Spring Communication Resource Round-Up
In a variety of situations and on a variety of topics I’ve been asked for resources lately and I realized that it might be helpful if I passed them on to CCMag readers. The following links are a mixture— some very basic (but people are always starting out in church communications) and some more advanced web-creation resources. Some are links to free ebooks that I have (no strings attached, no signups or anything, just download). I’ve added a few comments on each so you won’t bother checking out ones that may not be useful to you. One more caveat, my ministry takes no advertising or affiliate relationships, the following are all ones I simply feel are useful for church communicators.
Basics
Lynda.com, http://www.lynda.com
This is one of the best resources for learning all things about communications, design, computers, online. I am a little concerned because they are in the process of being bought out by LinkedIn, so get it while you can. They only charge $25 a month for unlimited classes.
Communications Resources, http://www.comresources.com
A classic source for basic church artwork—though they have expanded into a lot of other useful resources such as their Online Member Directory. You don’t always need edgy, contemporary photos to illustrate your communications and their clipart is great for kids and many other traditional church ministries.
Lightstock, http://www.lightstock.com
When you do need the edgy, contemporary photos for your church communications, this group has some very nice ones. They aren’t the biggest, but I find when I want to create something for both print and the web as I did with a recent brochure and web feature for the adult discipleship classes at our church, out of the many resources I have, this is often the one I turn to. Pricing is average, but one major reason I’m listing this is that each week they give away free photos and a vector image, plus sometimes free video clips—worth getting on their mailing list for that.
Canva, https://www.canva.com/
If you haven’t tried Canva you are missing out on one of the greatest both design resources and training resources on the web today. Their Design School tutorials are free, easy, take just minutes, and have great quality content. Very contemporary designs, lots of fun.
Website resources
Upfront caveat from me—I think WordPress is the best way to build a website, for many, many reasons, too lengthy to detail here, and a skill every church communicator (and most staff members and pastors) should have. I have built many sites with it over the years and I continuously am amazed at all it does and what features are added to it. It is also free. You have to pay for hosting, but that can be minimal and instead of being locked into a proprietary system and cost, once you learn this (and it is easy to learn) WordPress is one of the most cost-effective way for a church to have a complete and flexible site. If something else is working for you great, but if you are checking out systems for websites, make WordPress on the top of your list.
WP101, https://www.wp101.com/
One of the best ways to get up and running quickly with WordPress. Easy-to-follow and understand tutorials. Sure, you can view a million of them on YouTube, but you never know what version they are demonstrating. This site constantly updates their training. In addition to basics, more advanced topics easily explained.
Note: Lynda.com, referenced above does have a number of WordPress tutorials—but for some reason, I think they are some of her weakest courses—this is much better for WordPress.
WP Beginner, http://www.wpbeginner.com/
Not only beginners, but everyone who uses WordPress can benefit from the blogs and resource links on this site. Not terribly advanced, but very useful materials.
“a free WordPress newsletter” http://wpmail.me/
This is the geeky newsletter with the latest news from the WordPress organization, developers, and gurus. However, it has a lot for ordinary users, including great articles about plugins and overviews of new themes that have passed the WordPress standards. It comes out once a week and I always find something useful in it.
Church Themes http://churchthemes.com/
My favorite theme site—for many kinds of WordPress sites—I recently discovered it and am building some sites with it. I wanted to wait to tell people about it until I launched them, but I like it too much to wait. The reason I like this site so much (other than the obvious reason of well-designed themes) is that it has the best tutorials for how to use the theme. I have spent way too much money buying premium themes that sounded so good and were next to impossible (for me anyway) to make them do what the demo theme did. The theme creator walks you through each step. You can modify the themes for many purposes other than churches, but it has great, built-in tools for a great church site.
Free e-books from Effective Church Communications
In the past, we sold these books, but decided to make all of them free for a limited time at these links. They are some of our most popular and helpful resources. The titles are self-explanatory. You have our permission to make copies and share them with whoever you want.
Are printed bulletins still needed in the church?
https://www.smashwords.com/books/view/52689
Church Connection Cards, Special Edition, connect with visitors, grow your church, pastor your people, little cards, big results
https://www.smashwords.com/books/view/53563
If you want the free KINDLE version of this book, go to this link:
http://www.amazon.com/Church-Connection-Cards-Yvon-Prehn-ebook/dp/B005CHQLYK/ref=sr_1_fkmr2_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1384731047&sr=8-1-fkmr2&keywords=Yvon+prehn+kindle+books
Devotions for Church Communicators, the heart of church communications
https://www.smashwords.com/books/view/55323
Mother’s Day and the often-missed evangelism and spiritual growth opportunities
https://www.smashwords.com/books/view/55831
The Six Strategies of Effective Church Communications
https://www.smashwords.com/books/view/165163
PLEASE share your resources! I know these are just a few of the great resources out there for church communicators. Please send your favorites to: yvon@effectivechurchcom.com and I’ll pass them on.
Pastor in Central India Attacked for Police Report on Prior Assault, Expulsion
Editor’s Note: Please be advised this article about a pastor in Khandwa District, Madhya Pradesh, India contains descriptions and images of violence and may not be appropriate for children or some other readers.
New Dehli (Morning Star News) – Tribal animists in central India who demolished a pastor’s house and drove him and his family out of their village in March seriously injured him in an assault this month, he said.
After beating, choking and pelting pastor Lalu Kirade with a stone in the April 3 attack, the tribal villagers in Khandwa District, Madhya Pradesh threatened to destroy his vocal chords as one of the assailants put her foot on his throat, he said.
“They had sprung on me like a pack of wild dogs,” Pastor Kirade told Morning Star News. “They told me to call upon my God to come and rescue me.”

Among the assailants was the man who began the assault on him in March for refusing to abandon Christianity, identified only as Laxman. In the most recent assault, the six men and two women of one extended family ambushed the 29-year-old pastor as he returned from a grocery shop near the yard where his family is living under the open sky three miles from his former home in Bilood village, he said.
They hit and kicked him, pulled his ears, dragged him by the hair and uttered profanity about Christianity and Christ, the pastor said, besides robbing him of rupees equivalent to US$51.
“The money was given to me as help during this [new coronavirus] lockdown period – it was all that I and my family had to survive upon,” Pastor Kirade told Morning Star News.
Laxman’s wife and niece began to throw stones at him, and a large one weighing more than half a pound hit the back of his head, he said.
“My head began to spin with the sudden strike,” he said. “Blood started to ooze out of the injury, and I fell on the ground. I heard the men shouting at Laxman’s wife for hitting me with a stone. They said they had planned to hit me in a way that I would not bleed. They scolded the women for not doing as planned.”
Laxman’s niece put her foot on his throat, choking him, as the others held down his hands and legs so he could not move, he said.
“I was gasping for breath and thought that I would die,” Pastor Kirade said, adding that Laxman’s niece said, “Call upon your God for help. You pray and preach using your vocal cords, I am going to bring an end to your voice today.”
A passer-by from Bilood village saw the assault and informed the church member in whose yard the pastor’s family is living. The Christian told Kirade’s father and mother, also living in the yard with the pastor’s children, and several relatives rushed to the scene “just in time,” Pastor Kirade said.
The Fault That Is (Not) in Our Stars
Once in a sermon, the great Baptist preacher, Charles Haddon Spurgeon, spoke strongly against owning slaves. In that sermon, he said about the emancipator William Wilberforce:
“Not so very long ago our nation tolerated slavery in our colonies. Philanthropists endeavored to destroy slavery; but when was it utterly abolished? It was when Wilberforce roused the church of God, and when the church of God addressed herself to the conflict, then she tore the evil thing to pieces. I have been amused with what Wilberforce said the day after they passed the Act of Emancipation. He merrily said to a friend when it was all done, ‘Is there not something else we can abolish?’ That was said playfully, but it shows the spirit of the church of God. She lives in conflict and victory; her mission is to destroy everything that is bad in the land. “(The Best Warcry, March 4, 1883)
Another great British thinker, CS Lewis, said that Christianity, too, is a fighting religion. Just as Jesus loved the world by combatting evil in the world, his followers will do the same. Advancing the good includes “picking fights” with everything that threatens and diminishes the good.
But before we are ready to fight the wrong out there…
The Fault In Ourselves
In Julius Caesar, Shakespeare’s Cassius says, “The fault, dear Brutus, is not in our stars, but in ourselves.” It is easy to look around and identify things that are wrong with the world and with others. But Jesus directs us to look first at ourselves. Before we can effectively address the fault in our stars, we must face the fault in ourselves.
“Why do you see the speck that is in your brother’s eye, but do not notice the log that is in your own eye? Or how can you say to your brother, ‘Let me take the speck out of your eye,’ when there is the log in your own eye? You hypocrite, first take the log out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to take the speck out of your brother’s eye.” (Matthew 7:3-5)
Scripture highlights a universal truth about the human condition: None of us is what we should be. Whether a short temper, a lustful eye, a haughty heart, a lying tongue, or some combination of these and other issues, each of us lives with a sickness of the soul – a sickness that keeps us from loving God as we are meant to love him.
When the body is sick, we who desire health will attack the sickness in multiple ways. We take our medicine, do our exercises, get plenty of rest, eat healthy, and whatever else the medical professionals tell us we must do. Similarly, sickness of the soul requires focus, energy, and action. It also requires honesty about the seriousness of our condition. The soul that is not carefully tended to—the soul whose health is not consistently fought for—will erode spiritually, emotionally, relationally, and in every other way. This is why the fight against the wrong in us is a most important and necessary fight. Emotionally intelligent and spiritually healthy people answer the question, “What’s wrong with the world?” in the same way that Chesterton is said to have answered the same:
“I am.”
5 ‘Preacher Thoughts’ About Birds Singing More Loudly During This Crisis
We preachers tend to find sermon illustrations in almost anything, and this post reflects nothing different. Because I’m a preacher at heart, my mind is always thinking about ways to illustrate biblical truth.
Early this morning, I heard a news report about songbirds seemingly singing more loudly during these days of the COVID-19 threat. That story caught my attention because I’m a birdwatcher. I’m continually amazed by God’s creative power evident in the colorful feathers and melodic voices of birds.
So, I found the story fascinating enough that I checked it out. Apparently, the birds are seeming to sing more loudly because the ambient noise of a busy, deafening population is currently so much lessened. Because we’re quieter, we can more clearly hear God’s creation sing. Here are my further thoughts:
- It’s good for us to face a situation that requires us to open more widely our listening ears. I mean this statement literally in the sense that we can indeed better hear creation around us. I also mean it figuratively, though, trusting that this current scenario is pushing us to listen more closely to God’s Word, His Spirit, and His people. We need to quiet our hearts, listen, and learn.
- We need to slow down enough to see God’s glory in creation. I enjoy hiking and camping, but I don’t always take time to see God’s creative power in the world around me. These unusual days, though, have pushed me outside and have caused me to turn my eyes and ears to God and His works even more. Just looking around helps us see God’s glory.
- Creation may sing of God’s glory, but it’s our job to tell the story of God’s glory in Christ. The rocks can cry out, but proclaiming the gospel to the ends of the earth is our responsibility. Nothing short of non-believers learning this story and responding in faith and repentance will restore their relationship with their Creator—and we’re privileged to tell that story.
- We must at least ask what kind of “noise” we believers contribute to the world around us. I pray it’s the good noise of the gospel resounding among the nations, but I fear it’s more often the bad noise of conflict, division, arrogance, hypocrisy, and personal kingdom-building. That kind of noise makes it more difficult for non-believers to hear the gospel message when we do speak it.
- It’s important that we sing God’s praises even in these tough days . . . perhaps especially in these days. The world takes note of the transforming power of the gospel not so much when we praise God while standing on the mountaintop, but when we can sing from the valley. My prayer is that the choir voices we’re hearing via the Internet today will continue to sing even more loudly after this crisis is over. We need to outsing the birds.
Here’s my suggestion today: no matter who’s listening, let God’s praises rise from your lips all day long!
This article originally appeared here.
6 Tips for Overcoming Virtual Meetings Fatigue
Most of us are still adjusting to a world where virtual meetings with screen captures of Zoom meetings have become the new selfie. In this time of social distancing, our only social contacts—outside of our households—are through a camera lens and a video screen.
In so many ways, we should be thankful for the technology that has allowed us to stay somewhat connected to the world around us.
But at the same time, we’re starting to feel the fatigue that comes with staring at tiny boxes of people on our computers.
- Small groups now meet online.
- Work meetings are online.
- Worship on Sunday is streamed to TVs, laptops, and mobile devices.
- Extended family chats are facilitated through Zoom.
So, what do we do when our minds and bodies start shutting down from virtual meetings overload? Here are six tips to overcome your Zoom/Hangouts/WebEx/Skype/FaceTime fatigue.
1. SCHEDULE BREAKS BETWEEN ONLINE MEETINGS.
It’s tempting to schedule back-to-back virtual meetings because the travel time is eliminated. We can easily jump to the next Zoom link instead of taking the elevator to the 5th floor conference room.
However, we need those few minutes to reset and refresh our brain for the next task. Build in a buffer of at least 10-20 minutes between your online meetings, and you’ll notice the difference.
2. USE THE PHONE OCCASIONALLY.
As an introvert (Chris) and an Enneagram 5, talking on the phone is not one of my top 100 things to do in a day.
I’m normally a text-first kind of guy, and if absolutely necessary, I make a quick, 30-second phone call, but even I’m seeing the need for connecting with people in one-on-one conversations.
Picking up the phone to find out how someone in your small group is doing can actually be revitalizing instead of draining.
You can also occasionally call in to that virtual meeting instead of videoing in. That gives you the opportunity to walk around and even step outside during it.
3. BUILD IN BREAKS DURING LONGER MEETINGS.
It’s amazing how much concentration it takes to engage in an online meeting. There are so many more distractions and things to look at than an in-person meeting in a conference room or someone’s living room.
Normal meeting actions, like looking out of the window while someone else is talking, can seem very disengaging on a video call.
You feel the need to focus on the screen the entire time. That makes a two-hour virtual meeting feel more like four hours.
It’s important to schedule in five- to 10-minute breaks every hour for participants to use the restroom or just disengage from a screen.
Make sure you use that time to look at something other than a computer monitor. Don’t use the break to check your email or update your calendar.
4. SCHEDULE SHORTER MEETINGS.
We know virtual meetings always feel longer than physical meetings, so plan for it and keep most of your meetings shorter. This applies to online church services as well.
If your normal Sunday service is an hour and a half, consider cutting the online version to an hour. Staring at a screen is not the same as participating in a gathering.
Instead, encourage participation by offering resources for families to use for a post-service discussion.
5. KEEP A “ZOOM SABBATH.”
Having a day scheduled each week for no meetings is good advice anytime, but especially now with everything taking place in one location. As this isolation goes on, lines drawn in our lives will begin to blur.
In this time it will be easy—and unhealthy—for the office to take over too much of our homes. Because of this you might consider, as a team, making certain days “meeting free” or giving team members the right to decline meetings for various reasons.
Etiquette would warrant always giving an explanation with any decline.
6. SCHEDULE TECHNOLOGY BREAKS.
Everyone’s calendars are different, and there will be some of us who have more meetings throughout the day than others.
Increasingly it’s going to be necessary that we manage our own days and do our best to keep healthy boundaries between home, family, and the workday.
Just like how there’s such a thing as “Zoom fatigue,” there’s also such a thing as too much technology and screen time.
Our new way of life, at least for the near term, necessitates we engage screens at a higher percentage than usual.
It’s crucial we put our devices away, step outside, maybe take a few minutes to breathe the air, go for a walk or a run, or even work on professional reading assignments.
It’s for this reason we recommend regular breaks from all technology throughout the day. If it helps, put yourself on a timer. These breaks are as important as your next task.
CHRIS SURRATT (@ChrisSurratt) is the discipleship and small groups specialist for LifeWay Christian Resources, a ministry consultant and coach with more than 20 years of experience, and the author of Leading Small Groups: How to Gather, Launch, Lead, and Multiply Your Small Group.
BRIAN DANIEL (@bcdaniel) is manager of short-term discipleship resources at LifeWay Christian Resources. Surratt and Daniel co-host the Group Answers podcast
This article about virtual meetings fatigue originally appeared here.
Distinguishing God’s Voice from the Circumstances of Life
Every believer wants to hear from God.
Why would you attempt to follow God closely if you didn’t want to know His voice or hear what He has to say?
Jesus said, “My sheep know my voice.” (John 10:27)
That’s especially true in the circumstances of our life. When life is happening — we want to know: Is this God? Is this what He is telling me to do? Is God trying to get my attention?
And, I believe, sometimes life if just happening. It’s not at all that God isn’t interested or in control. He counts hairs on our head and stores our tears in a bottle — He cares. But, sometimes life is life. Things happen. Doors open. Doors close. Jobs are lost. Health changes. The deal on the house we wanted falls through. We don’t get the scholarship we hoped we would. Life happens.
And, yet, I do believe God will use our circumstances to speak to us. He used a burning bush to speak to Moses.
I wish He’d use one to speak to me sometimes. I think I’d pay attention to that.
And, I think that’s part of the problem.
One thing I’ve observed is that we often expect God to speak in the grandiose voice of God. And, sometimes God speaks that way, but many times — at least in my life — God is more subtle than that. Often God speaks through those quiet moments, through other people, and through ordinary life’s circumstances.
In a crowded world of noise and life distractions sometimes it’s hard to understand what God is saying. Isn’t it?
How do we — in the midst of our circumstances — as mixed up and confusing as they can be — figure out what God could be saying to us?
First, I have to say this — it begins and ends in a relationship. If you don’t have a relationship with God through Jesus Christ — start there. (Read Romans 10:9 and if you have questions, email me.)
But, for those who have a relationship already — which is the majority of my readers — how do we hear God’s voice through our circumstances?
Political Polarization Is the Crisis We Should Be Fighting Right Now
Timothy Keller knows how to pastor diverse groups of people. He’s pastored a church in the heart of liberal Manhattan and a church in Hopewell, Virginia, a blue collar, southern town now favorable to President Trump, as he describes it. Keller has over 50 years of ministry experience, including experience planting churches and co-founding the Redeemer City to City church planting movement. You could say Keller has experience with a wide breadth of the American evangelical church. And while he describes himself as a political “amateur”, Keller observes a problem of political polarization that is plaguing the church right now.
“I would say our biggest problem right now is political disunity, not doctrinal,” Keller told us in a recent interview on the ChurchLeaders podcast. “It’s pretty remarkable. Nobody’s arguing about baptism or tongues or things like that anymore. They’re arguing about politics.”
We’re not the only ones Keller has spoken to about this crisis of political polarization in the evangelical church. In a 2018 interview with Maina Mwaura, Keller expressed his concern over some Christians growing more radicalized on both sides of the political aisle—but most noticeably the growing trend toward nationalism. He also described political polarization as one of the three main challenges the church is currently facing in an interview on the Faith Angle Forum podcast. Keller also recently published a book, Uncommon Ground, toward the end of helping Christians live faithfully in an increasingly pluralistic world.
How Did the Church Get Here?
Keller believes a shift has taken place in the last handful of decades among the liberal left that has alienated the blue collar workers they used to champion. “When the left was mainly about economic issues—it was mainly about lifting up the poor and the working class and unions and that sort of thing—there wasn’t as much of a bifurcation, I think, between your average real blue collar person and the intelligentsia who was a left-wing person.” However, Keller explains in his interview with Faith Angle Forum, “when the left moved into saying, ‘if you’re an Orthodox Jew or Muslim or Catholic or evangelical Christian, your social values are stupid,’” they crossed a line they have yet to recover from, Keller speculates.
In essence, Keller believes the left moved away from their platform based on economic issues and move toward “lifting up sexual issues and sex and gender and that sort of thing.” As blue collar people tend to be religious, Keller points out, this alienated many of them and contributed to the rift we are currently witnessing between the left and some religious people.
Another factor Keller mentions in this whole political polarization crisis is the media. He recalls pastoring in Hopewell during the 1970s and 80s when his congregants only had access to a few sources for national news and one Christian radio station that aired a lot of Bible exposition content. A pastor during this time, he explained, had more influence over what his or her congregants believed about social and political issues like sex, gender, and race.
Now, however, Keller says it’s “crazy, utterly crazy” how many different voices your average church-goer will be exposed to on these topics. Keller admits he’s not sure how the church should adapt to the deluge of information and opinions most people are exposed to on a daily basis. And the voices chiming in about these sensitive issues aren’t just coming from secular sources, either. Whereas Christian radio in the 70s and 80s concerned itself with Bible exposition mainly, today it’s a different story. Keller says he noticed a change in the Reagan era where Christian radio started to talk more about political issues.
What Is This Political Polarization Doing to the Church?
Keller believes political polarizations are undermining the church’s ability both to form people and to reach people. It is, in short, a “crisis” for the church. Again, Keller believes Christians are ending up in ditches on both the right and left sides of the narrow road we’ve instructed to walk. In the interview with ChurchLeaders, Keller painted the picture this way:
When I went to [Hopewell], I realized the Bible doesn’t just talk about sex and gender, it also talks about race and poverty, racial justice and economic justice, and when I got into conservative Christian circles down there, I found out that they were all combative about sex and gender but they basically looked the other way when it came to issues of racism and poverty and they said ‘that’s not our job–our job is to save souls.’ And that’s not what the Bible says…When we look at what the Bible says, we should be concerned about racial justice and poverty and we should be against same-sex marriage and we should be against abortion…Here’s Christians who are being sucked into either a secular liberal or a secular conservative direction.
In places like Washington D.C. and New York City, for instance, Keller notices younger evangelicals are moving toward sources of information like MSNBC whereas evangelicals in other parts of the country rely more on Fox News. Both of these sources, Keller points out, are secular. The implication that Keller is making here is that there is a “blue evangelicalism and a red evangelicalism coming up” that represents a crisis of disunity in the church.
And while some may be quick to point fingers across political aisles and blame the “other side” for our current polarization, Keller warns us not to be so quick to point. There are “conservative operatives doing everything they can to alienate evangelicals from the liberals. And liberal operatives doing everything they can to alienate the rest of the country from evangelicals. We’re constantly being pummeled over certain things,” Keller explains.
In fact, a book Keller is reading at the moment points out that American evangelicals represent a significant voting bloc not seen in other English-speaking countries like Canada, Australia, or the U.K. and therefore find themselves the object of an unfortunate tug-of-war. The book is called The Politics of Evangelical Identity by Baylor University Professor Lydia Bean and compares two American churches (a Baptist and Pentecostal church) in Buffalo, New York, with two Canadian churches (also Baptist and Pentecostal) in Hamilton, Ontario. While the four churches are geographically very close to one another and share virtually the same theology and “conservative moral attitudes”, they differ significantly when it comes to politics. Keller explains this is because in Canada, evangelicals represent a relatively small voting bloc and implies they are not targeted by politically motivated people in the same way American evangelicals are.
There Are 3 Kinds of Fear, But Only One Is Necessary in a Crisis
There are three kinds of fear. It’s an emotion we all know well, and in recent weeks, it’s one that has asserted itself in our minds and hearts. We fear both ourselves and loved ones catching the virus. We fear what will happen to our finances because of lost wages. We fear how long our life will be put on hold. We fear all the unknowns that lie ahead. And all these fears are exacerbated every time we turn on the news or scroll through social media. Fear, it seems, has spread as far and wide as the virus itself.
In the face of this crisis, how can we as Christians respond to our fears? It’s helpful to first identify the three kinds of fear found in Scripture, one of which is not like the others.
Three Kinds of Fear
The Puritan, John Flavel, describes these three kinds of fear in his book, Triumphing Over Sinful Fear. The first is natural fear. It’s the fear we feel in the face of danger, such as hearing a tornado warning on the news, coming upon a bear on the mountain trail, or learning of a viral pandemic spreading across the nation. Such fear is a natural and human response to harm. It’s what gets us to leave a building ablaze with fire. Flavel wrote,
“Everyone experiences natural fear. It is the trouble or agitation of mind that arises when we perceive approaching evil or impending danger. It is not always sinful, but it is always the fruit and consequence of sin.”[1]
Our natural fears are the result of life in a post-fall world.
The second of the kinds of fear is sinful fear. Flavel describes this fear as arising from unbelief, “an unworthy distrust of God. This occurs when we fail to rely upon the security of God’s promises; in other words, when we refuse to trust in God’s protection.” [2] Sinful fear grips and rules our hearts. It governs our choices and directs our energies and affections. It draws us to false idols in the hopes they will rescue and save us. It’s a fear that becomes a pattern in our lives, an immediate response to difficult circumstances. It’s the kind of fear that distracts us and keeps us from resting and trusting in God and his great love for us.
In terms of our current situation, we’ve all felt natural fear as we’ve heeded warnings and taken necessary precautions to protect ourselves and loved ones from harm. At times, we’ve likely felt sinful fear as we’ve worried about the unknown future. It’s the fear that makes us want to acquire and hoard. This fear also plays itself out in our mind with all the thoughts of “what if____?” — replayed over and over like a record set on repeat. Over these weeks, we may have even felt an intermingling of both these fears.
But there’s one more kind of fear which Flavel writes about, and that is the fear of the Lord. This fear is holy and other. It is not a terror-fear as we might feel in the face of a raging storm, but a fear rooted in a filial love for the God who adopted us as his beloved children and rescued us from sin. It is a fear that is filled with awe, wonder, reverence, worship, and love for our great God. As Flavel says, this fear is “our treasure, not our torment.”[3]
Throughout the Bible, we are called to fear the Lord (Deut. 6:24, Ps. 34:9, Acts 9:31). The fear of the Lord isn’t something that comes naturally to our fallen nature; rather, it is a fear implanted in us by God himself. “And I will put the fear of me in their hearts, that they may not turn from me” (Jeremiah 32:40). What grace! God calls us to fear him, and then gives us a holy fear of him.
The fear of the Lord is a fear that sees God as greater than all other fears. And, as the Bible teaches, it is the antidote to all our lesser fears.
Matthew 10 and a Greater Fear
In Matthew 10, after Jesus had called all the disciples to follow him, he prepared to send them out to preach that the kingdom of God was at hand. He told them to heal the sick, raise the dead, and cast out demons. He warned them that some would listen to them and some would reject their teaching. He also warned them of future persecution where they would be hated and beaten and brought to trial. It is amid these warnings that he also taught them about the fear of the Lord:
“What I tell you in the dark, say in the light, and what you hear whispered, proclaim on the housetops. And do not fear those who kill the body but cannot kill the soul. Rather fear him who can destroy both soul and body in hell. Are not two sparrows sold for a penny? And not one of them will fall to the ground apart from your Father. But even the hairs of your head are all numbered. Fear not, therefore; you are of more value than many sparrows.” (vv. 27-31).
This passage teaches that a fear of the Lord weakens our lesser fears. The disciples were to replace their fear of harm from man with a fear of the Lord. While man might very well harm them physically, even to the point of death, it is God who held the power over the destination of their souls. He is the sovereign One who knows all the hairs on their head. He cares for them more than the creatures he watches over each day. God is the one whom they were to fear.
The Bible teaches us that when we are fearful, we are to replace that fear with a greater fear, a holy fear of the Lord. We do so as well dwell on who God is and what he has done. We do so as we focus on God’s character: His sovereignty, holiness, righteousness, goodness, and faithfulness. We do so as we remember all he has done for us in Christ, when he conquered our greatest fear—eternal death and separation from him—at the cross. We do so as we relish and cherish all his promises for us. In the face of a holy fear, our lesser fears weaken; they lose their grip on us.
As this crisis continues, we will likely face more fears. When these fears arise, may we cry out to the One who gives us a holy fear of him. May we look to him and see him as greater than all our fears.
Note: This piece is inspired by Christina’s book, A Holy Fear: Trading Lesser Fears for the Fear of the Lord, published with Reformation Heritage Books.
Notes
[1] Flavel, John. Triumphing Over Sinful Fear (Grand Rapids: Reformation Heritage, 2011), p.8.
[2] Ibid, p. 12.
[3] Ibid, p. 19.
This article about three kinds of fear originally appeared here.
In Gratitude for the Often Forgotten Pastor’s Wife
As October has so quickly concluded, we look back on Clergy Appreciation Month in hopes that every pastor was encouraged and honored in some way. This is an important and biblical engagement. Yet, before we move too far past this necessary emphasis, I am mindful of some unsung heroes that we must acknowledge–the often forgotten pastor’s wife.
Proverbs 3:27 says, “Do not withhold good from those to whom it is due, when it is in your power to do it.” Romans 13:7 commends, “…respect to whom respect is owed, honor to whom honor is owed.”
The often forgotten pastor’s wife fulfills a unique call, carries a special burden, and is often overlooked.
She deserves a level of appreciation and honor that is seldom expressed as is merited.
Last week at our conference in the Toronto area, a moment was set aside to honor pastors’ wives. This proved to be a powerful and emotional moment for us all. Karl Whittingstall, the Pastor of Student Ministries at our host church, Hope Bible Church,[i] read a moving tribute to pastors’ wives.
I was so touched, I wanted to share it with you today. I felt deep regret for not honoring my own wife as I should have over the years. We all felt a fresh burden to pray for and encourage those faithful spouses who stand willingly alongside their husbands.
Here is Karl’s tribute:
To the often forgotten pastor’s wife, the woman often behind, but so faithfully beside, a man God has called to labor for Him.
Your husband stands on stage and preaches, leads your church in worship, cares for other people’s needs, points groups to Jesus, hangs out with church members, goes on missions trips, leads retreats, counsels people, works with other leaders, and makes hard decisions. Everyone sees him, but often, and usually unintentionally, overlooks you. It isn’t easy to be you, and we all publically acknowledge that right now.
You endure so much!!
A husband worn down mentally, physically, and spiritually from caring for others struggles to come home with enough gas in the tank to care for you. You are often privately under spiritual attack, the evil one distracting your husband by what God has called him to publically.
You are often left alone with the kids while your husband goes out night after night, to retreat after retreat, elder’s meeting after elder’s meeting, missions trip after missions trip, to one worship practice after another – while you are putting the kids to bed alone, cleaning up from dinner by yourself, and doing so much you are not thanked for.
“But aren’t you excited to see how the Lord is moving?”
You answer yes, because you know it’s right, but it is hard.
For all the times you held down the fort while we went to work; For all the times you would have loved to see God work up close and change a heart; For the times you skipped prayer meetings to stay home with a snotty-nosed infant, a daughter with a fever, or a son with the flu; For all the days off or evening dates that didn’t happen because of ministry…
We can’t give you those back, but we can say, “Thank you,” and try to love you better.
Right now we acknowledge your service and sacrifice. We don’t do this enough, and for this we are sorry. Please don’t be discouraged, pastor’s wife. The LORD SEES IT ALL. He knows your frustration, your discouragement, and your times of hurt and loneliness. You carry a burden that is no doubt different from, but just as weighty as your husband’s. Do not believe the lies of the evil one that you are not being used, that you are somehow “just” a pastor’s wife.
You are the smile, the warmth, the comfort, the faithful, prayerful, patient, more-helpful-than-you-could-even-know partner to the man God has called to labor for Him. You might not often be seen or even be with him, but he can’t do it without you beside him.
You are not “just” a pastor’s wife. You have been specifically called by God to this role. It isn’t easy, but this is why we love you, this is why we pray for you, this is why we can do what we do—because we do it alongside you.
Thank you for your prayers. Thank you for your endurance. Thank you for your wisdom. Thank you for your correction even when we don’t want to hear it. Thank you for your grace. Thank you for your honesty, loyalty, and patience.
From every pastor and ministry director to their wife: We love you!
I encourage you to write or call an often forgotten pastor’s wife today and let her know you love her, respect her, and deeply appreciate her faithful obedience to her calling and her sacrificial support for the Lord’s work. Honor to whom honor is due.
This article about the often forgotten pastor’s wife originally appeared here.
Telling Right From Wrong Can Lead Us To God
Where did we get the ability to tell right from wrong? Evolution has no explanation for this, but creationism does. Please don’t overlook this fact. It’s a big problem that evolution has no way of explaining human morality. This is important because this is what separates us from the rest of creation. We don’t see animals living by moral standards because only humans have this unique attribute to tell right from wrong.
The Bible teaches that since God made humans in His own image, He gave us the ability to distinguish right from wrong. We see evidence of this as we witness our children exhibit this knowledge at a very young age. For example, if we tell our child to not touch a hot stove, inevitably the child will wait until we look away so they can reach out and touch it. They attempt this while we’re not looking because they intuitively know that what they are about to do is wrong.
In fact, none of us ever had to learn how to lie. None of us ever had to take a class to learn how to lust. And none of us had to read a book to learn how to be jealous or wish harm to our enemies. To sum up, none of us ever had to learn how to sin. Not only do we naturally know how to sin, but we sometimes even hesitate before we are about to do something wrong because we wrestle in our souls as we contemplate it. Each of us has embedded within us a moral code, and we immediately know when we violate that code.
So where did this knowledge come from?
The Bible teaches that it comes from God. God gave us a conscience, and our conscience is the part of us that signals what we are about to do is wrong. It’s also the part of us that causes guilt after we’ve done something wrong. We all know the difference between a guilty conscience and a clear conscience (Romans 2:14–15).
So if our conscience enables us to differentiate between right and wrong, then why don’t we always follow our conscience? Why don’t we always live up to that moral code each one of us has inside our souls? We violate our conscience because we like to take matters into our own hands just like the child did when touching the hot stove. None of us likes to be told what to do, so we prefer to be “judge” and decide for ourselves how to live. However, the problem with this is none of us can be an impartial judge when making decisions. This is because something else comes into play when we make choices—namely, desire. Desire plays a significant role in making moral decisions. Our conscience may tell us one thing, while our desires may tell us the opposite. Instead of making decisions that are purely based on right versus wrong, we are easily tempted to make decisions that favor our desires.
But is there an absolute moral standard? The Bible says yes. And that moral standard is set by God. This is why He gave us commandments: they teach us what is right from wrong. I wrote in chapter 1 that truth is true regardless of whether I know it, whether I agree with it, whether I like it or believe it. Therefore, regardless of how I feel about it, the Bible teaches that God is both Lawgiver and Judge.
But again, we don’t like this very much. We like to run our lives according to how we see fit. But here’s an example of how that scenario plays out:
John says, “I decide what’s right and wrong in my own life. I’m the god of my universe.”
Then Bill says in response, “Well, John, I’m going to kill you.”
John says to Bill, “You can’t kill me. You can’t do that!”
Bill answers, “I’m the god of my universe and I say I can.”
Do you see the problem with each of us wanting to decide for ourselves what is right and wrong? In fact, listen to what the world says and before long you will hear statements like, “Do whatever makes you happy, as long as it doesn’t hurt anyone else.” This may sound fine on the surface, but who are we to decide what may or may not hurt someone else? Throughout the ages, there have been many choices made in the pursuit of happiness that have indeed hurt others.
We are naturally drawn to any subjective morality code that allows us to live out our desires. This is why there are such deep differences when discussing issues like abortion, capital punishment, sex outside of marriage, and homosexuality. This is why there are so many differences in how families are run, or how countries are led.
The Bible teaches that God has given us a conscience to speak to our souls in the matter of what is right and wrong and we immediately know when we have made choices that go against our conscience. How could this have come from evolution? There’s no good explanation for the existence of morality other than what the Bible says.
This article is an excerpt from Fara Martin’s book, Truth Exists.
6 Reasons to Know Your Ministry Context
The American philosopher John Dewey said, “I should venture to assert that the most pervasive fallacy of philosophic thinking goes back to neglect of context.”
Could it also be said of church leaders today that our most pervasive fallacy of ministry thinking goes back to a neglect of context? I think so, but you might expect that from a guy who sees most of our leadership sins through the lens of photocopied vision.
Remember when Paul said in 1 Corinthians 9:22 that he was willing to “become all things to all men in order to save some?” He was reminding us that our strategy for evangelism must be connected to our awareness of context.
The original meaning of context is “to weave together” and is often used in grammar. When words are taken “out of context” (like we often say about a Bible verse), we are breaking the natural “weave” by removing elements before, after, and around the words that add to a full and accurate sense of meaning.
With ministry, we often bring strategies, ideas, and plans for reaching or discipling people that neglect context. That is we fail to weave our strategies together with realities of culture that live before, after, and around what we do. The result is not a lack of “meaning” in the grammatical sense but a lack of effectiveness in connecting with people.
Think for a minute about why context should inform strategy:
- Context carries localized assumptions about faith and God
- Context creates localized nuances of and uses for language
- Context encodes a history of heroes and enemies for your community
- Context transmits a collective conscious of successes and failures
- Context reflects and reinforces your community’s deepest hopes and fears
- Context shapes and is reshaped by the real-time shared experiences of its people
Here are two action steps:
1) Consider what you are currently doing in ministry that was designed by someone else in a different context. Reexamine how your context might inform ways to tweak that ministry.
2) Before planning a new event, program, or ministry initiative, spend some time thinking about context. And then let context inform strategy.
It’s Good to Please People; It’s Bad to Please People.
by John Piper
Life is not simple. So language is not simple. Different situations in life call for different ways of living. The language that describes those differences can be very confusing.
For example Paul says he tries to please people and he doesn’t try to please people. (Same Greek word for “please” both times.) Wise listeners are slow to judge. They assume he’s not speaking out of both sides of his mouth.
He says to the Corinthians, “Give no offense to Jews or to Greeks or to the church of God, just as I try to please everyone in everything I do, not seeking my own advantage, but that of many, that they may be saved” (1 Corinthians 10:32-33).
And then he says to the Galatians, “Am I now seeking the approval of man, or of God? Or am I trying to please man? If I were still trying to please man, I would not be a servant of Christ” (Galatians 1:9-10).
And here is a real life concrete illustration of both commitments: to please and not to please.
When Paul called Timothy into his service he had him circumcised. Why? Here’s his answer:
“Paul wanted Timothy to accompany him, and he took him and circumcised him because of the Jews who were in those places, for they all knew that his father was a Greek.” (Acts 16:3)
In other words, Paul sought to avoid unnecessary stumbling blocks in his evangelism among Jews. He was free to circumcise or not. So he did. In that sense he sought to “please” them.
But in Jerusalem, where people were requiring circumcision in order to be saved (Acts 15:1).
In other words, he did not please those who wanted Titus circumcise. Why didn’t he yield? He answers: “To them we did not yield in submission even for a moment, so that the truth of the gospel might be preserved for you” (Galatians 2:5).
This calls for great gospel discernment. We do not want to put unnecessary obstacles in the way of the gospel. To please or not to please? Yes. And one way we know which is by asking: Will the gospel be advanced? Will the gospel be compromised?
Chris Tomlin Performing “Good Good Father” Is Just What Your Soul Needs This Weekend
Music has the power to minister to our hearts in ways nothing else can. That’s what I feel when I watch Chris Tomlin’s performance of “Good Good Father.”
When life gets hard and we grow weary, we need to remember we have a gracious Father in heaven who cares for us. He is perfect and he loves us despite our flaws.
May your good, good father remind you of his loving kindness in fresh ways through this powerful song.