Learn how the Easter message can change the lives of parents as well as kids. Longtime youth minister Theresa Mazza explains how to conduct outreach with teens’ families at Easter.
The death and resurrection of Jesus is for every student and every parent. During Holy Week, we remind teens that Jesus was a living sacrifice with a vision and plan for each of us. To be loved and to love. To be known and to know. Because of Jesus’ great love, we are free. We are alive in Christ. The Easter message is that simple!
But hold on… What if the gospel, what if Easter, isn’t that simple for everyone? What if living out the gospel is difficult for some family members?
Reaching Parents With the Easter Message
This Holy Week, let’s consider how we support families who feel spiritually ill-equipped and inadequate. We can encourage them. God’s grace and mercy are enough. Parents don’t have to be perfect to be spiritual leaders and influencers. And they don’t have to be Bible scholars to live out the gospel.
The truth is, we’re all inadequate. God doesn’t call the equipped; he equips the called. Few parents are vulnerable enough to admit that fear of biblical illiteracy keeps them from having spiritual conversations with their kids. These moms and dads depend on our spiritual leadership to guide their kids while they take a back seat.
But students need parents to take the front seat. Moms and dads often lack confidence in their own relationship with God. We know that God has a track record of loving and working through imperfect people. Through his Holy Spirit, he will love and guide parents and their teens.
Reaching Parents and Families at Easter
How can we partner with the work of the Holy Spirit? What can we do to help parents move from the back seat to the front? Start with these three essentials:
1. Engage.
First off, engage with people beyond drop-off and pickup. Moms and dads have a much more important role to play than taxi driver. By engaging with them, we become partners in ministry. We can see their spiritual needs and offer support and encouragement. We must invest in parent relationships.
2. Encourage
Second, encouraging parents is as important as communicating with them. They need to know that their role is way more significant and influential than ours. When was the last time you told a parent they were doing a good job? When did you tell a parent their student loves them?
Parents need to know they’re not alone. They need to know we’re backing them up. Even if it means calling us at 2 a.m. for support.