Hamas’ terrorist attack and kidnapping on Oct. 7.

Union’s student body actively supported the dissenting Columbia students whose tents filled the university’s main quad in past weeks. Last month, a group of Union students hosted a Communion service in Columbia’s encampment attended by hundreds of people and held a small Passover Seder in Union’s courtyard for Jewish students suspended from Columbia.

“It felt like an ultimate integration of what I have learned at Union,” said Pearl Vercruysse, a third-year Master of Divinity student who participated in the Communion service, “and everything I’ve discerned as what I’m called to do in ministry.”

When Confused Church Leaders Speak on Combat Trauma and PTSD, Warriors Suffer

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In a recent viral video, John MacArthur, the well-known pastor of Grace Community Church in Sun Valley, California, told attendees of a Bible conference in California that “there’s no such thing as PTSD.”

MacArthur added,

What [PTSD] is, is really grief. You are fighting a war. You lost your buddies. You have a certain amount of survivors’ guilt because you made it back. They didn’t. How did you deal with the grief? Grief is a real thing, but grief is part of life. And, if you can’t navigate grief, you can’t live life.

MacArthur, like many other faith-based leaders, has an incorrect and unbalanced view about mental health issues and solutions. His uneducated and ignorant comments demand a direct rebuttal.

MacArthur’s comments disregard medical research and invalidate the many experiences and subsequent struggles I’ve seen in myself and in the combat veterans I work with daily. It’s the reason I started Shield of Faith Missions, a nonprofit that helps combat veterans wrestling with mental health. 

The effects of combat-related trauma run deep, down to the warrior’s very heart and soul. I know this from personal experience. 

As a former special operations officer, I was deployed to Iraq and Afghanistan multiple times. My most harrowing experience, by far, came when I deployed to the infamous Korengal Valley—known as “The Valley of Death” because so many Americans have lost their lives there. Our Special Forces team was there to shut down the combat outpost. We conducted a seven-day disruption operation that involved 72 hours of intense fighting. Intelligence reported over 200 Taliban fighters in the area.  

I am still reminded of the barrage of bombs through nightmares and random flashbacks. Combat leaves scars, and not all of them are physical. After enduring such extreme conditions for long periods of time, returning to the normalcy of civilian life is difficult. For many, war changed us—it certainly changed me. 

When a soldier has experienced a traumatic event, that trauma is processed in several ways. Humans are made up of multiple domains: psychologically, physically, socially and spiritually. 

The symptoms of PTSD occur psychologically, whereas moral injury transpires under the spiritual domain. To the untrained eye, the symptoms are similar, that’s why many church leaders get mixed up and are often confused. And in turn, those leaders confuse others.

Grief falls under moral injury—this is where man struggles with the forces of Good and Evil, God versus Satan, asking feverishly “Why God—why would you allow this to happen?”

What some faith leaders like MacArthur fail to understand is that resiliency to overcome the symptoms of combat trauma is more than spiritual. Sometimes, medication is needed. And yes, too often doctors toss out prescriptions to veterans like candy to kids along parade routes. 

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